Sometimes I think that its not okay to have sex with your boyfriend because i know its a sin and sometimes i think that if i dont give it to him he mite get mad and dont wont to be around me anybody with the same problem as me out there if so can you let me know your answer(s)
2007-01-20 15:25:43 · 9 answers · asked by MDGJR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o0h god... you cant think of sex that way. listen to me.. im 16 years old and ive been with my boyfriend for a yr and a half and i just recently lost my virginity to him. I mean i care or him alot but i wasnt ready for it or the consequences. i suggest you really think about it and not do it just because he might leave you because guess what that would mean? that he is a selfish pig thinking about only himself and just looking for a funtime with you. do it when you are sure and trust me, when you do... it will be amazing, not something you regret. do it cause u want to, not because he might leave you... he can leave then and find someone who is dumb enough to not see that its what he wants because if he cared for you, he would NOT leave you cause your not ready or are insecure.. please dont get carried away by the moment...
2007-01-20 15:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any question in your mind the time is not right. If you are not comfortable after a year that doesn't make you odd, it doesn't diminish the relationship, or shouldn't.
IN a good relationship your partner will respect that it is something you are not comfortable with. If you are wanting to save yourself until marriage then do so, don't let anybody change your mind.
The decision to have sex is a big one and come with many responsibilities and consequences if the time is not right.
Trust you judgment if you are not ready then DO NOT have sex. If your partner cannot respect that decision then he is not right for you.
2007-01-20 23:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is like a wildfire. While extremely wonderful outside marriage, it will soon die out once it has consumed all of its surroundings.
In marriage it will be contained and in its proper place, as if in a Fireplace. This way it will grow and be contained at the same time.
2007-01-20 23:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WAIT. If he can't handle waiting, then he won't stick around later either and he wasn't worth your time. It is a disaster waiting to happen. Don't let your emotions control you. Wait until marriage then you'll have piece of mind. If you don't, you'll hate yourself for not having the will power.
2007-01-20 23:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by cgi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look im a guy and yes we naturally think more sex than anything on this earth, lol, i domt suggest nothing about religion but i can say that if you feel good w/ your bf than go ahead i mean come on he already waited 1 year . not alot of men wait that long
use a condom though
2007-01-20 23:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Z-boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be true to your own thoughts about it... and no, doing it just because he might get mad it is not a reason... if he loves you he will wait.
2007-01-20 23:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Aija 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't respect you, then he's not the guy you should be with.
If he can understand it's a sin and you both choose not to do it, then good for you.
2007-01-20 23:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by polevaulter1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if both of you have a good open communication with each other then talk about it.
if he disagrees on what your beliefs then he is not one for you.
you shouldn't be pressured, on what you don't want to do
2007-01-20 23:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by manblind1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is up to you if he leaves than maybe he was not the one for you do you see your self being with him for a lifetime.tuff spot.good luck
2007-01-20 23:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by bigbubbabub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋