i recently told my boyfriend it's OVER...he has a baby and his baby mama and him are supposedly together so i broke it off because, i felt like i was the "girl on the side"..i miss him tho..he called three days n i didn't return his call i want him back how do i get him back without seeming desperate?
2007-01-18 06:53:28 · 10 answers · asked by missc230 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl if I were you I would just leave that dude alone. I know it's easier said than done, but trust me you will be avoiding a lot of drama.
2007-01-18 06:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you and him broke up for a reason. if they are "supposedly together" dont you feel hurt.
if you two do get back together, you and him might redo the mistake from the first relationship.
like an old saying, "there are lots of fished out there"
you should have a guy that loves you for you and not be with any other girls or have any babies with them. doesnt that show that show that your ex left the baby's mama in the first place.
and what happens if that happens to you?
you have learn to resist your want and get to know other guys that wouldnt do this.
p.s. there's lots of perfect guys out there for you!
:D
hoped i helped, dear.
2007-01-18 07:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't get him back. You're not thinking clearly. You said 'no matter what happens they won't break up.' So don't even bother trying. Your best friend stole him from you and you don't want to hurt her. Well, good for you, shows you're not vindictive. He won't break up with her no matter what. So don't try getting him back. You'll only drag the hurt longer for yourself. Hate to say it but it's not worth it cos he's no longer into you. My advice : She's not your best friend if she steals him fro you. Dump her. He's a fool if he chooses her (a girl who betrays her best friend) over you. He dumped you didn't he? Well, they both deserve each other then. Go find someone more worthy to be your best friend and boyfriend. They're both not it. You're far better than them as a person. If it hurts you to see them together, well, don't see them then. Good luck.
2016-05-24 04:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be in such a complicated relationship. Is he seeing the baby's mother or not? If he is, why would you want to be with him? Are you the girl on the side or his girlfriend? I'm confused. If you go back to him you're just going to get caught up in a crazy love triangle. He needs to get clear on his feelings for you and this other woman. Remember, your ex is going to be connected to her in some way until that child is 18. Are you prepared for that? Get clear on why you want him back. Is he really worth all of this or are you just feeling lonely? I'd move on and not look back!
2007-01-18 07:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Swim Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap, you girls are damaged. And people wonder why I'm single.
Let me get this straight. You feel like the "girl on the side"... so you dumped him. Sounds like he didn't particularly care.
So now you want him back... but you don't want to seem desperate?
You seem desperate already, going after a man who's still with the mother of his kid.
2007-01-18 07:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you are! Truth is the best way. Why do ppl continue to play games! Let him know how you feel, and tell him you dont want to be on the side. Tell him to make a decision.
2007-01-18 06:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by calling him back.
You can tell him that it was just so suprising to hear this, and you were just angry for a few days, and needed to cool off.
Something along those lines.
2007-01-18 06:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Elle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become friends with his baby's mama.
2007-01-18 06:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh you can get him back, but realize that he will then know he can have you both and your word doesn't mean chit. take him back so he can walk all over you, again.
2007-01-18 07:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are better off without him....trust that there are many single, fine, childless men out there and some of them are real decent...
2007-01-18 07:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by thisalln 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋