I'm looking for i man that want to have casual sex from time to time. I don't want to get married and i don't want to have any kids. I just need him to come around and throw me on the bed and **** my brains out. Not trying to marry me or eat all my food and lay around my house like where together. And why is it when i try to get rid of them they become stalkers.
2007-01-18 07:01:28 · 77 answers · asked by latinogoddess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i tell them right off hand that i only want sex. And that i don't want kids. And there all good with it, then one day they just break down. And say they love me and they want to get married and have a family. Most of them i've been friends with for years. And we do help each other with things. But after a while of just sex they get out of hand. I know i got skills but what is with men. And the ones who stalk me are the one who i later find out are married. Or the ones who are very sucssesful and are willing to lose there jobs. Just to watch my every move. Should i not unleash my pussy on the world. Or should i just go ahead and get married.
2007-01-18 07:29:38 · update #1
Hey you sound like the daughter i always wanted. You have been blessed with the platinum pussy. No you need to make it titanium. And all the females will hat you guts. I was that same way in high school and it got me in college. Well that and cheer-leading. "But you get my point" . Just keep yourself protected and never put your guard down. Maybe when your 45-50 you can settle down.
2007-01-18 08:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because men always want what they can't have. Truth is, sex with extremely attractive women really isn't any better than sex with an ordinary looking woman, its just that the man knows the attractive woman could be with any man she wants, so he feels a sense of conquest when he "bags" the hot girl. The fact that you do not want a commitment makes him want it. For years, I drove a Buick because it was all I could afford, but I dreamed of owning a Porshe. When I could finally afford it, I bought a Porshe. I always thought it would be the happiest day of my life. A year later I bought another Buick. Turns out the Porshe was fast, but it was also loud, stiff, and fairly uncomfortable to drive. I still have the Porsche, but I usually drive my new Buick, because its quiet and comfortable. My advice, tell the next guy you're interested in a long term relationship every time you have sex and that will keep him at arms length in-between.
2007-01-18 07:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go, girl! Nothing against true love or marriage, but I think more women need to remember that men are nice to have around but they are by no means necessary...well, with the exception of continuance of the species. (No offense intended, guys. It's just that a lot of women put up with abusive men because they feel they *need* them.)
And you need to remember to keep an open mind, just in case one of these guys happens to be Mr. Right. And safe sex...don't forget about that!
As for the whole stalker thing...I'm hoping you are being a bit dramatic with the use of the word "stalker." Everyone wants what they can't have but watch your back, ok?
2007-01-18 07:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue - it's not like you're giving off marriage vibes, right? You don't hint for a ring by constantly giving them your ring size, do you? Do you leave Bridal magazines laying all over your house? How about always calling your current squeeze pet names like Darling and Sweetheart? If so, that's why they want to 'wifey you'! They think you want to get married to them!
By the way, being married and in a monogamous relationship is wonderful - you really should try it!
Blessings!
2007-01-18 07:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u must got platinum in your pu$$y if u know what i mean!The thing is guys (not just guys people period) always want what they cant have. These guys are so obsessed with u cause u wont be had...u wanna do your own thing and u dont care about them and that is turning them on! If u were to turn it around and act all lovey dovey back they would NOT be interested. The world is so backwards. But that's the way it is so
2007-01-18 07:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men love to chase and conquer. They love the unattainable. That is probably why they like sports, and women they know they could never have. they cannot believe that you don't want a relationship so they might feel that something is wrong with them. Trust me once you decide to get into a relationship with one of those guys, they will change after a while. If i were you, once I noticed those small stalker symptoms I would run like hell!!!!
2007-01-18 07:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by what? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you finding these men? Because I can point you in the right direction to find the creeps that you are looking for. Go to any bar, pub, strip joint or gutter, I'm sure you can find a creep who's just looking for a good time. However, you may also get more than you bargained for. Stop being an @$$.
2007-01-18 07:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do internet dating. There are many good looking men that use this for sex. The golden rule is to meet somewhere public for your first date. You do still have to go on a date!!!
You might like to read a book called "Girl with a one track mind" by Abby Lee. She writes a blog too about her frustrations with sad men.
http://girlwithaonetrackmind.blogspot.com/
2007-01-18 07:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Simon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your obviously doing something wrong with your tactics my dear. Perhaps letting the guys know the moment you meet them that you are only interested in a booty call relationship. Your so charming and believe me I am not being sarcastic as I have been in these types of relationships for the past 7 year and I love it. You have to let the guys know what your NOT looking for more than what you are looking for....maybe they will comprehend better that way. Good luck!
2007-01-18 07:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lay the card on the table. Sex and thats it. Its weird you only get guys that want to wifey you, usually its really hard to find a good guy that takes you seriously. Gosh for sure the world its a mess.
2007-01-18 07:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋