my fiance and his ex wife hate each other ok.but he is sick and she has been brining some chicken noodle soup to him she is engaged too.and i dont think she likes him in fact i know they cant stand one another,yet why is she being so nice to him she has her own man and ive got mine ok. could it be so she can get the kids more often then what she does??? he has custody. the kids live with me and him and she is only allowed to get them on the weekends....
2007-01-20 15:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe she is putting poison in the soup and that is why he is sick...just a suggestion
2007-01-24 12:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by LYN p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of it if I were you. If she wants the kids more and she is a fit parent let her have them-more time for you and him to spend together. Have a talk with him and ask him why he is accepting soup from her- maybe she is just being nice who knows. Try not to be insecure, this is not attractive to most men, unless you think something is going on other than the kid issue I would say dont worry about it since she has a man of her own.
2007-01-20 15:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she has an agenda here yes and a motive. just like men when women have the kids and the men want to see the kids more the women put them through hoola hoops and the poor man put up with there antics. so now the tables are turned and she is doing what she think she can gain points in right now he is sick she's betting on that that he will remembrer this when he is better and thinks she has a softer side to her and he may be more leanient when she comes around and drops the bomb on him what her intentions are with the kids by seeing them more. Hopefully your hsuband won't be fooled . this is one of the oldest tricks in the book for both sexes.
2007-01-20 15:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you say they pretty much hate each other right? The opposite of love is not hate...it's indifference...So considering they hate each other...that means that they both still care for each other...When neither one of them hate each other any more and have no feelings either good or bad, then that's when they are indifferent...So she's bringing him soup because that hate is really mixed up emotions...The question you should be asking is why is he letting her.
2007-01-20 15:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not let that slide in my home. Why the hell is he accepting soup from another woman? What ever happened to RESPECT. I would tell ur man that it bothers you since he seems too dumb to know its wrong to accept. Make sure he treats you like the queen u are! If she wants too see her kids thats awesome, but no need to make your man soup!
2007-01-20 15:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Coco Jingle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is doing it because he is the father of her children and just because she doesn't like him doesn't mean she can't be nice to the father of her children. If you don't like it then I suggest you leave the relationship because as long as those kids live there will ALWAYS be a connection between her and your boyfriend.
2007-01-20 15:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it could be that altho they hate each other, right now she feels compassion for him as she did while they were together. Doesn't necessarily mean she hates him less, just that her compassion and nurturing side is overriding her ill feelings towards him. He is, after all, the father of her children and that will never change.
2007-01-20 15:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she loves her children... I hope she isnt a crack whore or anything.... but if she sint then why cant she see herk ids more often??.. I think maybe you guys should return the favor.. and let her see HER kids...
I hope that didnt sound rude...
2007-01-20 15:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she makes the chicken noodle soup better than you do??
2007-01-20 15:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by angelbaby777au 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I HATE TO SAY THIS, BUT BAD YELLOW ***** IS RIGHT.
IF YOU STILL HATE SOMEONE, THAT MEANS YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR THAT PERSON. IT'S LIKE THIS: IF YOU HATE SOMEONE THAT MEANS YOU ARE STILL HURT AND IF YOU ARE STILL HURT, THEN YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR THAT PERSON.
WHY DON'T YOU ASK YOUR HUSBAND IF HE TRULY HATES HER. AND IF HE SAYS HE DOES, THEN I WOULD BE VERY CONCERNED AND SIT DOWN AND HAVE A HEART TO HEART.
2007-01-20 15:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by KAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋