Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

Just curious if there people out there that can overcome so much betrayel and stay in their marriage. My husband just had an affair, and we are trying to fix it. A part of me says run and run fast, but then the reason for the affair is so complicated, and we had so many problems when it was happening, and now those problems have been addressed and we are fixing them, a part of me says try to stay in the marriage. So, just curious how many of you can forgive and forget and stay in the marriage?

2007-01-18 07:05:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 07:04:58 · 6 answers · asked by guni 2 in Singles & Dating

MY HEART FOREVER BURNS WITH DESIRE FOR YOUR LOVE.
NOTHING IS BETTER THAN THE FEELING WHEN WE TOUCH.
YOUR LOVELY SCENT IS LIKE ROMANCE IT ENLIGHTENS MY SENSES.
WHEN YOU SPEAK I FALL INTO A TRANCE.
IM PARLIZED BY YOUR BEAUTY I CANT LOOK AWAY.
I LOVE TO SEE YOU SMILE FOR THAT ILL WALK MILES.
YOU GIVE ME CHILLS UP AND DOWN MY SPINE.
I GET HOT FLASHES THINKING ABOUT YOU BEING MINE.
FOR YOU ILL NEVER GIVE UP.
YOU CAN CALL IT FATE .
YOU CAN CALL IT LUCK.
CALL IT WHAT YOU WANT.
ILL CALL IT LOVE.
I DONT NEED A VALENTINE.
I JUST WANT YOU TO BE MINE.

2007-01-18 07:04:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for i man that want to have casual sex from time to time. I don't want to get married and i don't want to have any kids. I just need him to come around and throw me on the bed and **** my brains out. Not trying to marry me or eat all my food and lay around my house like where together. And why is it when i try to get rid of them they become stalkers.

2007-01-18 07:01:28 · 77 answers · asked by latinogoddess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:01:18 · 17 answers · asked by LDM Gifts 1 in Family

I am wondering how a Hispanic girl would politely but clearly indicate she's not interested in a hispanic guy? I know that many young people have become americanized, but I'm looking for, as a culture, traditionally, how do men and women interact? I've been told that hispanic males take friendliness as more, often times. If a girl knows that a guy is interested, how does she manage to be friendly/polite, and yet indicate by her actions that she's not interested? I am american with Hispanic acquaintances, and I'm very friendly. I am afraid my general friendliness is being misunderstood. I don't know the guy well enough to speak openly, but I want to stop whatever is starting now, before he gets hurt.

Guys: What makes you think a girl is interested or not?
Girls: How do you interact with males without giving the wrong impression?

(Please only answers from those over the age of 20, I need mature, accurate observations of the culture here!)

Thanks! :-)

2007-01-18 07:00:35 · 15 answers · asked by Chiara 1 in Singles & Dating

he's at college and this girl has 'chased' him for over six months, so eventually although she isn't really his type, he went out with her - anyway, they've been dating on and off for 9 weeks now, and she took him home to meet her mom and sister, and her sister screamed and fainted when she saw him, (and the mother cried too) apparently, my mate looks the dead spit of their dead brother............so obviously this girl is going out with him for the wrong reasons, how does it finish it with her tactfully - apparently the bloke died at the beginning of last year, so it's still raw for them?

2007-01-18 07:00:03 · 19 answers · asked by merciasounds 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 06:59:58 · 18 answers · asked by cool 1 in Friends

Ok it started like this i like this girl.This is the problem i really like this girl but i don't know if she likes me back
1)She starts talking to me randomly
2)she sais all these stuff about her personnel life like who she is going out with
3)she comes to talk to me or site next to me and just looks in the wide open space like if thinking of something
Ok but today i heard that she was asked out to the school danse but she only tells me.does that mean she wanted for me to ask her.I would but she is nice to everyone.she hasn't answered that guy yet.But i don't even know if she really was asked out.I really like her but i don't know how to tell her she is always sorounded by people so i is kinda difficult to tell her without anybody around. I was going to ask her if she wants to walk home(she lives very close to my house and i can walk with her.But she then told me that story but i didn't ask her yet.How should i get her to walk with me or be alone with me
i really really like her .

2007-01-18 06:59:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got rid of some unnecessary and ghetto people in my life.

2007-01-18 06:59:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

its been like this for ages, and the woman on top is my favourite position, whats up with her?? sometimes its like having sex with a sack of potatoes, because of this do you think i should trade her in for a newer model or what

2007-01-18 06:58:44 · 28 answers · asked by lee b 2 in Singles & Dating

When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush. I have also found out she is now going out with someone else, and I know I should just leave it alone but, I really want to go out with her. Is there anyway I can stand out and maybe slowly get her attracted to me again so If it dosent work out with her other boyfriend she might consider me? HELP!

2007-01-18 06:58:14 · 7 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not trying to brag or anything but I'm a well endowed male. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a couple of months. Since I can remember, whenever we have sex her facial expressions makes it look like I'm hurting her. I asked her if I hurt her and she says no, but her facial expressions clearly tell a different story. She loves having sex with me, but I'm starting to get a little worried because she'll wince every once in a while...but in the same breath she'll tell me to pound her...then she'll keep telling me to do it harder. What should I do?

2007-01-18 06:57:51 · 15 answers · asked by h4121977 1 in Singles & Dating

Can someone give me ideas for my son and his fiancee as an engagement present for them both. They don't have a house yet so it's difficult. Not cash please.

2007-01-18 06:57:21 · 23 answers · asked by Raceylady 2 in Weddings

I met a woman a while back on a christian dating site, and it seemed like we were getting along great. We spoke on the net for about 3 days, about a couple hours at a time, and then I got her number. We have called each other off and on for the past two weeks, and so I tried to make the attempt to ask her out to meet, not to creepy or anything, but at a public place. She said that sounds good and previous to saying yes, I asked her if I made her uncomfortable in any way, she said no, and then I also added, if I do something you don't like, please be honest and tell me. She has a pretty busy schedule between work and school, with Wednesday's and Saturday's off. So last Saturday, I give her a call, leave a message, and haven't heard back from her since. I have been told to call, and have also been told not to call. So what do you think I should do? Should I call or not? If I give in and call, does it make me look sad or desparate? Please help me out.

2007-01-18 06:57:03 · 12 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a mother of two, and I have this problem. Every time my kids get sick, I get over paranoyed. I drive the doctor crazy, along with my family. I cant help myself, honestly I am not going for a mother of the year award, I really wish I was not like this. I cry, and loose my ability to do anything, I get awful thougths, and they work into my brain making even worse. Last month my daughter, who is six by the way, got really sick and the doctor told me constantly not to worry that it was just a flu, but I still ended up crying and staying up all night checking on her every half hour. My mother in law gave me valerian roots to help me relax, and it did nothing what so ever. What is wrong with me? Am I setting myself up for the worst? I love my kids, and I dont want them to see me this way. Please, I need an outside opinion.

2007-01-18 06:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by beygrl 4 in Family

So, this great guy asks me to a school dance. I already have a bf, so I say, "Sorry, but no." After that I'm thinking, "Dang it, I screwed that one up!" And then I break up with my bf right before I see this other guy again (coincidence? I think not!). Now, though, another girl is with him all the time, sitting on his lap, holding hands, acting like they're together. I ask around, apparently they're "not officially," (what the heck does that mean? but they just act like it, and he says, "Naw, I don't really like LIKE her, I just..." WHAT? You just what? Is he doing that to make me jealous? I flatter myself. I kinda think he doesn't really care anymore, but I like him, and I am SO not going up to him and telling him, I am WAY too shy! AND I have to see him, like, all the time because we're in a school play together...what do I do/think?

2007-01-18 06:56:04 · 18 answers · asked by Ask Shirley 2 in Singles & Dating

WHAT DO U FEEL WHEN PEOPLE MAKE COMMENTS TOWARD YOUR OTHER RACIAL PARTNER?

WHAT DO YOU DO TO NOT LET THEM GET TO YOU?

HOW DO YOU HANDEL BEING STARED AT CONSTANTLY BECAUSE OF YOUR INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP?

I AM A BLACK WOMAN WITH A "WHITE BOYFRIEND" I CONSTANTLY ASK MYSELF QUESTIONS THAT ARE ABOVE!!
SOMETIMES I JUST WANNA LEAVE HIM TO AVIOD ALL THE DRAMA WHAT SHOULD I DO? I LOVE HIM THATS THE ONLY THING KEEPING ME WITH HIM!! HE THE GREATEST MAN I EVER BEEN WITH!!

2007-01-18 06:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by BEAUTYFULL 1 in Singles & Dating

and where are you from and what's the weather like?
Have a great day Y'll!

2007-01-18 06:55:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was recently talking to a girl via phone and email while I was in Iraq for the past year, but I didn't talk to her for sometime after I returned home a month or so ago because I went to visit another girl that lives in a different state. I emailed her once a few weeks after I got back home, saying hey what's up...and she responded by saying this:

Why'd you have to go all the way to DC just to get laid, hon?

Don't they still have horses in Arizona?
________________________________
What the hell is this supposed to mean?


Is she insulting ME or the girl I flew to see?

2007-01-18 06:55:23 · 13 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Singles & Dating

like all, I trust until they prove me wrong

2007-01-18 06:54:35 · 3 answers · asked by INOTFRIEND 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everytime I make suggestions about our future my husband rejects any idea that I come up with, but he never comes up with anything. Even small suggestions. I suggested that we make a grocery list and buy everything all at once. He says he does not need to make a list for the month. I suggested that we buy a house and he cancelled on the loan officer 3 times.
I told him to get a good job. now he is fired

2007-01-18 06:54:22 · 19 answers · asked by what? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We've only been going out for 2 weeks, and her birthday is February 4th. What should I get her?

2007-01-18 06:54:07 · 15 answers · asked by notsohot.2000 1 in Singles & Dating

My man says he is considering getting circumcised and that an ex of his told him there is a definate difference in feeling for a woman between having sex with a man who is circumcised and one who is not. Is that true? how does it feel different?

2007-01-18 06:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by elle k 1 in Singles & Dating

i recently told my boyfriend it's OVER...he has a baby and his baby mama and him are supposedly together so i broke it off because, i felt like i was the "girl on the side"..i miss him tho..he called three days n i didn't return his call i want him back how do i get him back without seeming desperate?

2007-01-18 06:53:28 · 10 answers · asked by missc230 1 in Singles & Dating

and I am not talking about reading...

2007-01-18 06:53:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help me out here, everytime i try and get close to this girl she distances herself from me, whenever i give her space then she loves me , i've tried talking to her about it and she gets mad, starts crying that i won't leave her alone. she knows i love her, and some days i know she loves me, but within an hour she could care a less if i'm in the room. i can't be on the rollercoaster anymore and she knows it, any advise on how to handle this? do i walk away or just be happy with the certain days of the week she is in love with me?

2007-01-18 06:52:56 · 19 answers · asked by me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a niece 19 yr old who lives with her 22 yr old boyfriend, which she adores so much and thinks this guy is the right person for her. The boyfriend is not so eager to look for "good jobs", because he knows my niece will take care of him, irregardless. What is the best approach to my niece to let her know that this guy is not the right person for her and to make her know that focusing on her college or whatever vocational schooling is best for her, so she can land into better paying jobs. She does odds jobs here and there, too. Everytime, we tell her these, she gets upset and be rebellious to all. Her parents are separated and she is close by her mother, which she doesn't respect at all.

2007-01-18 06:51:32 · 8 answers · asked by light1 1 in Family

2007-01-18 06:51:17 · 41 answers · asked by poopsie 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I can't come to terms about having sex. When we met we knew we were very different, and almost broke up over it, b/c I'm 23 and a vigin and he's 25 and was very active before me. Now we're both making an effort b/c he's being faithful and I'm trying to please him without penatration, but still fooling around.
yet I know he's a man and he has urges and he brings it up from time to time and i don't know how long he can go without having six it's already been 5months. How can we find a common ground? What can I do, I don't want to lose him...or compromise myself for him either!

2007-01-18 06:51:04 · 18 answers · asked by jasimine m 2 in Singles & Dating