If you are dating a woman you are into and really like how long would you be willing to wait?
2007-01-20 10:55:08 · 10 answers · asked by naturegirl1017 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I was into her as much as you say... I'd wait until we were married....
Guys that won't wait...are jerks. they should appreciate her for being so moral about it.
2007-01-20 10:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can NOT get a guy to really like you/care about you by giving him sex. In fact, if you give sex quickly, it will most likely prevent him from really liking you, since he will see you as the type of girl he wants to have fun with, but not the type of girl he wants to eventually settle down with or bring home to meet mom and dad. It sounds like you are (briefly) dating & hooking up with guys whom you don't know very well. Why don't you try getting to know more guys as friends, and when there is someone with whom you feel great chemistry and love being around, THEN date him. From some of your other questions, I get the sense that you DO have a lot of guy friends, however, also judging from your questions, I'll bet you have the reputation of being an "easy" hook-up, so probably NONE of these guys would take you seriously as girlfriend material. (I am NOT trying to be mean, darling, just honest, OK?) So maybe you need to find ways to meet completely new guys, and then get to know them for a while, and then pick one with whom you really hit it off. I know this may be easier said than done, but I think you need to find some ways to do it. Oh btw my last gf and I dated for 5 months before we had intercourse, although we were intimate in other ways much quicker than that. She was recently divorced and wanted to take things slow. God I was so crazy about that girl!! Didn't work out, though. (I was 41 at the time -- 42 now -- and she was 37.) Best wishes, love.
2016-05-24 02:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 3 dates. 5 at the most.
2007-01-20 10:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
My b/f waited for over a year... it was the first time for both of us, and we wanted to make sure we really meant it... now we're engaged after 5 years.. :)
2007-01-20 11:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it's Salma Hayek, hell, as long as she wants.
Realistically, the longest would be a month if things were not progressing (i.e., kissing leads to fondling leads to dry humping leads to oral...OK, that's sex...but you get what I mean).
2007-01-20 11:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
4 dates or 10 days, whichever comes first.
2007-01-20 11:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Until we're married of course! We're more mature than the people that think sex without eternal committment is smart. Virginity is the best wedding gift you can give and receive!
2007-01-20 11:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
after we're married.
2007-01-20 11:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by andyy91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months. If I haven't gotten to, at least second base by then, I'm dumping her, no exceptions.
2007-01-20 10:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by J_Lin 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
marriage
2007-01-20 10:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋