I have been married for 4 yrs and things have started to become repetitive. He doesn't like to talk much or do anything that I like to do. I want to spend some quality time with him but he seems to enjoy the company of the T.V more than me. he seems to think our relationship is great and doesn't need changing. i beg to differ. I am so frustrated about it and its really depressing me. Our sex life is ok but could be better. he doesn't seem interested in trying anything new. Any ideas on some fun things we could do together besides watching crappy t.v ?
2007-01-20 11:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could take dance classes, like salsa.
Set one night a week just for the 2 of you, a date night.
Spend the weekend in a local hotel or bed & breakfast.
Turn on the music as ask him to dance with you right in your livivng room.
My husband and I like to just drive around and listen to music and talk, go parking, whatever we want at that moment.
I have found out that if you start it, he will finish it! Whanteveer it is!
2007-01-20 11:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't ya'll try to have date night like either once or twice a month. Go to dinner, the movies & then go for some ice cream. Or pack a picnic & go to the park & just enjoy the outdoors...or if you live close to a lake or the beach go have a picnic there. If he likes to fish, go fishing together...that's fun. If that doesn't work, take all the batteries out of the remotes and make him get off his butt and ya'll go have some fun. Try to exploring different things in your sex life..or try new positions. Mix it up a little. I hope things get better for ya. Good luck!!
2007-01-20 11:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by Gator Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to the movies, playing pool or bowling. Join a gym together. If you start trying new things in and out of the bedroom he may get interested. Good luck!
2007-01-20 11:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship is anything like mine and my hubbys, then you and your husband are like black and white and are from two completely different worlds. Me and him are SO different its unbelievable, we're opposites in everything. He likes quiet activities such as fishing as do I, but I would much rather prefer going on roller coasters. He likes action movies, but I like romance movies. He likes to go on the computer to read, I like to read from actual books. He likes to take naps on the weekend but I would prefer going out. We've also been married for just a little less than 4 years, and we've learned to compromise a little. Some fun things we like to do together is grocery shopping. I know it's nothing exciting but I like to cook, and he likes to eat! LOL! And usually, we watch TV shows and movies together. Since I like romance and he likes action, we try to buy something with both like Superman or Spiderman, that way, we're both satisfied. I hope this helps! Good luck!
2007-01-20 13:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to get rid of the TV! You might want to consider on getting board games, taking walks, going out for coffee, going out to watch a movie, going out to dinner, or go skiing. If he still puts himself in front of the TV, then you should turn off the TV and stand in front of him in the nude, and say look at me! That will get his eyes off the TV and his eyes on you.
Otherwise, talk to him and tell him that you are tired of the same things you both do. I would recommend two good books called, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage." Those books will enhance your marriage and spice it up!
2007-01-20 11:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like to watch movies and nascar races together for fun and we love shopping too. Think of some new and fun things to do with him... Use your imagination. Spice up your intimate life with new ideas and some sex toys:)
2007-01-20 11:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋