what to do?

Question

me and my ex went out for alittle over a month. Then she broke up with me and said that she just wanst to be friends and dosnt want a bf right now. I pleaded with her to give me another chance and aplogized numerous times but she still said no. I tried to get over her and even started to like another girl but I still love her. Im still not over her b/c we have alot of the same classes and I see her everyday and I get remined everyday of how wonderful she is and how much I want her back. I miss her so much and still really want to be with her and really like her and maybe even love her. So im askin What should I do. I asked her to hang out a couple of weeks ago just as friends but realized it would just bring back old feelings and cancled the date before it happend. I dont know what to do anymore.

Answer 1

Your young yet, you'll learn. This won't be the first time, and I hope it's not the last.
Getting over the emotional bond can be just as hard as getting over the physical bond. Treatment on your part is required for both. Don't sulk, and get all freaked out.
If seeing her really bothers you, see your student counselor about getting into classes away from her.
If all else fails, it's most likely true love and you'll have to win her heart back for it to be right.
Don't push, just let it happen. Act as if you could live life just fine without her, but always let her know how you feel.
Good relationships take lots of hard work in compromising and understanding each other.
Maybe it's just too soon, try just being there for her as a good friend. At your age things happen too fast, slow down and Learn the difference between a want and a need. When it comes to having girls. Men should never be needy.