Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

I miss her so bad it hurts. Her Mother relapsed and now she will be gone another week, maybe more. Her two siblings are selfish and won't step up to the plate to jump in and stay with her for a while so My Gal is stuck. I miss her so much and now I will be going through my birthday without her. What she is doing is awesome but I can't concentrate or get her off my mind. Should I just get in my truck and drive 1800 miles to see her or tough it out? She misses me too but my clock is slower here because I'm alone. She has family and friends all around her so I don't think it effects her quite the same.

2007-01-20 09:35:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and last year I moved in with him at his parents house. I never liked his family but I do love him. I want us to move out but right now we don't have the money and I'm sick and tired of them. Any advice?

(By the way he's going to be 21 soon and I'm 18.)

2007-01-20 09:35:31 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

my mother got an horrible report from my teacher but now ive worked hard and i got b's on my report card to get a phone but her point isyou should've did your work in the begining but i really want this phone (motorola W315). how can i change her mind

2007-01-20 09:35:09 · 5 answers · asked by cute amber 4 in Family

I'm a white American of Dutch descent and she is Latin American of Argentine descent. She has brown hair, light skin, green eyes, and sharp facial features that Caucasians generally have, in other words she looks like a regular Caucasian women. But for some reason when I tell some people that I'm dating an women from Argentina they think its an interracial relationship when IMO I don't think it is. Correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t Argentina populated mostly by people who migrated there from Germany, Italy, and France which are all white countries? So really, we may be of different cultures but not race, I’m I correct?

2007-01-20 09:35:04 · 11 answers · asked by Derrek 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't stop thinking about my ex i thought she was one she was the only one i ever considered marrying and she broke up with and i try so hard to forget her but its hard to get her off my mind im 21 and we dated for a year

2007-01-20 09:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by brett v 1 in Singles & Dating

Married for 2 years and before Christmas my wife's mother and her cousin have come over to stay with us for 3 months. My wife knows her cousin and said she met him at the airport in Thailand on the way through when she travelled abroad. The two ended up spending two weeks in Thailand. She never called me from Thailand as she said she changed her sim card and lost my number. I trusted her and thought he lack of contact was geniune. A week ago close friend advised me that my wife is having an affair with the cousin which has continued in our house when I work away. I confronted my wife and she said ofcourse its totally not true and said that our close friends are fallen out with us. I now have to make a decission to divorce her on the bases from information from our best friends. It is heartbreaking as I love her
She had an affair for two years with a married man before I met her but she only told me about it a year ago, I was unformtable but accepted it as being before I met her

2007-01-20 09:34:38 · 23 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 09:34:27 · 9 answers · asked by MOOKIE 1 in Singles & Dating

here are some details: my 21 year old brother Joshua David Sellers passed through the gates of Life into the gates of Heaven. A Scott guy, the driver probably hammered, sped off at a very high rate of speed and crashed into several trees, one car, my brother was in the back seat of the car and he was ejected from the back, he died of brain hemmeraging, a snapped neck, and other broken places. Matt had several other broken parts of his body, many bruises and several injuries. Scott got away with NO injuries. Please pray for my brother, and my family, and his girlfriend Tracy. Scott, a drunken 27 year old male, was the driver, when he was released at 7 in the morning Christmas eve, he did NOT visit my brother, he bullshitted some of my brothers old friends, Scott does not deserve to get away the way he did. Matt, had several injuries but he still wanted to visit my brother. So he was put in a wheelchair and brought up to visit my brother in Intensive Care

Did Scott murder my brother?

2007-01-20 09:34:01 · 12 answers · asked by gothic_underworld123 1 in Friends

Theres a girl, of whom I love very much. About 3 months ago she got dumped by her last boyfriend. As a friend I helped work her through her depression, and ultimately she saw how I felt, and we got together. I did my best however to keep them as friends, and did so successfully ( I know stupid, but I wanted her to be happy ) The girl he left her for asked him to ignore her, and he accepted. Of course I convinced him not too. Well a month later his new girlfriend left him. And now he want my girlfriend back. She does love me, and I love her...its obvious. But she says she'd rather be with him. I understand I cant force her to love me even though I really do love her a lot. But I am really scared that if she goes back with him he'll hurt her again. If he did I'd gladly help her again, I cant bear the thought of her being alone. But I feel stupid waiting to see if she does. We are still together, but shes really upset she might hurt me. What should I do?

2007-01-20 09:33:18 · 24 answers · asked by Freedomfighter 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 09:33:12 · 12 answers · asked by Saphire Aurora 3 in Singles & Dating

A very hard question to think about maybe, I've never experienced this.

How did you feel? What did you do to overcome the loss?

2007-01-20 09:32:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

everything?????

2007-01-20 09:31:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-20 09:31:36 · 11 answers · asked by DA SKATER 1 in Singles & Dating

Does that mean he is embarassed by me? He said that other people have to earn his approval to just say one word to him. It also seems like if someone says hey to him, he would just ignore them. He said that I have the approval to talk to him, he said this online! But when I asked him why wouldnt he talk to me at school like friends, like he says that we are. All he said was goodbye and talk to you later. Does that mean he doesnt want to talk to me anymore? He has said that once before but he talked to me online the next day. He hasnt talked to me in days now!!! help!!!

2007-01-20 09:30:39 · 26 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you live your life the way you want to? Or do you stick by the rules and live life on the straight and narrow, always afraid of stepping out of line in case you'll do something that will disappoint your loved ones? It's becoming a very boring life for me, as I've always wanted to be spontaneous and not worry about stuff, but always end up worrying about whether I might make some wrong decisions and make my family less proud of me. It sounds like a really stupid problem, but I have always been afraid of doing anything which would make me feel like I'd failed my family. Its really holding me back. I'm not sure if I've even explained this properly.

2007-01-20 09:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by Megafunk 6 in Singles & Dating

I am seventeen and a senior in high school and last March I was diagnosed with a rare immune disease. I started my treatment two days ago and it has been very rough on me. I really wanted my boyfriend of two and half years to be here for a little bit at the beginning. He is in college about two hours away and so I talked to him about coming down. He said he couldn't so I said okay and left it alone. He ended up coming down and my mom was furious.
Did I do the wrong thing wanting him to come down? We are really close and have a great relationship, I just wanted my best friend with me.

2007-01-20 09:30:27 · 15 answers · asked by kmputman 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 09:29:53 · 15 answers · asked by Questionata 1 in Singles & Dating

Contractors in Iraq are popping up all over the place asking their wives for a divorce...throwing their families away...why?

2007-01-20 09:29:48 · 4 answers · asked by mixedupwife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

not the real person.....the character.........from ents to edward scissorhands.......just for fun...;0)

2007-01-20 09:29:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As you can see I really need help with this problem. Should I still be friends with her or not?

2007-01-20 09:28:05 · 8 answers · asked by Caitlyn C 2 in Singles & Dating

to respond to somene by text who has been stringing you along and never gives a straight answer

need some really witty ideas

2007-01-20 09:27:46 · 16 answers · asked by trixiecat 2 in Singles & Dating

did it work out for the best

2007-01-20 09:27:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to know were i can go to get a e-mail address like what kind. it cant be yahoo because i have one all ready. do u know any othere kinds?

2007-01-20 09:26:55 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 09:26:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He even tried to hold my hand.I don't like him but I don't want my friend to find out and be unhappy PLZ HELP!

2007-01-20 09:26:17 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

I went out wit dis guy last month. i was da one asking him out ova da phone. In mind i really didnt like him i just wanted 2 go out with him. one week later i broke up with him. couple days later i ask if he still like me and he said yes so we went out again cause i felt sorry for him. i like other people at da school we go 2 its just that i found hes a lil cute but hes not my type. i use 2 call him everyday but then i broke up wit him and told him i like his friend and i gave him his name. after the break up i feel sad cause i broke up with him. why is that?

2007-01-20 09:25:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my firned and i toni were at my house and my gf was there. toni is a lesbian and my was cleaning somthing off the coffee table. and toni and i walked over.
me : X3 hmmmm
toni : X3 yum
my gf : ........
and she walks to the other side and toni and i look down her shirt.
me : yum...
toni : hmmm
my gf : you perverts i just want ed to clean somthing for you and all you guys do is stare at me !
me : ......
toni : fine we'll let it stay there.
my gf : ok.
5 mins later.
my gf : are you guys just going to let it sit there ?!
us : yep.
my gf : fine ill clean it
me : hmmm...
toni : tastey...
my gf : - . -
how where we the bad guys we just sat there. my brother said that we should have just stoped looking at her and that we where being perverted.
HOW THE HELL WHERE WE BEING PERVERTED ?

toni is like a sister to me except i dont hate her.
we both dont see what the big deal was. my gf is used to toni.

2007-01-20 09:24:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are trying to choose our wedding rings. We are on a budget and so we are wondering if it is worth paying extra for 18 carat instead of 9 carat. We are mainly concerned with whether or not there would be a difference in appearance.

2007-01-20 09:23:59 · 32 answers · asked by CHRIS 2 in Weddings

i just had this question because my boy and i went to the club last night and he talked to this girl that gave him her number but when we were leaving the club she saw me on my bike in the front and she came and started talking to me and she ended up getting dropped off by her friend that night at my apartment... anyways i told my boy what happend and he seems to think its because i have a bike and he drives a civic... so i just had to ask what is more of a turn on for you ladies???

2007-01-20 09:23:46 · 12 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

should i go for it cause he's hot
or keep up my pride since i never did anything to him and he was super mean...and keep away from this guy even though he's nice NOW???????

2007-01-20 09:23:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating