Sometimes I think that its not okay to have sex with your boyfriend because i know its a sin and sometimes i think that if i dont give it to him he mite get mad and dont wont to be around me anybody with the same problem as me out there if so can you let me know your answer(s)
2007-01-20 15:23:45 · 23 answers · asked by MDGJR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only do it, if you are really ready for this. Always use protection. Don't do it for you boyfriend/girlfriend.
2007-01-20 15:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over with him, he mite not be ready either (you Neva know).
Depending on your age (over 16 in my opinion) well done for lasting a whole year without sex. (if under 16) so you should wait.
If your having doubts about having sex your not ready!!!.
Sex doesn't make the relationship, "communication/friendship and compatibility".
And if he gets mad and wants to leave.... let him....
and hope he catches something (std) to teach him a lesson.
Good luck on your decision and hope you make the right choice for Y O U.
2007-01-20 23:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by imhismisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
virginity should not be seen as a problem. Sex is something you either want to do or you dont. I dont believe that you should have to sleep with a boy too keep him. That might work to keep him around for a bit longer but it also doesnt guarantee relationship success.
2007-01-20 23:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by angelbaby777au 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long you've been with a person should not determine if you should have sex or not...You need to take your age into consideration and also what you believe...If your boyfriend is willing to leave you just because you won't give up the goods, then you need to let him go anyways...If he doesn't have a problem with waiting, then let him wait until you are sure it's what YOU want to do.
2007-01-20 23:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As far as i'm concerned there's no sin involved, God created sex and said it was good.. and Adam and Eve weren't married as far as we know! You have to make your own decision, but the drive and urge to have sex is a normal human feeling and I see nothing wrong with it, in fact it's one of my favorite uses for boyfriends!
2007-01-20 23:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends up to u..if u guys love each other so much to give your 100% in the relationship...which includes sex..then that should be fine.But if u r having sex because u r scared he'll get mad at u..then just don't!the person who doesn't respect your beliefs and ethics isn't worth all this pain and trouble.If he loves u..he'll wait till u sort out your confusion and he'll understand.If he doesn't then he just doesn't love u..U have to think wise.good luck:)
2007-01-20 23:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning it, you probably aren't ready.
If you think its a sin, I would say wait.
IF he's not willing to wait, I would get rid of him.
Its only ok, if you want it to be ok. Whatever you do, make an informed decision. Use protection.
2007-01-20 23:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to stick to your morals and resist temptation if you can. If he loves you he will be there for you.
I see you giving in within the next 60 days so if that does happen protect yourself.
2007-01-20 23:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if u think this then dont do it but i know there are no one that does this no more and its up to u and what ur man think's and if he does not understand what u are wishing then he needs to get someone that is the way that he is
2007-01-20 23:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by megryanmc 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course it's ok. your only human. ur supposed to sin sometimes. get with the times. u can have sex any time u want.
2007-01-20 23:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by hectik340013 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋