Did I do the right thing?

Question

Well to make a long sory short I met a guy at work, he gave me my 1st kiss, I feel in love, and he told me I couldnt be his gilrlfriend because I wasnt willing to have sex wit him and hes used to having girls that are willing. I told him I wanted to wait till marriage and thats what i still plan on doing. Im still a virgin and people say im doin the right thing. But anyways during that time of our fling (kissing thats it!) he would lie to me and say he didjt have a girlfriend when he really did. Well it turns out he loves her and hes back together with her. Well even while he was with his girl he would tell me he liked me and that i was beatiful gorgeous etc blah blah blah. Well he currently works somewhere else and so do i. I usually go to his store with my mom cuz she shops there and I always see him. Well I am very shy around him and i end up saying nothing but i do sheepishly smile. Anyways he called me yesterday and asked why i always go to his job and say nothing like idont

sory wasnt done yet!! But neway, he asked me that and i said i dont call u cuz I dont know u. And he too kit all personally but i only said it cuz i was kinda mad. Well he said he was gonna delete my number from his phone and never callme again and he hung up on me. I decided 2 write him an email and tell him how i felt and i even ended our friendship. Was it the right thing to do?

Answer 1

Definetly,sounds to me like he was using you just to get some action,he was a lying snake in the grass.

Answer 2

Yes let him go and help him stay away. You have the right to stop relationships when you know they don't work. Waiting for disaster is not necessary. Growing up is a series of goofs that if you're paying attention will teach you how and when to say no. Good job!