I can't stop thinking about my ex i thought she was one she was the only one i ever considered marrying and she broke up with and i try so hard to forget her but its hard to get her off my mind im 21 and we dated for a year
2007-01-20 09:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by brett v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"When you ease the pain of your heart, your liver begins to hurt" ;)
Alcohol is not an option. Sure, you could get yourself drunk and forget about everything (and I mean everything), but this would work only for a very, very short time.
I'd say - get your mind busy with something else. Something you like -hobby, sport, whatever. Hang around with friends (if you have some really close friends, tell them what is your problem, and that you need their help to keep yourself busy with something else).
And... look for another woman as soon as you feel ready (this may take time, however...).
Don't rush things. Time heals all wounds, includingthose on one's heart.
2007-01-20 09:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by mat_wisniewski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a camera and go hiking in the wilderness try to connect with the life that you see growing around you.. and notice that al things are in a system that is changing always .. like your life.. look for the new opportunities,, , meet with friends , go to a funny movie, some work some of the time,, I am going thru the same cycle,, breaking up after 5 years,,, G
2007-01-20 09:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ginger O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beer, friends and time. That's about it. Same thing happened to me when I was 21. I even thought about killing myself at the time. That would have been a stupid move. I'm quite a bit older now and happier than I ever was.
2007-01-20 09:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, time will ease the pain.
And you are still young.
You can focus on those good things instead of only thinking about her. like learning a foreign language, travelling, or trying to find a really nice girl but not hurt her.
2007-01-20 09:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young! GO hang out with your friends... the more time you spend with them the less you will have time to think about her. Eventually it will get easier... just try not to spend a lot of time alone. Who knows, maybe you will meet another girl while out with your friends.
2007-01-20 09:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try too cuz there is always plenty of fish in the sea u cant always grab the closest guppy u know u need to explore
2007-01-20 09:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by bballdawg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well consider the reason you two broke up.... then try to go tell her how strongly you feel about her
2007-01-20 09:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by lola b. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do exactly what Justin timberlake did in "Cry me a river"
2007-01-20 09:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by Rhoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww man,i know how u feel, trust me lots of people do, its gonna be tough, and only time can heal your wounds...all i can tell you is ur not alone
2007-01-20 09:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by rayray34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I time for self love .. good luck
2007-01-20 09:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by byte my floppy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋