I have been into swinging for a while and I just want to find a sex buddy, but it seems that every man I meet wants to be tied up and beaten, or spanked. True, I have been into BDSM for a while but I just want to find a sex buddy. I have enought subs already ( I don't have sex with a sub). Do all men have a fantasy to be spanked and treated like a bad little boy?
2007-01-21 16:16:19 · 10 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
North Star, bring it on baby.
2007-01-21 17:54:28 · update #1
I want to meet the people you meet. Almost every man I have met is freaked out about stuff like that. I think you have to get into a different type of setting to find what you are looking for.
2007-01-21 16:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by sweetbabyart212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not into being spanked, and I don't want to be treated like a bad little boy. However, if you'd like to be spanked, I happen to have a wicked spoon and an imaginative disposition. :)
However, I DO like a woman to be aggressive. If she's aggressive, then that means that she's really into what's going on. Talk about an ego boost!
2007-01-22 01:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by NorthStar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to believe most men enjoy being dominated, but there are some who do not. There are many people who are not into this lifestyle, so I don't see why you are having problems with it. Never tie a man up, you want him to use his hands (good excuse from Basic Instinct).
2007-01-22 00:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It appears that the type you go for does. Fact is that not all men swing that way. You may have to asses why (or where) you hook up with a guy and adjust that.
(Or why you just attrackt the wrong guys)
(Don't ask me how though)
Good luck.
2007-01-22 15:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Don't look too close! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men just want whats coming to them! My husband loves it when I have all the control. Most men I know love women to be aggressive. Go get em!
2007-01-22 01:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by Breezey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the guys that I have been with love to get a little kinky! It makes them feel like their are bad little boys!
2007-01-22 00:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by littlecloieinttown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, i'm down with just sex and then a nap. anytime!
2007-01-22 00:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by americarocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. But we all want 2 chicks at once.
2007-01-22 00:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by g g 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
not I said the cat!
2007-01-22 00:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a big negatory
2007-01-22 00:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋