We have been seeing eachother for over a year.About 6months ago her husband was released from jail.He went to jail shortly after we started dating.iI made it clear in the beginning that I would stop seeing her if she was going back with him.After his release he moved bacxk un with her because of the kids.they want their dad around,this I get.she won't get a divorce because she fears losing her kids to him. what if anything can i do??
2007-01-20 14:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by super mover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get out while you still have a brain! she is playing you because what court would give children to an ex con??? is she an unfit mother??? obviously she wants her cake, and eat it too.. i'm sure it was easy for her to have a relationship while he was locked up. out of sight, out of mind!!! if she wanted YOU, she would have divorced him while he was away!!
pack up your heart, chock up your losses, and move on!
2007-01-20 14:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break of the relationship NOW and find a single woman. I don't know why she would stay with a man who was in jail...My goodness... Just get out of the whole ordeal. And it's very wrong for you to be in a relationship with a woman who is married, I know you weren't asking for my opinion on this, but it's true. You don't sound like one of those stupid bastrdz who just goes off and has a relationship for no reason, but no matter how much of a good man you are it is wrong to be in a relationship as more than friends with a married woman.
2007-01-20 14:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you are waisting your time. If she really loved you she would have sorted herself out by now before her husband was released from jail. I can see many problems arising for you with your situation and you will get hurt if you don't run away from this messy situation now. Chances are it won't work on the long run. Better be safe than sorry. Good luck.
2007-01-20 14:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by BFCP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your info is abit confusing. is she in a relationship with this guy or just living in the same house for the kids sake?? surely they don't have to live together for the kids to see him regularly. or has she taken him back into her bed as well??
why would she be at risk of loosing her kids to an ex-con?
you knew she was in this relationship when you started having your affair so what do you expect would happen...
sounds like you should consider walking away from the whole mess because thats all it will ever be from what I read.
2007-01-20 14:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him having gone to jail, I don't think that is a good example for her kids. Let her know and try to sit down with the both of them and talk it out.
2007-01-20 14:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Megan C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends on what her husband did. he could lose the kids not her. woman usually win the custody. so just ask her do you love him still? and then ask a lawyer if she would lose her kids and explain the situation. I hope things go well.
2007-01-20 14:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on before he decides to do you some harm.let her be with her husband theres nothing that you can do.
2007-01-20 15:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a super stopper for the supermover.
Give her up, she would cheat on you next:(
2007-01-20 14:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think if she will do that to her husband why not u..love is blind..take off the blinders
2007-01-20 14:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by relentlessfemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's your fault u dumb *** u would u do that how would u fill if it happen to u
2007-01-20 14:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by J_dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋