and I am not talking about reading...
2007-01-18 06:53:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
candlelight is best :)
2007-01-18 06:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by heidi6971 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the mood and tone - if it's supposed to be a romantic time - anniversary or such - then not absolutely dark, but dim - with a few candles burning. But if you are filming your own "Danielle Does Donald" then lights it is. From experience, men generally like some light, they are visual creatures and want to see what they are conquering (even if they've had it before). I'm really not a fan of total darkness myself, I like connecting with the person - in fact, the only time my fiance and I really are in complete darkness is when we try to sneak some at 5:30 in the morning before we have to get the kids up at 6 for school.
2007-01-18 15:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lights on for some personal investigations
Lights off for the mystery of each other.
2007-01-18 15:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think it better when the lights r off but its cool to have black lights on it brings out the color in a guys eyes
2007-01-18 15:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lights off in the winter, on in the summer!
2007-01-18 14:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by jayjinsd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would like the light a little dim not too bright and not too dark i want to see what's going on i want to see how he looks you and if he wants the lights off then there must be something that he is hiding from me. Lights on please.
2007-01-18 15:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lights off, but I prefer to bring a headlamp. I mean... what miner doesn't wear a headlamp when he goes deep into a mine shaft to drill? I think its unfair that I get laughed at everytime I bust mine out!
:P
2007-01-18 15:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl won't do it with the lights on, I am out of there.
2007-01-18 14:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On, but dimly. I like to see the action, but not be blinded...I agree with the other poster who said if you cannot be nude in front of the other person, you should not be having s e x with them.
2007-01-18 14:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
off
2007-01-18 14:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lights on i like to see what im eating
2007-01-18 14:56:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋