met this guy at christmas we got on went away for 2 weeks and he was so sweet wanted to introduce me to his parents everything then....he has only had 2 serious relationships one for five yrs another six months. initially he was texting me all the time really really in to me we even looked at houses spent new years in a hotel together ..then all of a sudden he went cold said he had been thinking about things for a few days and he dint know if he wanted a realtionship..he still talks to me occassionally phones me...tellls me he thinks im lovely i know he still cares...but wants to go out with his mates and doesnt want a serious realtionship right now maybe later...does this mean he just doent want me why do things turn intially i was not even in to him how do i get him back to the way he was whats the best strategy he wont even see me know because he says us having contact make it hard for him whats the best way to be to regain that interest???
2007-01-20 10:58:15 · 5 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to come back when he`s a man, how childish treating you like that, your worth a lot more so ignore him and go out and enjoy yourself and the right one will come along, good luck xx
2007-01-20 11:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by MAD FEMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the guy. Sounds like he has commitment issues and hasn't grown up yet. Women do mature much faster than men do. I understand that you like or even love this man, but do not waste your time and move on. Never, never change for someone else. Just be yourself. Remember, "Do not ever cry over anyone that wouldn't cry over you". You sound like a terrific woman. You just need to find a man that cares and wants to be with you. You will live a better and more happier life if you move on.
2007-01-20 19:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by heavenlyman06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously people have been talking to him and are putting ideas into his head. If he is playing these pathetic games now and listening to everyone else instead of his own heart move on and find someone better and then when he does come to his senses he will be the one who loses out.
2007-01-20 19:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-01-20 19:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bob Danvers-Walker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on!!
2007-01-20 19:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by hillman_avenger2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋