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So I like this friend of mine who also likes me, but Im not 100% sure I wanna go out with her because I dont neseccarily wanna. I just like her a lot, and its hard wanting to stay single and like someone...that likes you back. So if I were to ask her out, what should I say? How should I approach my friend? Is it a good idea or bad, because shes a friend? Should I just tell her I like her and have it come out that way? Or should I be more "friendly" to her by doing "school-ish" things...like poking her and tickling her?

Thanks.

2007-01-21 16:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

i say be friendly and start to tickle her and poking and telling jokes. also tell her that u like her and see if she wants to take things to the next step or not.

2007-01-21 16:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 4 · 0 0

C'mon ... what's the worst that could happen?
Instructions
•STEP 1: Take advantage of the telephone. If things start going south, you can excuse yourself from the conversation easily.
•STEP 2: Be sure to identify yourself when you call. This saves both of you from the uncomfortable "who?"
•STEP 3: Try not to blurt out your invitation. Ease into it. Start a conversation. If you start having second thoughts, you can always call back later.
•STEP 4: Make it easy on yourself. A movie is better than lunch or dinner. It doesn't require much conversation, and you don't end up staring at each other all night.
•STEP 5: Bring up a movie that's been recently released. Ask if she's seen it. If she has, you've opened the door to talking about films. If she hasn't, ask her if she'd like to.
•STEP 6: If she says no, be direct. Ask, "Is that a bad time or are you just not interested?" Her answer could surprise you, and you're leaving it up to her to decide how to handle it. If she's really your friend, she won't be brutal with you.
Tips & Warnings
•If you say you will call her, do it within a couple of days. Remember, she's your friend

2007-01-22 00:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0 1

Seems to me that your not sure about liking her enough to ask her out, but if you are interested and are 100% ready too, then here's some advice: 1. Approach her like you normally would 2. Ask her if you could talk to her 3. Tell her you like her more than a friend 4. Grab her hand and tell her you really like her. That's all I got, Good Luck! and hope I helped! :)

2007-01-22 00:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by erinxcore 1 · 0 0

I think you answered your question at the beginning when you said you're not 100% sure you wanna go out with her because you don't necessarily wanna. I would say, don't ask her out because you're not positive you like her.

2007-01-22 00:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0 1

Just ask her-- if you don't you could be losing
your Love of your life and your bride that was
meant to live with you forever-Go fo it.......

2007-01-22 00:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by gibson_smark 3 · 0 0

cool

2007-01-22 00:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Luke_89 2 · 0 0

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