Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

Do you find it overbearing if a girl asks a guy out? Should I tell him I like him, or just hit that we should go see a movie sometime?

I think I kind of intimidate him, because he is more of a softy... Should I just become closer friends with him?

2007-01-20 14:56:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have the "hots" for my best guy friend we flirt all the time people think we are going out. we have been friends for about five years and i can talk to him about anything. i mean this kid went in and bought me tampons when i couldnt get out of the car because i had cramps he means so much to me and if he dosent feel the same way i dont wanna mess things up at all.


uhhh any advice?

2007-01-20 14:55:43 · 14 answers · asked by awesome 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive seen it five times and still bawl my eyes out histerically every single time. Is it true they are going out in real life?

2007-01-20 14:54:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK so I met a guy from a Christian dating site back in September. We are both looking for the same thing. A serious relationship leading to marriage. We spoke every day until we met on January 4-7. I went to see him where he lives. He paid for my ticket and everything. While I was there we discussed marriage, and everything. Since I came back he has called me every day, and texts me during the day as well. We had planned on me going to see him on February 15-18 and were going to be buying my ticket today. (well he was paying). Anyhow he is an aircraft mechanic and for the past week he has been away on work. He has called me every day even though he has been in Mexico and Florida. Yesterday he called me at work and was being very sweet, but said that he had a little bad news for me, but also good news. He has been trying to get on with a larger company and finally got an interview with one. He has to fly somewhere for that, and would not have enough right now to pay for my ticket and the ticket he has to buy to go and his hotel etc. He asked if we could postpone for a few weeks. I was a little disappointed, however tried to not let him know as I am happy about the possible new job. He said that he is excited because if he gets the job then he would have his flights paid for and he could come here and see me more often.

He was also talking about marriage and stuff, and things to do with the future. He then had to go as he was boarding his flight to fly home. He said he would call me as soon as he landed to let me know he was home. He said, since he is my future husband he wants to let me know that he is safe etc. and where he is all the time.

I knew when his flight got in (and confirmed online), and he never called me. I waited a while (an hour and a half) after his flight got in and tried to call him. First the phone rang and rang and went to voice mail. So I left a message and waited a while longer. He also has a work cell, so about 45 mins later I called that and it was turned off. (it never is), and then I re-tried his personal cell, and that was turned off also now. I left a message there and said that I was concerned as I had not heard from him and his cell was turned off which I mentioned also concerned me. I asked him to call me today. He has not. I just texted him about 1/2 hour ago and made it light and said hello and hoped he was having a good day. Still nothing.

This is WEIRD. I am not getting this. I am holding off calling him at the moment. I want him to call me. I don't want to seem like I am freaking out. I mean if he was trying to "break it off" with me... would be have been talking about marriage and stuff yesterday? And how the new job could help US?

I am lost here and need some advice or reassurance or something. I don't want to jump to conclusions with him and seem like a freak, but it feels like something is wrong!!!

2007-01-20 14:54:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I don't actually 'want' him, but I want him to notice me. I'm real crazy and outgoing at home, but at school I am REAL shy. If this will help, he is: tall, outgoing, flirts with girls 24/7, that kinda stuff. How do I get him to notice me?

2007-01-20 14:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by carmenaschenck 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy a couple of months ago at work, went to a gig and got on great, met mainly in my work environment since then, but have texted each other and arranged a night out.

Thursday night we ended up back at mine and yes we had sex and stayed in bed all friday.

I did see him briefly friday night and sort of arranged to meet saturday, although it was quite a casual arrangement as i work in the pub and he said he would pop by for a pint
so i sent him a cheeky text thanking him for a great night and saying i finished work at 6.
Nothing since, i sent a msg to check he is ok, and got nothing back.
I am not very good with phone calls, so not gonna phone him yet, but SHOULD I SEND HIM A FINAL TEXT SAYING I QUITE LIKE HIM BUT UNDERSTAND IF IT WAS JUST SEX.
NOT TO FIND IT AWQUARD AND WE CAN STILL BE MATES.

or do I just wait? i dont want to seem pushy or desperate lol
ts the first time since the break up of my last relationship almost a yr ago that i have felt this

2007-01-20 14:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by funkyfaerie 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 10 years but married for 3 years. It's getting to the point that I feel like my husband is bored with me. I see a problem here and I want to fix it. Tell me what you would do to keep him interested in you sexually and emotionally. I've tried talking about it but he gets annoyed. He works 14 hour days 6 days a week so I try to approach him with my feelings without being dramatic.He doesn't want to talk about it. What would you do to spice it up a little?In such a little time frame.
Oh yeah...by the way..we have 3 kids 5,3,and 1 yrs old so finding time other than the shower isn't easy.
Thanks for any help

2007-01-20 14:53:36 · 22 answers · asked by nikolesmommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think a nine yr old boy pinching a nine yr old girls butt sexual harrassment? If so why...If not why?

2007-01-20 14:52:45 · 8 answers · asked by BELLABELLA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-20 14:52:21 · 13 answers · asked by silent love 1 in Singles & Dating

ive liked her for 7 years and always wanted to tell her

2007-01-20 14:51:44 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

she calls my friend to see how i have been but won't call me...she says that i didn't try hard enough to get a job or for us..but i left to a whole new town....i was scared what can i do to atleast talk to her?

2007-01-20 14:51:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past 5 months, I've really liked this girl at school. I mean, shes ALL I cared/thought about. Well, about last week, I asked her for her AIM, and that's when we started to talk more. Then, I asked her if I could sit by her at lunch, and she agreed. Well, after about 3 days of this, I got on AIM to talk to her, but this particular day she blocked my screename. Thinking there was an error, I got on a different screename, and asked if something was wrong. She just ignored me, so I just left after that. I sent her an email asking what had happened. I didn't know if she checked her email often, so I called her too. I called, and she faked her brother. I could tell, I just didn't want to say anything. The next day, I get an email saying she doesn't want to talk with me.

I really don't know what to do now. I'm so shocked, and I'm very depressed. And I can't tell her anything, because she doesn't want to hear from me.

What should I do? Thanx

2007-01-20 14:51:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i know a lot of guys who like me but i don't like them back and the guys i do like don't like me the same way! what?

2007-01-20 14:51:16 · 7 answers · asked by G0ds*Pr0p3rty 1 in Friends

it was my 25th birthday and i went out with friends, but i don't think i've ever felt so lonely!

2007-01-20 14:51:11 · 16 answers · asked by bamba_982 3 in Friends

Ok my friend died about 2 months ago i am still not over it i feel like crying every time i go to school but i dont want to be rude to ppl who were closer and it makes me think about death and makes miss my nanny ect ect please dont comment for getting more points the is important

p.s. HELP

2007-01-20 14:50:47 · 15 answers · asked by Kaci 2 in Friends

My husband is really acting weird lately..he comes home from work takes a shower right away then he leaves to "go out".He is staying out late 4+ times a week then when he does come home he takes ANOTHER shower. He hardly eats at home anymore and is barely here period. Just today I found a pic of another woman in his wallet hiding. I looked through it because I am so suspicious of what might be going on! What do you think? I don't wanna be stupid here but he keeps denying anything is going on. I have young kids so i can't just jump in the car and look for him and he knows it too so he does what he wants! I am very sad right now...

2007-01-20 14:50:46 · 41 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

its kinda personal but hey you wont know if you dont ask k well here goes .... when you lost your virginity how long ago was it and are you still with the same guy me it was 4 years ago and no im not still with the same guy he was an assholee i wish i could have done it with the guy im with now do you regret doing it with your first?????

2007-01-20 14:50:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 14:50:13 · 8 answers · asked by Koop 2 in Friends

2007-01-20 14:50:09 · 16 answers · asked by rajns28 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok would you prefer a down home southern girl that likes muddin huntin and stuff (like me) or a girl that is scared of dirt?!!?

2007-01-20 14:49:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not the coolest person in high school or anything like that. I am probably the only guy in my class that has drank alcohol or tried a cigarette yet. I am not the best looking but I don't think I am ugly. I have only had one girlfriend. Never french kissed anyone. So do you really find the one in college? or when?

2007-01-20 14:49:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fourteen year old son plys with toys. is it bad or wierd? plze comment

2007-01-20 14:48:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been on and off with eachother for the last three years. He is everything I want in my life and he is the sweetest person I've ever met. We've gone through a lot of things and broken up several times before but he knows and understands me like no one else I've ever met. Sometimes just being around him he is able to tell exactly what I'm thinking without me saying a word. He's the only person I know who likes my sense of humor or enjoys doing the things I enjoy to do (reading poetry and analyzing it for fun or talking in detail about the significant shades of a color found in a work of art) but me and him both have a few issues. I suffer from depression and he suffers from depression and anxiety attacks. We were engaged a while back and we started fighting alot and he ended up leaving and it hurt me alot. Our relationship is DEFINITELY NOT what is defined as normal in any way. So in that case is it unwise for me to try to pursue a future with him?

2007-01-20 14:48:47 · 10 answers · asked by Tasha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to enjoy being single, because all relationships end one way or another. I always have goals, and am in the middle of completing one of them (my PhD will be done in 8-10 months). I accept that I may never be in a long-term committed relationship (I'm 33 and haven't dated more than two years yet). How do you enjoy being single? What keeps you from loneliness when you love your work, and your outlook on life?

2007-01-20 14:48:06 · 29 answers · asked by univcommscholar 1 in Singles & Dating

what are some good reasons for marriage...my boyfriend has said he doesnt see the point in it other than spending alot of money. I said it is the guesture that u want to be with that person for the rest of your life and he says....well if ur thinking about marriage than that should be enough already. help pls i want a wedding

2007-01-20 14:47:48 · 5 answers · asked by GP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been goin out with this girl on and off for about 2 years and i feel like shes the only one i can possibly every be happy with but the only thing is we always argue... but i know everyone argues... what should i do.

2007-01-20 14:47:45 · 6 answers · asked by titansmavericks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married and want us to sign a pre-nup. How much does that cost on average (ballpark)? Also, I would appreciate any tips on finding a good pre-nup lawyer. I don;t need full service, just some help making a short and clear legal document. Or can it be made without a lawyer, just confirmed by a notary?

2007-01-20 14:47:36 · 1 answers · asked by Kaytee 5 in Marriage & Divorce

did my moms bf have the right to slap me across the back. it was like 2 yrs ago. she wasn't even married to him and he like hit me. could i have like called child abuse on him. he hit me for throwing rocks 2 which i think was so stupid. does he have the right to do anything to me, cause i don't think he does, and i now i hate her bf for doing that.

2007-01-20 14:47:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want it to mean something and I want it to be very special for him... I want it to say hpw much I love him... Does any one have any ideas of tips to make it perfect...

2007-01-20 14:46:11 · 12 answers · asked by lovinlifeandhim7 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a Classic (first generation) Mazda RX-7, fully restored and a new Ford F-150, loaded but stock. If I were to pick you up for a date, which one should I bring?
Why?

2007-01-20 14:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by Richie.Rich 2 in Singles & Dating