Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

i was at my boyfriends house and we got in a big fight and he hit the crap out of me and liked to beAt me up he told me he would hurt me worse if i told wat do i do he will hurt me

2007-01-20 11:08:42 · 47 answers · asked by caylee d 2 in Singles & Dating

After the affair is over? How long has it been? Why did you cheat, and how did you feel about the other woman/man? I am just a little curious on the subject....

2007-01-20 11:08:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been getting into fights with my parents, with my dad. he hits me sometimes, i cant get along with my little brother, and just last week i almost ran away. just today i got into another argument with them because i had to stay and watch my little brother instead of go by a friends house which i had been planning to do. in ther argument i told my dad i should just go kill myself so your lives would b better. he said if your so big then go do it, so i went into the kitchen and cut myself. nothing serious b/c i was scared, it looks more like a paper cut. but when my parents saw me they said that i need help. they would have me monitored and have me talk to someone, a counselor or something. but i dont want 2. i dont want them thinking that im crazy or anything. ive prayed about it, but i dont kno what else i to do. im being really serious about tihs question. does anyone have any advice on what i should do? plz b serious about this, im really hurt and fragile rite now...

2007-01-20 11:07:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

yeah yeah its wrong blah.but WHY exactly?adam and eve...they had kids i bet and then they had kids.really everyone we date..that could be incest.right?
i am just wondering why are people so disgusted with it?why is it illegel?why is it wrong?

2007-01-20 11:06:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to write a letter to my mom saying like why im doing all this bad stuff at skool and home, and i want to tell her that im depressed. i don't wanna talk wit her cause i don't like to. so i wanna write a letter wit all the stuff i don't wanna talk upfront wit her about. the problem is idk how to write it or anything. can someone help me put together a letter that i can give to my mom.

2007-01-20 11:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, might sound like a weird question. Guys or girls - what are some tips for teasing a guy in bed. Nothing extreme, just some very simple things to impress him...any ideas. What do guys really like & whats a no no.

2007-01-20 11:04:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 11:04:47 · 11 answers · asked by crazy cookie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 4 yrs and things have started to become repetitive. He doesn't like to talk much or do anything that I like to do. I want to spend some quality time with him but he seems to enjoy the company of the T.V more than me. he seems to think our relationship is great and doesn't need changing. i beg to differ. I am so frustrated about it and its really depressing me. Our sex life is ok but could be better. he doesn't seem interested in trying anything new. Any ideas on some fun things we could do together besides watching crappy t.v ?

2007-01-20 11:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A girl and guy were speeding over 100 mph on the road on a motorcycle...

Girl: Slow down, I'm scared.

Guy: No, this is fun.

Girl: No it's not. Please it's too scary!

Guy: Then tell me you love me.

Girl: Fine I love you. Slow down!

Guy: Now give me a BIG hug.

::Girl hugs him::

Guy: Can you take my helmet off and put it on yourself? It's bugging me.

In the paper the next day:

A motorcycle had crashed into a building because of brake failure.

Two people were on it, but only 1 had survived.

The truth was that halfway down the road, the guy realized that his brakes
broke, but he didn't want to let the girl know.

Instead, he had her say she loved him and felt her hug one last time, then
he had her wear his helmet so that she would live even though it meant that
he would die.

If u love any one this much...let them know...before its too late...

(this really made me think of my loved ones)

2007-01-20 11:02:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

another thing is why are boys cute!

2007-01-20 11:01:35 · 30 answers · asked by Jazmin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 11:01:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were in the middle of a crisis in our marriage....he was having a mid-life crisis , instead of talking at all he left...As he was leaving i realized he had already started a casual relationship with the girl he is now living with....she has taken over my life - literally!

How do I speak to him - I have so much anger? And how should I treat her?

2007-01-20 11:00:31 · 35 answers · asked by Gunner G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never been to a wedding before let alone, been involved in one before, my sister asked me to be her Maid of Honor, what is their job?

2007-01-20 10:59:50 · 3 answers · asked by Nicola C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is really complicated but I will try to explain it as best as I can. I have been engaged to my fiance for 3 months now and we plan on getting married in May of 2008. Today my fiance's mother called (she will soon be my mother in law), and she was very nice at first but I couldn't believe what she said to me. She asked me how long I expect the marriage to last.

Is that a common question these days? I thought it was very rude and insulting ... isn't she basically saying that she thinks the marriage will be a failure? I told her as nicely as I could, that I love her son very much and that I expect to be married to him for the rest of my life. She has always been bitter towards me, but I think she really pushed it today. Do you think I have right to be mad about this, or am I over reacting?

2007-01-20 10:59:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been with him 2 and 1/2 years now. His wife has found out about us twice but he's still stuck with me. He gets jealous very easily and can be possesive. We dont have sex that often. I'm 22 and he's 43,his wife is also in her 40's. Why do you think he's stuck with me for so long,is it really love or do you think i'm like his property that he thinks he owns?

2007-01-20 10:59:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend lives in Florida and I'm in Oklahoma. We've been together now for over 8 months. When he lived in OK we didn't fight all that often. Now that he moved we fight ALL the time. He often says that its over and we can't be together any more. I say it too. I really hate fighting with him but he's so far away and I almost never see him. When we do break up we always get back together the same day. We can't help not talking to each other. I love him. He supposed to start coming to see me more often. Is all of this worth it? Is there any advice on how to keep the fighting and threatening of breaking up to a minimal?

2007-01-20 10:58:16 · 5 answers · asked by Lynze B 2 in Singles & Dating

met this guy at christmas we got on went away for 2 weeks and he was so sweet wanted to introduce me to his parents everything then....he has only had 2 serious relationships one for five yrs another six months. initially he was texting me all the time really really in to me we even looked at houses spent new years in a hotel together ..then all of a sudden he went cold said he had been thinking about things for a few days and he dint know if he wanted a realtionship..he still talks to me occassionally phones me...tellls me he thinks im lovely i know he still cares...but wants to go out with his mates and doesnt want a serious realtionship right now maybe later...does this mean he just doent want me why do things turn intially i was not even in to him how do i get him back to the way he was whats the best strategy he wont even see me know because he says us having contact make it hard for him whats the best way to be to regain that interest???

2007-01-20 10:58:15 · 5 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy and he likes me back i know that for sure. but why doesn't he never talk to me all of a sudden? i know he isn't nervous to talk to me cause he hangs out with girls sometimes, but mostly with his friends.yesterday i made eye contact with him for like about four seconds. sighs....that was great....besides he has pretty eyes. i can't stop staring at them. but anyways why doesn't he talk to me??

2007-01-20 10:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sister wants me 2 ask this by the way!

2007-01-20 10:58:09 · 4 answers · asked by hunterhousegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

he also has a history of violence and 2 bdv against me H ow do i get him to leave?

2007-01-20 10:57:31 · 6 answers · asked by MZ BIGG REDD 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 10:56:20 · 6 answers · asked by wkay0210 1 in Weddings

2007-01-20 10:56:17 · 13 answers · asked by betty h 1 in Singles & Dating

My father is not in my life. I have uncles but they also didn't not play an important role in my life. My brothers I love dearly but I really dont feel they should play the role of giving me away. It seems like a role deemed specifically for a father and since I don't have one I feel I should just walk on alone. This makes me a bit sad but that is how I feel. My family and friends feel that it is a bad idea and that I would look silly walking down the aisle alone and now I feel a bit insecure about doing it. Am I wrong? Is there a better way?

2007-01-20 10:56:00 · 28 answers · asked by Knowledge 1 in Weddings

If you are dating a woman you are into and really like how long would you be willing to wait?

2007-01-20 10:55:08 · 10 answers · asked by naturegirl1017 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister Shaniqua caught me masturbating nude in the den to a picture of Katie Holmes butt. Now she is saying I am an uncle tom, a kunta kinte, a sellout, an oreo cookie, and also someone who suffers from self hate and has jungle fever. She said for me to masturbate to a nasty skanky white girl is unexcusable and I have no dignity. How do I tell her I am proud to be black but simply find Katie Holmes georgeous and love pleasuring myself to her?

2007-01-20 10:54:35 · 9 answers · asked by egaider 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm really nervous about my first french kiss.I'm pretty sure its going to be with the guy that I've liked for 3 years.Is it really something to stress out over?Does it come natural and you just know what to do with your tongue?Please answer.

2007-01-20 10:53:53 · 11 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing a guy for a short time and he started to get distant with me. I went away for a long weekend and really didn't hear from him while I was gone. When I came back we made plans to get together this past Thursday. At the end of dinner he told me that he can't take our relationship to the next level that he is seeing someone else. Someone that he met right before me, he didn't think that relationship was going to work out then he met me. But they started talking again and he just feels more compatible with her. I know that it is for the best if he is just not into me, but it still hurts because I really did like him. Any words of advice to help me through this period?

2007-01-20 10:53:22 · 10 answers · asked by Lydia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 10:53:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I ruined my life. I just moved to a small town in Oklahoma. At the beginning of my school year I had tons of friends, boys were all over me, but then they started to see how shy I was. I didn't have any confidence in myself, and I feel like I have no friends, and Im just like so quiet. How can I change my life the way I want it? Please help me?

2007-01-20 10:52:51 · 8 answers · asked by volleyballis4ever 3 in Friends

My fiancee and I have been together for nearly five years and have been engaged for two. We've set dates and made plans but something always comes up,like his parents hate to day or complain about the food. It's a never ending cycle. So I decided on making most of the food myself,having a small wedding just family and a few friends nothing huge. But he still seems to be putting everything off,saying we don't have the money or making other excuses as to why we can't do it. I just don't understand what's happening with him. I already have my dress and my shoes and the meals are already planned but I'm just waiting for him. Is there anyone out there who can give me some advice on how to be subtle yet firm to get a date set and finalized?

2007-01-20 10:52:04 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah P 1 in Weddings