2007-01-20 10:19:48 · 23 answers · asked by bro 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if its really bothering u, u should talk to her about it. If u love her and she loves u her past shouldnt matter just the future!
2007-01-20 10:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by oompaloompa2718 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how many girls have u slept with before u met this girl.. If it doesn't bother her, then it should not bother u .. What u need to worry about is ur time with her at the present an future not judge her over her past.
2007-01-20 10:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you're smart enough to know that she hasn't contracted any STD's. I also assume that she's "faithful" to you. With that out of the way, you should be glad! She's experienced, obviously enjoys sex, and appears to be desirable. Golly gee, isn't that what you wanted?
How did you expect her to be so hot in the sack if she didn't have some experience?
She must like it, too. I see a big plus there!
Maybe you feel a little inadequate? If she told you about her past, maybe you should be man enough to tell her so and find out what she needs and give it to her.
My wife was more then "a little experienced" when we started dating 16 years ago. get it?
2007-01-20 10:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow it is weird that you ask this question because me and my boyfriend have the same situation. I sleep with alot of guys only because i felt so ugly and hated myself and i felt as if i slept with a guy i was beautiful and i felt wanted. Thankfully my boyfriend understands that and can except it but fro you just ask her why did you. If she did just because she could, then you have a right to care but if it along the same lines of my story the i would forgive her and realize that you cant change her past but you can change her future.
2007-01-20 10:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has something in their past that well, they would like to keep in the past. Everyone has a past.
The fact that she was honest is not a bad sign. But if she is bragging I would reevaluate your relationship.
Also what is a lot for one person is not for another.
Look at yours and her values, are they the same?
Values and views are a very important part of a relationship ( after the newness of the great sex wears off!!)
2007-01-20 10:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Summer2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, a lot is how many?
and also depends on your culture.
In western countries, I guess less than 10 boys if she is 25 yr or older seems ok.
But anyway, if she is really nice, even she slept with many boys, I guess it is still ok? but if it bothers you too much, maybe you should stop seeing her, or you will always be suspicious of her. that is not good, for sure.
2007-01-20 10:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I`m sure it would bother you but if she cares for you and you care for her then the past should stay in the past. I`m sure you have had other partners just like her except maybe not as many. Some women are just looking for that SPECIAL ONE and it sounds like your girlfriend may have found her`s. GOOD LUCK TO YOU BOTH
2007-01-20 10:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
actually everyone has a prior, and a few actually everyone seems to be greater matured than others. i've got self assurance which you extremely like her and that's the reason you experience injury, yet you're able to desire to go on from it. in case you extremely like her you will look previous it. concentration on the now. do no longer blow some thing sturdy that is going for you. better of luck to you and your gf.
2016-11-25 22:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to some people it matters and to others it doesn't - don't feel that it's wrong to care about her past, it's not. the main thing to remember is that she is with you for a reason and not with those others for a reason - you must be something special to her. i know that if it was me i wouldn't be able to not be jealous if my boyfriend had slept with other women before me, i;m glad that we were each other's first and only.
2007-01-20 10:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you know about this before you were together?>IF YES
2007-01-20 10:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by les m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋