Does that mean he is embarassed by me? He said that other people have to earn his approval to just say one word to him. It also seems like if someone says hey to him, he would just ignore them. He said that I have the approval to talk to him, he said this online! But when I asked him why wouldnt he talk to me at school like friends, like he says that we are. All he said was goodbye and talk to you later. Does that mean he doesnt want to talk to me anymore? He has said that once before but he talked to me online the next day. He hasnt talked to me in days now!!! help!!!
2007-01-20 09:30:39 · 26 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MY ADVICE DON'T BOTHER WITH HIM
YOU DO NOT NEED NO APPROVAL TO TALK TO NO ONE
HE'S NUTS IS THIS GUY A FRIEND OF YOURS IF HE IS HE'S CRAZY
YOU DONT NEED FRIENDS LIKE THAT MOVE ON AND FORGET ABOUT HIM
2007-01-20 09:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by seximami06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey may talk to u more online than at school because maybe he is shy and doesn't really know what to say,some guys are just like that they can talk for hours on the computer but when it comes down to talking to someone face to face they don't want to say the wrong thing. get to know that person a little more and if he really likes u in due time he will talk to u more at school.
2007-01-20 09:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by danzleindisstress08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females generally give a long extended want to get to know you. Many offer delays to even exchanging greetings. Men are different. Men set clear lines before a relatiohship becomes a loss. Stay away in person until we "men" decide to want to be in person with you face to face. Many girls will begin false stories if seen in person face to face, ruining a good female to male relationship. All is not romance some only IM friends. accept that and be glad you even have that. Many females could not attract even one male for one minute. 51% of eligible legaly for marriage, in USA, still unmarried/single.
2007-01-20 09:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Prince Saud B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters if he is embarassed by you. He is a jerk. People have to have approval just to say one word to him? Doesn't that sound completely assinine to you? Sweetie, he sounds very two faced. He is fine with chatting with you online, but basically ignores you at school. He is not worth YOUR time. You deserve friends who treat you as a friend in all circumstances.
2007-01-20 09:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
y would u even want to talk to someone like that. thats just flakey and damn annoyin.
it could be that his ego is WAY too big and he doesnt think that you or most of the people in the world deserve to be blessed with his beautiful voice in your direction.
or we could always go with the famous "maybe he likes you but doesnt know how to talk to you in person" and hes got self confidence issues. maybe u should be the better person and aproach him at school (when hes by himself. not around friends) and if he just ignores u some more. screw it, its a waste of time and energy to be worryin if some flake will talk to u
2007-01-20 09:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like he is a well no to be mean but a jerk(but i shouldn't judge i haven't even met him). So may be you should find someone knew. Then say well if you would talk to me at school i wouldn''t be with him. Oh you don't need his approval. He is not your dad. Oh if i were you i would ignore him online and no teven look at him at school. But when he says why won't yo talk to me just say you need to earn your approvel to talk to you.
Jen
2007-01-20 09:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by **[[Jen]]** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some possibilities, but he is probabaly just shy. If u are decent or good looking or semi popular at least then u espcecially have nothing to worry about. Just be patient, calm, and if he only reason to feel insecure is if u are really ugly and he is embarressed to be with u (not likely though). I only speek the truth.
2007-01-20 09:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by MarleyMan14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably avoiding you until he sees what "social circle" you're going to run in. high school sucks. i hated the popularity contests. and i hate to say it but it sounds like he cares more about what people will think of him if you end up less popular than him. you're a senior, next year, hopefully, you will be off to college and there's going to be a lot more people you'll meet and become friends with. i wouldn't worry about a relationship until then.
2016-05-24 01:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either shy, or is just stringing you along and playing games which is not fair. You should back off, not even trying to get in touch with him.
If he's into you he'll come crawling back, if not you are better off without. It seems like he has way too much of an ego putting himself on a pedestal to me, who wants the drama of that?
2007-01-20 09:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by hoochiemama2000_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, yikes! um, i think i know whats going on...
I'm just taken a wild stab in the dark. - Hes one of the "cool Kids?" am i wrong? if so I'm sry..
But any way. (weather he is "cool" or "uncool").. He most likely thinks your a cool person. but he doesn't want his school friends to know that he want to be your friend... or may be I'm wrong.. may be he just you to try a little harder.... or may be he just likes to talk to you and he doesn't really want to be a school friend, just and on-line friend... See what he says if u ask him to hang out with you next week. to the movies.. (AS FRIENDS) well that's when he starts talking to u again.. sry if i made no since to you.:(
2007-01-20 09:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha Powell lolz.=) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not want anyone to know that you and him talk then get rid of him and find someone who does not mind flaunting that they are talking to you. He may have another female and your the sidekick. Do not play second best for no man. Kick his but "TO THE LEFT, TO THE LEFT" Yes, he is replaceable!
2007-01-20 09:37:13 · answer #11 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋