As you can see I really need help with this problem. Should I still be friends with her or not?
2007-01-20 09:28:05 · 8 answers · asked by Caitlyn C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her she needs to stop being so close to your bf and if she yells and says well i like him sayt well hes my bf and if you were a true f riend then you wouldnt do this to me
2007-01-20 09:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is she trying to AROUND him or is she trying to steal him from you? Maybe she just wants to be included in your life and feels like befriending your boyfriend will give the two of you more in common. Friends sometimes feel a little left out in the cold when it comes to competing with boyfriends.
If she is obviously flirting or hitting on him then tell her to knock it off! But be careful beause it may be innocent and you could lose a friend. Boys come and go.... is he worth losing a friend over?
Also, if you trust him then you have nothing to worry about.
2007-01-20 17:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how uncomfortable she is making you and how it isn't appropriate. If she's your true friend she'll back off and understand your feelings.....probably go on the defensive first though!
You need to sort it out though.....she really should have some respect for you and if she doesn't you are better off without.....she really should think, especially making it so obvious...who needs to be around people like that?
2007-01-20 17:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by hoochiemama2000_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her away from your man. I had a friend that always showed out when she was around my male friends. She's probably just putting it out there because she wants to see if he wants her too. A real friend wouldn't try to do something that would hurt you.
2007-01-20 17:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Suu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur boyfriend of this problem. That way he will totally understand and not like ur friend. If he does. He totally wasnt worth it. Tell ur friend to stop or stay away from u and him.
2007-01-20 17:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by CurlsWithBrains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey lifes too short for you to be going through this bull ****. Ask her straight out whats up. But I think you already know the answer to that. does the boyfriend add to the problem? does he flirt with her? answer these questions and you will know what to do.
2007-01-20 17:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that its jus gonna be you & him everytime she wants to be around if she doesnt get the point then tell her straight up.
2007-01-20 17:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Prolific 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is a problem...
2007-01-20 17:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋