Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

my boyfriend is the sweetest nicest most wonderful guy i know. the only problem is he might not pass his grade in school this year. i'm pretty smart myself and my parents and some of my friends think that he is below me because of this. i dont know what to do. should i break up with the most wonderful thing that happened to me or keep going out with him and have to deal with my friends and parents? help!

2007-01-20 10:22:05 · 3 answers · asked by Shelby L 2 in Singles & Dating

Serious and honest answers only.

2007-01-20 10:22:05 · 1 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

It really doesnt matter what the fight is about, he will say some choice words and then go to his brother's house or mother's house.
He might come back the next day or he may stay for a week.
We have been married 6 years and have a 4 year old daughter.
He grew up in the area and has all his family. I'm from FL.
There is also a 6 year difference between us(I'm 34 he is 28).
I'm not saying that I'm inacent in all of this, but he always says I"m B**ching about everything.
The thing is I work full time too, plus do all the bills, house cleaning, take our daughter to school, pick her up, dinner, laundry, get her to bed, feed the animals, and such.
Everyday I do this.
He might give her a bath 1 or 2 times a week or read her a book.
Never both. SO when he gets mad because I have been nagging him to take out the trash (his only job and its over flowing) he leaves.
Please help, he wont go to counseling.
Pleeeeeeeeaaaaaaasssee help!!!!!

2007-01-20 10:21:38 · 15 answers · asked by Summer2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What can be done to correct this problem?Please be honest but not rude.

2007-01-20 10:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by don_steele54 6 in Weddings

like i have this problem that i think that i aint good enough to talk to popular people and they just scare me... i dont know whats wrong with me? like i would never get the chance to think that maybe one day i might be like one of them that i might me popular?

2007-01-20 10:21:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I have been together for over 13 years and have 3 kids. For about two months he has hardly been home. His hours at work have gotten longer and when he is home we dont even talk. He will go to another room to be away from us or will leave.He even stays in the living room watching T.V at night and won't come to bed till I'm asleep. We both work full time and I go to work earlier than him so, on the days that I'm not home he goes in late everyday, but on Saturdays when I'm home he rushes to get there an hour early. He even came home a few weeks ago with claw marks on his back, but when I asked him about it all he said was that he scratched it at work and if he knew it was there he wouldn't have took his shirt off. What should I do?

2007-01-20 10:21:13 · 21 answers · asked by Jt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't go to this slumber party all my friends will be their my parents trust me but they arent letting me go, and i really want to its been bugging me for a while What should I do??? I mean its really hard to talk them into anything really!!! Please tell me a best solution!

2007-01-20 10:21:05 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Friends

My friend has been dating this guy from her job for a while now, and I warned her not to mix business with pleasure because then it would make the workplace feel awkward. So then she decided to and tell him that she wanted to persue the relationship on another level, otherwise known as becomming a couple, and he told her that he's not looking for a relationship BUT shes very special to him. I told her that hes basically saying he doesn't like her. She got mad when I told her this, so am I right with saying that him saying that she was very special to him meant that he doesnt like her in that particular way?

2007-01-20 10:21:00 · 11 answers · asked by Jujuchi 2 in Singles & Dating

a hommie hopper is a girl or guy who dates there bf's/gf's friends... and how many of you guys have had that happen to you... i know i have had it happen my friend dated a girl for about 3 months then she dated my roommate then she dated me for like two weeks but it was just s.e.x. with us...

2007-01-20 10:20:19 · 2 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

Why is it wrong to beat females but not males, they want equal rights dont they

2007-01-20 10:20:05 · 22 answers · asked by osopimpin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 10:19:48 · 23 answers · asked by bro 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 10:19:09 · 4 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 10:17:49 · 43 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

should i tell my friend that the girl he is seeing know i used to have s.e.x. with or should i hide it and just make comments about her that only her and i know under my breath when i see her... and men yall know when a girl is a hommie hopper you have to clown ya boy ... im thinking about asking him how does my d___k taste soon...

2007-01-20 10:17:25 · 5 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

I took my daughter to the ER today because she was having a bad reaction to an immunization shot, fever, swelling, and severe crankiness. While there, we already had to wait a while in the waiting room because the ER rooms were full. I felt bad for everyone there because they had to listen to my daughters screams. By the time we got into a room, got her vitals and history, we were suddenly rushed back out into the waiting room because a severe truma was coming in and they needed the room we were in. As we were going out, I suddenly hear a woman scream "Where's Calvin?! Where's my son, why won't you tell me?!" Turns out, her son had just been killed in a car accident. I looked down at my baby who will survive through this little fever and thought how lucky I was that it wasn't me screaming for her. Then I felt bad for that thought. I had to hold back tears for that mother, and couldn't imagine what she was feeling. I felt so bad that I have what she lost and wouldn't wish that on anyone

2007-01-20 10:17:25 · 8 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like a boy in my class. We are in the 6th grade, all of my friends said that we would look cute together and that I should tell him that I like him or ask him out. I think he likes me because every single time I do something he does it and also when ever he answers a queshtion he lokks at me. What do I do? This boy is soo cute.

p.s. and I think he likes me. thanx

2007-01-20 10:16:23 · 15 answers · asked by beccabo22 1 in Singles & Dating

and the wedding ring

2007-01-20 10:16:00 · 7 answers · asked by ALESANA 7 in Weddings

feeling really depressed over break up. i've been so negative and can't have happy thoughts. can i borrow yours?

2007-01-20 10:15:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I let her off the hook without hurting her feelings and making her angry? She doesn't want to help with planning, getting ready, etc. I asked her the other day if she was still planning on being in the wedding and her response was, " I guess so"...I can't have a slacker.....but don't want to make her angry either. HELP@!!!!!!

2007-01-20 10:14:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Are looks the most important.

2007-01-20 10:13:31 · 50 answers · asked by Cornelius 2 in Singles & Dating

with thier penis sizes...do they feel less of a man..girl do you find guy that drive hummers..like that..if not should I buy one..I am feeling kinda like a wimp and will this car make me a man...

2007-01-20 10:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by Kingofreportedabuse 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl, but we've never really talked or did anything together.. i dont know why but when i see her i feel happy :D
anyways....i want to make friends with her first...what should i say or do for the first time that would make her think im someone to be special with or just someone different from other guys? thnx
i can sing pretty well...but people say its too wierd to sing to her the first time haha

2007-01-20 10:13:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband & I have been married for 10 yrs, & we've been raising 2 children from his 1st marriage for 14 yrs. My kids are now 19 & 17 and I'm the only mom they know. According to court docs, their bio-mother never showed up to court for the divorce or any of the custody hearings. She has admitted that she simply didn't want the responsibility of kids and has NEVER been a part of thier lives. She battles addiction, has been arrested many times & had another child that the state took from her. She recently wrote the kids a letter from prison, telling them how she wishes they would visit & how she wants to be apart of their lives. Our family has gone through the TOTAL range of emotions because of the hurt she has caused over the years & the kids are confused. She IS their mother, but so am I! And I can't stand to see them get hurt again! I love my kids, want to do the right thing & can't judge 'til I "walk a mile in her shoes". Do you think a visit would be harmful or helpful?

2007-01-20 10:12:54 · 9 answers · asked by MaHaa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 10:12:34 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♥♫ 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi, my ex dumped me a week ago. We are now on good terms and have decided to remain good friends. Its his 21st nxt week, and i want to still get him something. Are there any suggestions, bcos im not sure whats appropriate, and something thats not too expensive, i just want to give him a little something. Thanks xxx

2007-01-20 10:11:14 · 33 answers · asked by Smiley 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 10:10:46 · 15 answers · asked by jay jay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 10:10:33 · 1 answers · asked by Lisa L 2 in Singles & Dating

My gf will be home like , soon
Maybe i just need to tell her i luv her more

2007-01-20 10:10:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I made a agreement about something. He broke the agreement and then lied to me about it to my face. Then I pretty much caught him red handed. He finally told the truth. We have two kids together and i really believe that he is sorry. Nobody's perfect right? How do I get past this? What can he do to prove I can trust him?

2007-01-20 10:10:18 · 5 answers · asked by kassie37110 1 in Singles & Dating

i was on the basketball team and next year my friend want's to try out next year i do not think she will make it should i hurt her feelings and save her from embarassing herself or let her try out and be humiliated

2007-01-20 10:09:45 · 29 answers · asked by toadrulz101 2 in Friends