He even tried to hold my hand.I don't like him but I don't want my friend to find out and be unhappy PLZ HELP!
2007-01-20 09:26:17 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
theres no way to get around this. you have to tell your friend. you don't want her to be unhappy, and this guy does not even like her! it's best to get her out of the relationship! make sure you tell her like "I think your boyfriend likes me" don't accuse. let her know the way you feel about him, so she knows your not trying to steal him. if she won't listen, at least you tried. don't bring it up again or she may become suspicious. when her boyfriend tries to hold your hand or makes comments that you don't like to you make sure you tell him you don't want him doing that. If he even thinks you like him back a little bit he could dump your friend and try to go out with you causing your friend even more heartache. eventually the relationship will fizzle out, or he'll start to actually like your friend and stop worrying you.
2007-01-20 09:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't say or do anything so that nobody could ever blame you for anything. I once had a best friends gf come on to me at a football game in high school. I was shocked, flattered but shocked, but to this day I never told him.
2007-01-20 09:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get it through his head that its wrong! Tell him ur not intrested in him so he needs to back off. Then if he keeps trying to get at you then you should tell your best friend that hes no good for you your frien and that she shouldnt be with him because he is not a good bf and that hes not really gonna be true to her
2007-01-20 09:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by filipino_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this situation before. Tell him to get lost. I think you should tell her because I didn't tell my friend I threatened to- and then her bf told her that I tried to get with him and she stopped speaking to me. She still doesn't speak to me to this day!!! If she is your friend she will dump him and still be your friend. Friends are forever boyfriends are for a season...remember that.
2007-01-20 09:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Suu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that he hit on you! She deserves better than a cheat and how can you as a friend let her stay with this guy? If you are really her friend you would tell her so she doesn't get hurt by this loser!
2007-01-20 10:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by No.34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's trouble girl! but its very easy to resolve. tell him that u are not interested and MEAN IT. Dont stay alone with him cos u never can't trust guys. YOUR FRIEND IS IMPORTANT. DON'T LET A SILLY BOY DISTRUPT YOUR FRIENDSHIP. Don't tell her cos she might not believe you either. stay away from him.
2007-01-20 09:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by vanessa j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't like him and get away from your friend if he is not going to be a good bf(boyfriend)'cause you don't want to make your friend sad when she finds out he likes you.
2007-01-20 10:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by corbin bleu's girlfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them your feelings, they should be able to understand and if things don't work out then she wasn't a true bffl.
Hope this helps:)
Good Luck.
2007-01-20 09:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by CrazyGirlinaMessedUpWorld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this wanna be player that you have no interest in allowing him to interfere and ruin the friendship you have with her. If he continues, then tell her everything.
2007-01-20 09:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are uninterested, and when he tries to make a move on you, pull away.
2007-01-20 09:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by funstuff7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋