2007-01-20 14:50:09 · 16 answers · asked by rajns28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes love exist ,but like anything else you have to work at it. I love my wife after six years together.
2007-01-20 14:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to explore your definition of "Marriage"....... I have been married for over 5 years and I love the comfort and acceptance that comes along with marriage!! :) Lust is a dating thing, but does not last forever. However, Love, is a more patient and forgiving thing..... that is why it is so comforting!! :) Good Luck!
2007-01-20 23:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on the depth of your love when you first get married and how hard you work to keep it alive. And yes it is work but it takes two to make it work and keep the love alive or it will become a place of compfort and security of not being alone for the rest of your life.
When a person marries, it should be that all consuming love and devotion that one has that goes to the very soul of us. And it would be just that when its the right one in our life.
I didnt get it the first time around but found it the second time.
2007-01-20 23:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by cowgirlduchess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love lasts after marriage. Yes, it can comfortable, but that's not a bad thing. Love changes, that doesn't mean it goes away. Love is still there, and you can show it and your partner can show it so many different ways.
2007-01-20 23:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say I believe love last after marriage and not only that but I believe love gets stronger and dipper. If you are not in love with your mate why make yourself and the person miserable. It just wouldn't be fair for neither one of you. As it is with love marriage is still hard sometimes, now imagine with out it how hard it might be.I have been married for 14 years already and many people told us it wasn't going to last. But yet here we are wiser and more in love than ever.
2007-01-20 22:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is almost gone. I work days, wife works nights, in between we watch kids. No time for each other and she is tired ALL THE TIME. She won't accept that the marriage light is growing dim.
Not all are like this but mine is becoming routine.
2007-01-20 22:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it sure does and gets better and stronger with time.... Love is a choice of the heart and so is marriage and commitment... Marriage is what you choose to make it to be. Marriage takes two.
http://www.marriagetoday.org
2007-01-20 22:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, the ultimate definition of love IS comfort and acceptance.
2007-01-21 01:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by chrissy25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should get stronger as you are married. I never thought I could love my husband more than I did on our wedding day. But after having kids, going through struggles, having each others back no matter who tried to come up against us.(Friends ,family ,work, financial difficulties) This love has become something I can't measure.
2007-01-20 23:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
most marriages seem like they become comfortable and accepting. It's sad but i still want to marry one day
2007-01-20 22:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by keysopendoors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is many different stages in marriage sometimes its more exciting and feel like more love and other times it is a comfort zone. if you don't like the faze u r in try your best to change it
2007-01-20 23:07:35 · answer #11 · answered by married23mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋