yesterday the 19th another guy asked me out and i said yes. i still like my old boyfriend though. i dont like the guy who asked me out at all. i thought that if i went out with him i would make the other guy jealous. i know thats really mean but ive know the guy that just asked me out sense kindergaten and we're really good friends....i dont know what i should do.
2007-01-20 14:39:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that lizzomail was a complete jerk.....i take dating seriously...ok....about the guy you like...forget about him...hes moved on, u should too...im in 7th grade and this has happened to me....in fifth grade i liked this guy....he broke up with me and asked my best frend out...so i asked out HIS best frend and he said yes....and u know what? we ended up going out for 8 months....even if you dont like this guy i say try it out, give it at least a few weeks...u might turn out to like him...good luck with your dating problem
2007-01-20 14:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Christina. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay for one...
Never ever go out with someone to make someone else jealous! Especially if you don't like the person. Because not only is that really immature but it makes that person that your going with think that your interested when your really not. I'm not trying to criticize you I'm just trying to give you very valuable advice.
Now as far as him being your best friend...it could ttyl ruin your friendship. And your ex-boyfriend...he won't get jealous he'll just move on. Your just hurting yourself in this situation, and your hurting your best friend.
So plz liston to me when I tell you this...
talk to your friend and tell him whats going on. If he's really your friend, he'll ttyl understand. And sure it'll hurt him at first but he'll heal over time. And better now then later.
Oh and try not to worry about it so much after words, your only in 6th grade! Sure you think your older now but you really have no idea what grown up is. Just wait a little to get into this kind of stuff okay?
Trust me it'll all be worth it!
p.s.
I would stay single for a while if I were you.
2007-01-20 14:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by 1 confused chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trying to make him jealous may backfire on you...Your young learn this now, it not a good thing to play people like that. If you still like the ex boyfriend, try talking to him...If you to are not meant to be, you can move on...I'm not trying to be mean to you, just honest. Also please, please enjoy being a kid right now, there will be plenty of time to date later...How about having guy friend, friends you can go to the movies with, the mall whatever...There is no need for you to have a "boyfriend" right now...Wait til you old and you have some hubby to take care of, you will understand what im trying to say here...Just please be a kid for now...
2007-01-20 15:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happend to me,and I chose my ex boyfriend! Wrong choice! He was such a pevert! Don't take your ex back! He is your ex for a reason! Keep it like that!
2007-01-20 14:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you are at least 18 to worry about boys. In the meantime go watch cartoons, don't use drugs, and stay in school.
2007-01-20 14:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Colt Seavers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should focus on your education! BREAKING NEWS: Boys are NASTY...All little girls should wait till they are older (21+) to date. It will never last with any of those boys so quit fantasizing about being with them and focus your dreams! You get diseases from pecking, too!
2007-01-20 14:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by JK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are such good friends with the guy thats just asked you out, why are you willing to risk your friendship and use him????
its more than mean, thats just nasty!
2007-01-20 14:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should stop calling this guy your boyfriend, because lets be honest, all your doing is giving each other the occasianal peck on the cheek. stay in school.
2007-01-20 14:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your in some deep doo-doo now. the best advice i can give you is to come clean to the guy. the truth sets you free. good luck!
2007-01-20 14:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study your math...you have a whole life full of man/boy problems ahead of you!!
2007-01-20 14:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by canada4me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋