Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

My boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years. We broke up twice but both times he came back and said let's give this another try. He tells me he still loves me. Recently he has been leaving the house not saying where he is going, just says, I'll be right back. He is usually gone for about an hour. When he finally comes back and I ask him where he went, he ususally says to get a pack of cigarettes or just went for a walk. One night a couple of weeks ago he was not here when I came home from work. He did not leave a note as to where he went or when he will be back. A couple of hours later when he finally came home I ask him where he was. He said just out. I have asked him a couple of more times since then and finally yesterday he told me, none of your business. I accused him of seeing someone else, wouldn't you with an answer like that?

2007-01-20 14:45:01 · 7 answers · asked by luciousgreeneyedlady 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like that guy that i had class with . at first i hated the way that he acts . but when i saw how really acts i saw a beatifaul charcter and a person. i talked to him realy rare like hi and some times if their is no chair for me to sit he will say do u want to sit i say no and then he says are you sure i say yes he is kind of funny . now the class is over and i really want to see him we are not in the same school , but the school is near ,but i can't go their or i can't wait for him that is impossible . the problem is i don't know what to do i just reliazed the laste class that i like him . what can i do i really think alot about him and i really want to see him

2007-01-20 14:44:02 · 6 answers · asked by what ever ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay how can u see the diffrences with a guy really liking u and wants to be your man , to just liking u and wanting just friendship?

2007-01-20 14:43:29 · 1 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Im really dont know what to do, we been going out for 14 months and shes the first person i love...and till now i still do..i know i did alot wrong things and i cant forgive myself for making all the mistake....but truly i never cheated on her...at our first break up she find out that me and this one girl was talking.....it wasnt like any talking it was just like friends talk....and she broke it off with me...and after that she came back with me..8 months later she got mad at me again for just talking to another ghurl...and broke it off agen....now shes saying that she doesnt want me to talk to anyghurls even if just FRIENDS!!she doesnt trust me at all...were still together till now and its been 3 months after the second break up....shes not the same anymore...shes not the same person that i loved....i mean it feels like she doesnt cares anymore...and she doesnt take me seriously anymore....am i really wasting my time.....shes not acting the same but she doesnt wonna let me go...

2007-01-20 14:42:31 · 5 answers · asked by chi_wally_wally03 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been seeing eachother for over a year.About 6months ago her husband was released from jail.He went to jail shortly after we started dating.iI made it clear in the beginning that I would stop seeing her if she was going back with him.After his release he moved bacxk un with her because of the kids.they want their dad around,this I get.she won't get a divorce because she fears losing her kids to him. what if anything can i do??

2007-01-20 14:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by super mover 1 in Singles & Dating

So, about a month ago my baby daddy left me for some one else. Yeah, I took it really hard, but I am starting to get over it. I am using a no contact claus with him. I guess it's starting to get to him because he called me today asking why I'm being so mean to him, and why don't I call him. I told him it's because I have nothing to say to him. Then, he asked why we couldn't be friends. I told him because I don't want to. Was I wrong for that? I mean, I was crushed when he left. But, I picked myself up and kept it moving. I am still in school, I found a job, and I've lost a lot of my baby weight since he left. Plus I am so independant. He left me with out a car, so now I take the bus everywhere, and I don't ask him for anything. He is still there for his daughter and a great father. I just don't want him to see me so down. I was very good to him, and the girl he left me for is everything I'm not....(in a very good way.) What are your thoughts on my situation?

2007-01-20 14:41:50 · 5 answers · asked by Stefi13 2 in Singles & Dating

He hits u all the time

2007-01-20 14:40:46 · 12 answers · asked by Heather M 1 in Singles & Dating

Even if you are not going out but are at home with the kids. After the kids are down, do you dress up for your husbands? As of now, I have no kids but my husband would like me to dress up for him, even if we just stay home.

2007-01-20 14:40:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 14:39:53 · 22 answers · asked by Knuckledragger 4 in Family

yesterday the 19th another guy asked me out and i said yes. i still like my old boyfriend though. i dont like the guy who asked me out at all. i thought that if i went out with him i would make the other guy jealous. i know thats really mean but ive know the guy that just asked me out sense kindergaten and we're really good friends....i dont know what i should do.

2007-01-20 14:39:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 14:38:40 · 12 answers · asked by HowYouDoin 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 14:38:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it that the closer my boyfriend and i get the more i push him away,the meaner i am to him?does this make me a bad person? I really love him and want to marry him some day!!

2007-01-20 14:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by brat 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 50 percent Asian Indian,french,Irish and American Indian. Though im Indian I look more Irish and French (took after my dad a lot). I have medium brown hair and very light brown eyes with fair skin. I am smart. I'm in Med. School at UCLA!! (GO BRUINS!!) I'm 5 feet and 2 inches and 105 pounds. I was voted Best To Cheer You up in 12th grade. Everyone says I have every perfect feature. I do not pierce anything even my ears and I have not colored my hair. I have all natural feauters and beauty. Would you date me guys?

2007-01-20 14:37:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 14:37:38 · 13 answers · asked by kidtexlex123 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 14:37:34 · 22 answers · asked by Millo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 14:37:29 · 7 answers · asked by twysty 5 in Singles & Dating

My favorite one was "This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you"

2007-01-20 14:37:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-20 14:37:17 · 2 answers · asked by twysty 5 in Singles & Dating

im on my brothers computer but i like to ask ouestions

2007-01-20 14:36:35 · 9 answers · asked by seeme 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend hasn't come round to my place in a while, and I hate begging him to come round, but when he does come round, he always leaves soon after. I reckon if I did something sexy or called him and told him i was doing something sexy he'd be round here in a shot and we wouldn't leave my room I'm not a guy, I don't know what turns them on. What turns you on boys? I'm a good looking girl, got good boobs, tell me what to do! Am I being too needy?

2007-01-20 14:35:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my boyfriend has this ex and she moved but now she coming back.I got this letter from her saying "she's going to hook back up with him,and if i go near him im looking for trouble"But he's my boyfriend.I don't really care if i have to beat her up.i don't know what i should do,Should i tell my boyfriend or take it up with her???

2007-01-20 14:35:14 · 2 answers · asked by stacy_diva_girl619 2 in Singles & Dating

Me: Late birthday present (i got it yesterday), a new bedspread, from my grandma.

2007-01-20 14:34:01 · 33 answers · asked by in_myownxx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've halfway to seventeen and I haven't yet dated any girl. How do I get enough courage to ask someone to have a date with? I had a kinda low self-worth so I always shy to ask things like that. I fear that I wouldn't be really able to date someone. :(

2007-01-20 14:32:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Running out of "date night" ideas..... :)

2007-01-20 14:32:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i are buying a house next month and getting married.when we were talking about bills and such he said he does not want a house phone he wants to just use our cell phones.when i explained i allways had a house phone and would like one now he said ok but he did not want to be listed in the phone book(i could have my name in there just not his)he had 101 excuses why he did not want to be in there but none of them made any sence but he was VERY serious and told me more than once not to list him.now i find this wierd because he was and still is listed in the phone book with his exwife and could care less(they have been divorced over 5 yrs and hes still listed with her).so why for 12 yrs he was listed with his 1st wife with no problems but is having a fit about being in the phone book with me?its not his ex she knows about me, and has our phone numbers.it just makes me think is there someone else he might not want know hes re-married,or call him on a phone that i might answer?

2007-01-20 14:32:08 · 35 answers · asked by jennyguil897 1 in Friends

my bf and i are buying a house next month and getting married.when we were talking about bills and such he said he does not want a house phone he wants to just use our cell phones.when i explained i allways had a house phone and would like one now he said ok but he did not want to be listed in the phone book(i could have my name in there just not his)he had 101 excuses why he did not want to be in there but none of them made any sence but he was VERY serious and told me more than once not to list him.now i find this wierd because he was and still is listed in the phone book with his exwife and could care less(they have been divorced over 5 yrs and hes still listed with her).so why for 12 yrs he was listed with his 1st wife with no problems but is having a fit about being in the phone book with me?its not his ex she knows about me, and has our phone numbers.it just makes me think is there someone else he might not want know hes re-married,or call him on a phone that i might answer?

2007-01-20 14:31:39 · 15 answers · asked by jennyguil897 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i are buying a house next month and getting married.when we were talking about bills and such he said he does not want a house phone he wants to just use our cell phones.when i explained i allways had a house phone and would like one now he said ok but he did not want to be listed in the phone book(i could have my name in there just not his)he had 101 excuses why he did not want to be in there but none of them made any sence but he was VERY serious and told me more than once not to list him.now i find this wierd because he was and still is listed in the phone book with his exwife and could care less(they have been divorced over 5 yrs and hes still listed with her).so why for 12 yrs he was listed with his 1st wife with no problems but is having a fit about being in the phone book with me?its not his ex she knows about me, and has our phone numbers.it just makes me think is there someone else he might not want know hes re-married,or call him on a phone that i might answer?

2007-01-20 14:31:27 · 7 answers · asked by jennyguil897 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 14:31:14 · 3 answers · asked by angelica p 1 in Friends

I just want to see how many I should have had so far...

2007-01-20 14:31:09 · 46 answers · asked by Jerse 1 in Singles & Dating