Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

I do, they're so self obsessed. they're not mean or anything, they just htink about nobody but themselves all the time and it drives me insane, and i hate to be around them sometimes, but i generally hate not being around them. it's so confusing! is anyone in hte same situation?

2007-01-20 15:33:28 · 18 answers · asked by jo 5 in Friends

I have had this major crush on my friends BF even before they got together. They are now broke up and yet I still really like him. I am around my friend a lot and I don't want her to find out that I like her Ex. I know she doesn't like to talk about it but I'm just afraid that I'll be talking to her and it will just slip that me and him are talking. I don't think he likes me b/c he has a new girlfriend but I have never told him I have liked him.( I'm too afraid to tell him in fear he might say he just wants to be friends and then I will hate him. and I don't ever want to hate him ) I just wish I could let my friend know about my crush before I DO let it slip that I like her Ex.What can I do?

2007-01-20 15:33:22 · 4 answers · asked by LindsayS 2 in Singles & Dating

I’m 30 years old and have moved in with my 75 year old father because of his illness. He has major surgery and is still weak. I have discovered that before I moved in he had hookers come to the house where we live. I told him this is unacceptable for me and if I found out they come to the house now that I live here, I will move out. Do I install a web cam to see if he has them come to the house while I am away? If I do decide to move out, do I tell my extended family about the hookers? They may shun me if they think I left my sick father to look after himself without a good reason. I no longer respect or like my father and it makes me sick to think that whores come into the place where I live. He wants me to meet his current "girl friend" and I refused

2007-01-20 15:32:10 · 11 answers · asked by ranbhush 1 in Family

he talks to his ex wife about the kids ,he has custody i get alittle jealous. why do i get this way??i know he would never want her back she abused him and the kids,and he only married her b/c he was in the navy and was lonily he said he never loved her,and that he has never loved any one like he has loved me,i know he is sencere when he says this too but why do i get so mad when he talks to her....

2007-01-20 15:31:32 · 21 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex went out for alittle over a month. Then she broke up with me and said that she just wanst to be friends and dosnt want a bf right now. I pleaded with her to give me another chance and aplogized numerous times but she still said no. I tried to get over her and even started to like another girl but I still love her. Im still not over her b/c we have alot of the same classes and I see her everyday and I get remined everyday of how wonderful she is and how much I want her back. I miss her so much and still really want to be with her and really like her and maybe even love her. So im askin What should I do. I asked her to hang out a couple of weeks ago just as friends but realized it would just bring back old feelings and cancled the date before it happend. I dont know what to do anymore.

2007-01-20 15:31:12 · 1 answers · asked by Titans 1101 1 in Singles & Dating

She has recently told me that she would go out with me if we "clicked" when we meet at the movies on Friday and have fun.

2007-01-20 15:31:10 · 3 answers · asked by elkhalil10 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately all that has been going on has stressed me out and i need ways to relax.

2007-01-20 15:30:44 · 13 answers · asked by Quo 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend has come to me because I am in a happy marriage of 5 years and she has been married for 2 1/2 and now says she is not in love with her husband but she has a 3 year old with him and will not leave him. I don't want to break up her marriage with my advice. Every marriage is different. What should I tell her? Thanks.

2007-01-20 15:30:35 · 12 answers · asked by Mare 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know whether this guy loves me or not, i mean as far we talked online and on phone to me it looks like he really does like me, but then people say that never trust or fall in love with people online? sometimes it's hard for me cuz he lives in another state and i am in another state.

2007-01-20 15:30:28 · 15 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 yr and 5 months. Lately he has been telling me that he wants us to be married. We have a child together and I have two other children. We have gone through some things like him being very selffish and not caring about my other kids. Now things are much better and he is growing up into a mature man. But I just want to make sure that it is right and I am not making a mistake. He loves me very much and I really do love him. Should i get married to him?

2007-01-20 15:29:19 · 39 answers · asked by Akisha H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont wanna brag but i basically have it all i have a ton of guys falling after me but im like so un popular and im like a geek and my frinds ask me how do u get guys but i dont no what to say becuz i dont have a technique please help!!!!

2007-01-20 15:29:03 · 13 answers · asked by Sydney O 1 in Friends

I've always wondered that. How shy and insecure are they? How smart are they? They get all this attention -- does it mean they have high self-esteem?

2007-01-20 15:28:25 · 7 answers · asked by CluefulinSD 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 15:28:12 · 8 answers · asked by ayla1257 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey dudes, I need your opinion. My gf confessed to me that she has made love with at least three men before meeting me, for years. I feel spiritual pain, feel it is dirty and can't enjoy anything with her. Her past haunts me day and night.What would you do if you were me? I want to give up...

2007-01-20 15:27:56 · 12 answers · asked by Arturo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance and his ex wife hate each other ok.but he is sick and she has been brining some chicken noodle soup to him she is engaged too.and i dont think she likes him in fact i know they cant stand one another,yet why is she being so nice to him she has her own man and ive got mine ok. could it be so she can get the kids more often then what she does??? he has custody. the kids live with me and him and she is only allowed to get them on the weekends....

2007-01-20 15:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Explain the best i can!!! Been out of the dating scene for three years. I see this women once a week and have some small talk here and there. Just before the holidays i had a question about a sitiuation, when she answered the question and before i left she was like can i help u with any thing else. Also she was wondering what i was doing for the new year eve. A couple of weeks went bye, then ran into her again, after some small talk and handling my business she again asked if there was anything else. And as usual i say no and go about my day. This was the first time i have seen her with her hair down and looked very pretty that day. Now what is it with the question of anything else after i already finished with all my business handlings. What else do i look for if it might be an interest on both parts maybe or am i just imgaine all this!!! Sorry it is hard for me to explain!!

2007-01-20 15:26:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy called izaiah that i like he said he loved me but we never went out but then at this party this girl called kandy told me that izaiah asked her out and that he kissed her. at the party i saw her dancing she was shaking her butt at him and izaiah started dancing with her i asked him if he liked her but he said no should i belive kandy or izaiah HELP PLEAZZZZE!!! :( :( :( :( :(

2007-01-20 15:25:50 · 17 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I think that its not okay to have sex with your boyfriend because i know its a sin and sometimes i think that if i dont give it to him he mite get mad and dont wont to be around me anybody with the same problem as me out there if so can you let me know your answer(s)

2007-01-20 15:25:43 · 9 answers · asked by MDGJR 1 in Singles & Dating

titanic was suppost to be the ship of dreams.
but for me it was the ship of nightmares.
im 102 years old.
i was only 5 when i was on the titanic.
i lost all my loved ones.
my mother my father and my grandmother.
help how do i get true this

2007-01-20 15:24:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok, so I work at The Sizzler along with my friend... who happens to be a gay male... hes reaaallly cute....

anyway... he got fired the other day!!! and letm e tell you the lame excuse he was given.... about a week before he got ifred, he had "touched" this ugly girls boob in the freezer... obviously it meant nothing... and he was just joking around... we had known this girl for monthes... and shes the type who does things for attention.. well.. she acts like.. it really pissed her off.. and wouldnt talk to him for a day or so.. but then finally told him she didnt mean to go all crazy, and she was ok... WELL.. a week later the "boss" calls him in the office and fires him for sexual harrassment.... and we find out that she had told him that my friend had sexually harrassed her.. what do yall think??.. dumb.. or did he deserve it?

2007-01-20 15:24:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Are there any programs in cook county that will provide a stipend for senior care givers and if so, where do I apply?

2007-01-20 15:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

Sometimes I think that its not okay to have sex with your boyfriend because i know its a sin and sometimes i think that if i dont give it to him he mite get mad and dont wont to be around me anybody with the same problem as me out there if so can you let me know your answer(s)

2007-01-20 15:23:45 · 23 answers · asked by MDGJR 1 in Singles & Dating

im friends with this guy and i started liking him recently and he acts like he likes me back. then this other girl i know (whos also friends with him) messeges me on IM and tells me she loves him. i didnt even know they were friends! i asked him about her and he said he knew she liked him. but shes like completely in love with him! i dont know what to do becuase i dont even like her but i like him. do i tell her that hes been flirty with me too? or just stay out of it and stay friends with him but dont persue a relationship? or do i just not stay friends with him? i really dont care what happens to her because i dont like her, ive never liked her, shes a know it all. what do i do?

2007-01-20 15:23:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom has died. Her heart has stopped beating. Her last words to me were "I love you". Why couldnt I tell her the same back? Why were my last words before she left for the supermarket "I hate you"? Her red hair and green eyes still haunt me. Her touch on my shoulder i can still feel. Why couldnt I utter the words "I love you" to her? Am I that cold? How can I live with myself knowing I was the reason for her death. I muttered "I hope you die", when she wouldnt let me go out. I guess I got my wish I guess she died,and so did my heart.

2007-01-20 15:23:25 · 12 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family

I think my husband is using meth but he says that he is stressed out and depressed. He mentioned that being bipolar runs in his family. I think he is liying. I love him but I cant live like this and i wont. I've already moved out with my mom and took the kids with me as well as filed for a divorce. I told him it is over,......Is it really over? I think so.

2007-01-20 15:22:50 · 7 answers · asked by melissa m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

An occurence on Burwell ave.The house looked
the same, a dysmal grey. There were cars parked
out front. I wonder what the people that live there now would think, if they knew of the evil that once
walked their floors.
"Cold it was within the manor, waiting like a wounded sparrow, helpless and forgotten".
The old car creeped into the driveway. Would he be drunk again, as I peeped out the window? I soon got my answere. Something flew at me as I stood at the window. I leaped out the way as the window shattered out. My father had thrown the jack out the car at me as I looked out the window.
Once again it was time to run, for when he came in the house no one could stand before him without getting hurt. His favorite phrase,"He, or she ran like a turkey. They all run like turkeys before me. "

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2007-01-20 15:21:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hey there everyone, i was wondering if anybody knew of any ghost hunters in southern michigan? if you do, please leave an email or a website link.

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2007-01-20 15:21:20 · 4 answers · asked by Max C 4 in Friends

i've been married for year and a half. I've been with him for 10 years. He's been locked up for 1 year I cheated One time and got pregnant ever since My guilt is eating me up and I don't know If i should stay married He as also told me he cheated a few years back and contacted HERPES. I guess what I'm asking is should I stay With my husband after both our betrayel's are should I move on and start a life with me and my children????????? HEEEELLLPPPPPPPP

2007-01-20 15:20:28 · 11 answers · asked by snowbunnie12004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 15:19:55 · 14 answers · asked by gr8rn89 2 in Singles & Dating