I miss her so bad it hurts. Her Mother relapsed and now she will be gone another week, maybe more. Her two siblings are selfish and won't step up to the plate to jump in and stay with her for a while so My Gal is stuck. I miss her so much and now I will be going through my birthday without her. What she is doing is awesome but I can't concentrate or get her off my mind. Should I just get in my truck and drive 1800 miles to see her or tough it out? She misses me too but my clock is slower here because I'm alone. She has family and friends all around her so I don't think it effects her quite the same.
2007-01-20 09:35:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is sad, but it is noble what she has done. If you want to make the trip, you may contribute to her stress. She is taking care of family and should keep her attention on that.
Talk to her nightly or chat on line to stay close.
She'll be back in your arms soon enough.
2007-01-20 09:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by sagegranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that she misses you and feels terrible that she is missing your birthday! Get in your truck and go see her and bring her AND her mother some flowers! I am sure that she would enjoy some company... caring for a sick parent can be lonely and very upsetting. I am sure that she would like some support form you. It sounds like her siblings are not very supportive.
I would get a motel room though... it may be awkward if you show up without a place to stay and you don't want to assume that it will be OK to stay there.
2007-01-20 17:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gf is going through a rough time .. and more then ever before she is hoping u would understand and support her.. If u really do miss her alot, there is no harm driving down there to see her. It will definitely make both of you happy and obviously make u less miserable and lonely. Good Luck .
2007-01-20 17:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by julia1975 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jump on a plane and spend a weekend. too far to drive.
2007-01-20 17:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Suu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should drive up there... too long.. too expensive.. maybe fly up there if you had the money.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, maybe this is good for your relationship... just think how good it will be when she comes back.
Hope her mom is ok though.
2007-01-20 17:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by yo mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on a plane and surprise her. she'd probably appreciate it a lot.
2007-01-20 17:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋