My bf dumped me and it was harsh for no good reason at all....on CHRISTMAS. Now hes hooking up with a girl who was my friend.
He says he is still physically attracted to me
While we went out he said he loves how small i was (5'2, 110 lbs) because hes a football/bball player and liked to pick me up alot.
He says he still thinks I'm hot and I think it's perfect because now I'm 101 lbs and his other girl is pretty big.
Honestly, I'm not trying to stop eating, I LOVE eating..I just really have had zero appetite lately and and impulse to go running. Last night when he saw me he scooped me up and tried to start kissing me (he was drunk) and said "Holy sh** I can feel your ribs. Why did I dump you!?" I pushed him away and laughed at him.
Why am I not hungry? Now I'm seeing maybe its a good way to get back at him because he REALLY tore me apart. I loved him and was very good to him...and now I have lost 2 friends thanks to him. Is this a good way? Is 101 lbs healthy?
2007-01-21 16:13:43 · 21 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I DON'T want him back...I think he deserves to want something he can't have. I'm not trying to lose weight at all...I honestly don't have an appetite like I used to.
2007-01-21 16:22:10 · update #1
First of all, I have to say, this guy is a complete jerk. He does not deserve you or any other girl for that matter. If he wants a girl just because she's skinny and that he can feel her ribs, he's a complete waste of time. As for the hunger thing, you're probably depressed or stressed out and that's why you're not eating. Sweetie, don't give this guy the time of day. He's an a**hole.
2007-01-21 16:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by kchan67 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 04:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by Vicki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not healthy your under weight and he's a freeloading jerk. Don't take him back and you'll eventually get over the eating thing and go back to normal. He's physically attracted ya..but what about you and your feelings on the inside. If your saying he dumped you on Christmas, then how much does that say he loves you?
Being under weight will cause you to have health problems in the future, so start getting healthy now, good luck!
2007-01-21 16:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by *Beautiful Zephyr* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are wanting to stay small that is one thing, but not eating is another. I understand that you could loose your appetite, but you have to make yourself eat. Too skinny, is NOT attractive. I weigh 110 and I am 5'2. I try to stay at a healthy weight with diet and exercise. I never go without eating but I also don't binge and try to eat everything in sight neither. You need to leave this jerk alone and realize that there is someone better for you. It seems to me that he is playing the field. He will always be the one that goes out to eat and after they bring the plate out, wish that he would've gotten what his friend ordered.
2007-01-21 16:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by kris10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ribs are sticking out, no, it's not a good thing. Breakups are hard on a person, especially if you are the one who got dumped. Try to eat regular meals. Don't kill yourself over this guy. He's a jock and he's in love with himself because of the popularity he enjoys right now. Take away the sport and he'll probably be nothing. Take care of yourself and you deserve better than a guy who is just physically attracted to you. It's obvious he is shallow.
2007-01-21 16:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First Please don't get back together with him, He is so not worth all the trouble. He hurt you bad obviously, now the reason your not eating is because your upset and when your feeling anxious and upset you don't have an appetite. You need to get him out of your head and start taking care of yourself, you might get sick from not eating. He sounds soooooooo shallow , "only wants girls that are rake thin"!. I mean you can go running there is nothing wrong with being healty but start eating some good food, your favourate fruit and see how you go, I wish you all the best.
2007-01-21 16:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 5'2 and i weigh 102- 109 it goes between those numbers all the time never under or over. I think your fine. Don't worry smaller may be a problem i felt a bit I'll when i was smaller than that. But leave that dick alone cause he only wants you now that you look good find a better guy who likes you for you.
2007-01-21 16:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by Just a girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be worry about how your weight is....101?? that is not healthy...you need to gain a few more weight than that...and with that guy...he's a jerk...he doesnt deserved you....find someone who will make you feel like a lady and not someone's trophy....that he could get it back whenever he wanted to after very other girl that wont fit his list anymore.....
2007-01-21 16:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for ur age no. just eat not every minute but at least three times a day. no it is not a good way to get back at him. he likes u because u r skinny and able to be picked up that is the only reason he still feels attracted to u.
2007-01-21 16:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like your ex is only attracted to you physically.
It sounds like you're stressed which can cause you to not want to eat.
Go out with another guy to get your mind off of him, or just chill out and spend some good quality time with your other friends or family.
What kind of person dumps somebody on Christmas, my favorite holiday? What an ****!
eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, geez!
2007-01-21 16:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by coffeemate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋