ok well, i have a serious problem. i hate to admit it, i have been getting into so much trouble lately...?

Question

i have been getting into fights with my parents, with my dad. he hits me sometimes, i cant get along with my little brother, and just last week i almost ran away. just today i got into another argument with them because i had to stay and watch my little brother instead of go by a friends house which i had been planning to do. in ther argument i told my dad i should just go kill myself so your lives would b better. he said if your so big then go do it, so i went into the kitchen and cut myself. nothing serious b/c i was scared, it looks more like a paper cut. but when my parents saw me they said that i need help. they would have me monitored and have me talk to someone, a counselor or something. but i dont want 2. i dont want them thinking that im crazy or anything. ive prayed about it, but i dont kno what else i to do. im being really serious about tihs question. does anyone have any advice on what i should do? plz b serious about this, im really hurt and fragile rite now...

Answer 1

Sounds like you are between 15 and 17. I would guess around 15. Obviously you haven't been abused otherwise you would be too afraid of your parents to give them this kind of grief. You are going through normal teenage rebellion and taking it to extremes. Even though you may not want to admit it, you need to get your head out of your own a s s long enough to look around and see there are other people in the world besides yourself. Being part of a family is a big responsibility. Sometimes we have to make sacrifices for the good of the group. If you are incapable of being objective, definitely take them up on the offer of the counselor. It will help you work through the highly emotional stage you are going through right now.
Good luck to your parents.

Answer 2

violence in the house happen and it's no secret that there a lot of people liviing in the house like that. but confronting it just makes things worse. being a rebel in that kind of situation is not a good idea. you will ended up more hurt than you already are.
try to avoid any conflict with your dad. if you think he is out of control and you feel that you are in danger then you can report it.
when i grew up my dad very abusive to me but he did it only when i did something wrong. if not then he is a very caring person. most of the time i got the abuse because i refuse to do something that he asked me to do or i confront him.
i'd be dissapointed to if i have to watch my little brother and i can not go with my friends. but if by doing so my dad wouldn't get angry with me then i will do it. i still can see my friends some other time or at school.
avoid the confrontation and spend more time in your room. when you ald enought then move out.

Answer 3

You need someone to talk to. Take them up on the counselor offer. Maybe the counselor can help you by talking with your parents. That person will have your best interest at heart and tell you the truthabout what to do, not necessarily what your parents want.

Answer 4

frisrt sweted ,you made astatedment, you was going to kill your self, first your mom an dad love you, an you broke the trust you had with them, But give it a little time an they will trust you again,...All kids fight with their mom an dad,by what i read ,you must be the oldest of the kids,your mom an dad are getting you ready to met the world,,you will learn as you grow, we dont alway get what we want in life,an some time we got to care for other,even tho,we want to do other thing,,try to see their side,an rember this ,,,,Mom An dad will not be around,all your life,An tell the ever night how much you love the,

Answer 5

If ur dad hits you, call child services, or go see a school counclier

Answer 6

You are feeling hurt and fragile.It would not hurt to talk to a counsellor at this stage.