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I have had this major crush on my friends BF even before they got together. They are now broke up and yet I still really like him. I am around my friend a lot and I don't want her to find out that I like her Ex. I know she doesn't like to talk about it but I'm just afraid that I'll be talking to her and it will just slip that me and him are talking. I don't think he likes me b/c he has a new girlfriend but I have never told him I have liked him.( I'm too afraid to tell him in fear he might say he just wants to be friends and then I will hate him. and I don't ever want to hate him ) I just wish I could let my friend know about my crush before I DO let it slip that I like her Ex.What can I do?

2007-01-20 15:33:22 · 4 answers · asked by LindsayS 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

this friend of mine isn't really a close friend. She is actually pretty rude most of the time. It's sad to say but I'm pretty much her only friend because no one likes her. She's really selfish but I have learned to work past that.

2007-01-20 15:42:43 · update #1

4 answers

Talk to him and tell him how you feel.
Good Luck

2007-01-20 15:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0 0

The short answer is nothing. There will be plenty of guys to crush on, many guys will come and go. Your friends are the one that will be there foe you throughout. If you like your friends ex, leave it at that a crush, I assure you there will be many more to come.

Don't jeopardize your friendship over a guy, especially since you don't believe anything will come of it. I am sure in the next couple month you will find another guy to be head over heals for.

2007-01-20 23:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0 0

well what matters to u the most is whats important, if i were u i would tell my friend that i like her ex but then i would also tell her how much her feelings and herself mean to me. i am sure if u gals are really friends like u said then u shouldn't have any problem, but god forbid if u do then i guess it shows that her ex matters more then how much u care about her feelings to her

2007-01-20 23:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by pretty 1 · 0 0

since he with someone else, it would not hurt you to tell her that
at one time you had a crush on him and then move on, and leave
it along.

2007-01-20 23:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0 0

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