For the past 5 months, I've really liked this girl at school. I mean, shes ALL I cared/thought about. Well, about last week, I asked her for her AIM, and that's when we started to talk more. Then, I asked her if I could sit by her at lunch, and she agreed. Well, after about 3 days of this, I got on AIM to talk to her, but this particular day she blocked my screename. Thinking there was an error, I got on a different screename, and asked if something was wrong. She just ignored me, so I just left after that. I sent her an email asking what had happened. I didn't know if she checked her email often, so I called her too. I called, and she faked her brother. I could tell, I just didn't want to say anything. The next day, I get an email saying she doesn't want to talk with me.
I really don't know what to do now. I'm so shocked, and I'm very depressed. And I can't tell her anything, because she doesn't want to hear from me.
What should I do? Thanx
2007-01-20 14:51:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't get all depressed over one girl.
In the long run she probably did you a favor by ignoring you.
At least she told you in her actions how she feels about you.
I know if hurts like heck when someone you care about treats you in this manner...but in life you always hurt the one you love.
Move on and take this as a learning experience...what don't kill you will only make you stronger..
2007-01-20 15:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
D= omg thats sad!
Well, I think you should let her on her on for just a little bit. Maybe something bad happened and she doesnt want to talk to anyone. Or, maybe she thinks you're leading up to a relationship and is scared. OR, maybe she got a boyfriend. So, just leave her on her on for a LITTLE bit, then check back and see if she'll talk and then you should talk it out with her nicely and be very understanding.
Good luck
2007-01-20 14:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by carmenaschenck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try and find a way to talk to her write her an email or write her a letter and give it to her at lunch or something or sit by her and figure out whats going on. I hope this helps ya
2007-01-20 14:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really weird. Maybe you freaked her out. I would give it some time and maybe she will come around and talk to you about what happened and if she doesnt after a couple of days confront her about it again.
2007-01-20 15:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try and talk to one of her friends. Or meet up with her in person and find out.look back in history, maybe you did or said something which offended her or maybe she is someone who wanted you as a friend and somebody told her that you like her and she got upset(that can happen).give her time.
thats very sad; all the best and good luck : )
2007-01-20 15:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..idk what you could have done. But to find out, I would again try talking to her in person. If she ignores, try to talk to one of her good friends. Just be polite about it and see what's going on...I wish you all the best man..I know it's tough...Good luck and God Bless!
2007-01-20 14:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mike C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.
she is not the girl for you. she seems to be a little on the conceded side. you sound like a nice guy. find yourself someone else someone that will respect you. and treat you like a person . you should not have the time for little girls find a girl that is more to your statues.
2007-01-20 15:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe some one stab you behind the back. My advice: talk to her best friend. Find out what's wrong.
good luck.
2007-01-20 15:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by silent love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one might have said something bad about you that scared her. Or she thinks you're a stalker.
2007-01-20 14:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a boyfriend ude. women are a waste of your time and energy and they will always break your heart.
2007-01-20 15:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋