My boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years. We broke up twice but both times he came back and said let's give this another try. He tells me he still loves me. Recently he has been leaving the house not saying where he is going, just says, I'll be right back. He is usually gone for about an hour. When he finally comes back and I ask him where he went, he ususally says to get a pack of cigarettes or just went for a walk. One night a couple of weeks ago he was not here when I came home from work. He did not leave a note as to where he went or when he will be back. A couple of hours later when he finally came home I ask him where he was. He said just out. I have asked him a couple of more times since then and finally yesterday he told me, none of your business. I accused him of seeing someone else, wouldn't you with an answer like that?
2007-01-20 14:45:01 · 7 answers · asked by luciousgreeneyedlady 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!!! For someone that is in a relationship.... NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.... DOESN'T APPLY! If he is living with you then get your key back and tell him bye bye! That's no kind of INNOCENT ANSWER! I have been cheated on, and that's a good sign that he is screwing around! Put 2 and 2 together! Read between the lines. I say follow him without him noticing, and keep a watchful eye!
GOOD LUCK!!! Hope this helps!
2007-01-20 14:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♥xvioletx1882♥ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if he truly loved you he would marry you instead of just being with you all these years. He may be cheating or worse involved in something illegal. I don't think you should accuse him unless you can prove it first. It sounds like maybe you two might need some time apart to think things over. It would also probably give you both time to see if you are really in love with one another.
2007-01-20 22:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am a male myself. I had a girlfriend since September of 06, and she broke up with me just this last week cause she wants to go back to her ex-boyfriends house. Right now I am going single for a month.
How old is your boyfriend?
How old are you?
Yes, I am just as angry as you are, cause my girlfriend dumped me for her ex boyfriend.
And as a matter of fact she has been ringing my phone off the wall, so I just thought it is time that i have disconnected my phone. And I did.
She rings it off the wall cause she knows that I am upset at her.
So I am going with life without her voice for a while.
And I think that you should do the same with him.
2007-01-20 23:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by AARON BLACK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you have trust issues. He also wants space and YOU ARE NOT GIVING IT TO HIM. You sound like a nag. LEAVE HIM ALONE. I give this relationship another month or two.
2007-01-20 22:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounz like a cheater
2007-01-20 22:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by SuzyQ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he sounds like my ex husband. only he was going out and getting high on his 'walks'
2007-01-20 22:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
True love suspects not, and trusts all till death.
2007-01-20 22:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by wernerslave 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋