I'm really nervous about my first french kiss.I'm pretty sure its going to be with the guy that I've liked for 3 years.Is it really something to stress out over?Does it come natural and you just know what to do with your tongue?Please answer.
2007-01-20 10:53:53 · 11 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, you'll figure out what to do really fast.
Just massage his tongue with yours... don't stress out over it, and have fun!
Oh, and if you want to read up on some tips for kissing, go to this site... there's a lot of articles, and one is "18 Simple Rules For Becoming A Better Kisser"...
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexkissing/topics/0,,4tgq,00.html
2007-01-20 10:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's absolutely no need to stress of this. When it happens everything will come to you, like magic all of a sudden you'll know what to do. I remember my first french kiss. At first I was just stunned and had chills all over my body. It felt so good. I will honestly say that I've never had that great of a feeling before that. Even now when I kiss that same guy I feel the chills and butterflies but I wouldn't want it anyother way. Or with anyone else for that fact. After you get into it a little while longer you might be thinking to yourself things like Oh my god is this really happening? Trust me you will know exactly what to do when the time comes.
2007-01-20 11:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~Steph~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to french kiss the first time, and if you want to, it's easy as can be. Just slowly put your tongue into the other person's mouth while your lips are together. Do not insert your tongue too far as this will make the other person uncomfortable. Do not suck hard on the other person's tongue as this is uncomfortable. Just relax and be at one with the other person. Things are better when taken slowly. You are nervous so take it from a small kiss to a french kiss. Have fun!
2007-01-20 11:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by cardo11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress over it, because when it finally happens, you'll come off really nervous and that might make him nervous and it would be a mess! Don't think about it happening, just learn the basics:
1) Clean mouth
2) Not too much tongue
3) Slow
Repeat them to yourself before you see him the day you think it's going to happen and let everything flow. I'm sure if you do that, it'll be much better at the end. And if he tries to kiss you again, then good for you!
2007-01-20 10:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Christy J 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It comes naturally, since its your first time start with little kisses...and then gently and slowly open your mouth and massage your tounge with his then back to little kisses. After a while when you are comfortable...then go in for it!
I recommend Cruel Intentions, even though it was a girl on girl scene, Cathryn taught the girl how to kiss...just listen to what shes saying...and dont stress you'll be fine! YouTube it!
2007-01-20 11:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jujuchi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was reeallly nervous for my first french kiss too. the guy i was going out with who was my first french kiss knew that i never had before and he was really eager that he was my first, so dont be shy about never frenching someone before because once you do it seems really easy. its really natural and when it happens just go with whatever happens.. its fun :)
2007-01-20 11:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by because7_8_9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a guy...french kissing a guy?
I'd be nervous, too!
2007-01-20 11:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me just go with the flow. let him take the lead and everything will come to you. guys also love it when u play with their tongue with yours good luck and have fun
2007-01-20 10:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by sexycowgirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if youre really that scared tell to the guy you are about to kiss with that you have never done it and ask him "to help" you or "teach you"...you know, it will be fun for both:)
2007-01-20 10:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mariella Williams 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont think about it as much... when it comes it come sbut ud feel like ur kissing a slobbering dog seriously...
2007-01-20 10:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by Andrea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋