Long story short me and my husband were hanging with his cousin they wer having drinks ect .. it was an interesting night and I didnt think much of it untill tonight my husband commented on the girls there and how they teased him by dancing together and grabbing on each other ... they were 17 and 18 and acted it in more ways then one it didnt really bother me ..Im 26 and my husband is 29 he hasnt stopped talking about them sense we left ..I feel threatand am I paranoid or insecure ? Im a mom we share a child and im actually pregnant again with our 2nd child lol maybe my hormones are getting the best of me but im annoyed by his constant talk on these 2 girls and how they acted through out the night am I over reacting we wer about to make some loving but once again he started talking about them and how they teased him ect so i rolled over and he went to bed mad LOL
2007-01-21 16:17:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your husband you seen two guys doing that. It will crush his excitement in a heart beat! Men like to think that women on women is exciting, but the reality is, it's just a fantasy.
If it bothers you still, talk to him sincerely and tell him your feelings. His constant talk could be just a hint for the two of you to "spice it up a bit".
Hope this helps.
2007-01-21 16:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men have a fantasy or 2. Maybe this was one of his. The young girls acted inappropriately and so did you husband by rambling on for days, but have you told him that it bothered you?
2007-01-22 00:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by heatherhedyjon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are over reacting. I mean, you might feel a little insecure because of the pregnancy, but he is disrespecting you by keeping on about the girls. You should tell him in a serious, adult, non-confrontational voice, "I don't appreciate you continuing to talk about those girls."
2007-01-22 00:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's just thrilled over the fact that too teenage girls were teasing him thats all, i don't really think it's nothing to get all shook up about....but it can get a lil nerve wrecking hearing about it all the time...you can either ignore him when he talks about it...or throw it right back at him you know talk about some cute guys...cause you know how it goes most ppl can't take back what they put out...good luck!
2007-01-22 00:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it get to you, and don't let him know it gets to you. Yes, he is being immature and juvenile. So you take the high road. The next time he starts in on what those girls were doing, smile indulgently and say: "It's really amazing that you take this much interest in the antics of those children."
2007-01-22 00:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a typical man. Most men do go ga ga over things like that. If he continues to talk about it kick him to the curb, no one deserves to be belittled expecially if they are carring their child. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-22 00:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by wlc87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strippers do all and say all to get men to give money.
no need to feel insecure. hot 18 year old girls not looking for 29 year old men unless men have lots of money.
2007-01-22 00:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are always gonna look, it's their nature. It makes them feel young again I guess I dunno. but if you give your husband your best and take care of him, he won't stray....Just relax and enjoy your life together!
Good Luck!
2007-01-22 00:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by snickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋