Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

My wife's sex drive has been really low since having the kids. I know there is alot of emotional issues and hormones envolved. but how did you get back on the horse (no pun intended)? what should I do to help? (telling her she's beautful doesn't work, she calls me a liar everytime.)

2007-01-18 07:38:08 · 7 answers · asked by mud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I met my ex-fiance he was devastated.He was engaged and it didn't work out between them so they split up.We got together after a while but he's a very weird person I should say.We started arguing long before we started dating and as we got together the arguements got even worse to the point that I thought about everything I did knowing that it might lead to that.The problems got worse and worse.He would freak out by only hearing some guy in the background that I don't even know.He was very persistent but our worse problem was the fact that I'm a very bz person.Most of the time I would have to cancel our dates.He would freak out if I go to sleep without sweet talking him and would show up to my mom's uninvited and refuse to leave and much more and I broke up with him because the relationship depressed me so I want to know wether i'm wrong or right,although he believes that God put us together.Am I wrong for not believing that God put us together anymore?

2007-01-18 07:37:52 · 32 answers · asked by Alina 1 in Singles & Dating

For exaple texting certain things, saying i love you, sex.... what are some things she just would try to avoid or not do anymore?

2007-01-18 07:37:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a single mom with low income and i need child care for my son, who is 2. can some one please tell me where and how can i find child care in fort worth,tx. thanks.

2007-01-18 07:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer 2 in Family

I am thinking about taking her to a day spa and her and I getting a couples massage together, or her and I spending a weekend at a romantic Bed & Breakfast?

Just curious to see what you all think about my ideas.

2007-01-18 07:36:39 · 11 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 31 weeks pregnant and i made the less than good choice to fly to Romania.Just for the record it was a great opportunity job wise.I have had a perfectly healthy pregnancy up till this point . I had my doctor write me a note as well so i had no problems flying there and the airline seemed more concered with checking my bags than my pregnancy.Problem is i passed out at work and was taken to a hospital and put on bed rest.I have apparently started dialating and was told cant leave Romania.I am currently in the city of Iasi in a hotel.Other than the dialating i am fine i just cant fly because the doctors afraid i might go into labor. I told my future hubby what was going on and he said he can only afford to come and stay 3 day?He also said this is my fault for flying to begin with and proceeded to call of the wedding.He said also that he was not ready to be a parent when he was the one who convinced me to keep the baby because i was not sure?

2007-01-18 07:36:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 07:34:53 · 28 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

ok, guys, how long does a guy keep a crush on a girl for? like whats the shortest amount of time and the longest? do guys have more than one crush?

2007-01-18 07:34:53 · 12 answers · asked by brianna 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to get my boyfriend something nice but im not sure what to get him to show him i love him
have one have tips?

2007-01-18 07:34:16 · 5 answers · asked by sweet thang 1 in Singles & Dating

i split up with ma ex cos i was havin troubles at home n couldn't deal with a relationship at the time. we've both been with other people since but our personalities are a perfect match n we're still friends and have a laugh with each other. he's told ma mate that he doesn't want me back because he finks i'll jus dump him straight away or something like that. since we broke up, i've totally regretted it n i'm completely in love with him n think about him even when i'm with someone else. i think deep down he still likes me but i'm not sure. when we mess about arguin etc both our mates shout at us in front of each other sayin you both like each other so just go out with each other. i love him to bits but i really don't know what to do. can anyone help please?? thanks.

2007-01-18 07:32:51 · 26 answers · asked by (death_and_disaster) 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are seperated. He keeps our 5 children on the weekends while I work. Our 4 year old was displaying some very unmistakable sexual movements. When I asked what he was doing he replied " I want to make it big like daddy" pointing at his penis. I was shocked! He then said, "daddy does it likes this, then he pees and it puffs back down". I could see the innocence on my son's face. I questioned my 2 oldest boys and they basically stated the same thing, demonstrating masterbation hand gestures they have seen their dad do. I want to know is this a form of sexual abuse? I have never had sex in front of my kids and certainly not masterbated. I haven't talked to the father yet, but I need to know what would you do or what steps I should take. i am too upset to think clearly now. please help!!!!

2007-01-18 07:31:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mum hates me. Shes over protective yet its more controlling.My dad is a raging achohlic who beat her up for 16 years and made my life hell, but my mum was very loving. when they divorced we moved out i developed a panic disorder. My mum changed she started calling me pathetic ect. She wuldnt let me out the house unless she drove me there. Boyfriends were banned. Lately she met my new boyfriend whos overweight. She says im sick in the head for going with him. In a recent argument she lunged at me and punched me black and blue, told me to get out and live with my dad. I cant because my dad said i betrayed him by staying with her. I have no real friends to stay with and my panic disorder means i cant work now, so i cant rent a flat. The rest of my family lost touch because of my dads temper and believe i abuse my mum (as she said i bring up my dad to hurt her-untrue). Im now stuck. Even worse my boyfriend fell out with me because he doesnt like my only real friend. Im so islolated.

2007-01-18 07:31:17 · 20 answers · asked by janeysmithster 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well here it is.


Last night when I was with my boyfrined, I found out his weak point. His ears. So I was nibbling on his ears ad he started breathing really hard like almost panting. His eyes were closed really tight and every so often he would make some kind of noise.



My friend said he was getting horny... but I think he was joking with me im not really sure though. So can some one tell me. Do you think he was?

2007-01-18 07:31:14 · 7 answers · asked by punkrocker8906 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:31:07 · 7 answers · asked by Shannon P 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i know if he REALLY cares for me and is not just some fool tryin to break my heart. ?

2007-01-18 07:30:41 · 8 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the deal, I am fighting for custody of my kids ages 6 and 5. My ex uses and deals drugs for a living. He has no way of supporting the kids legally anyway. My attorney asked the judge for a drug test on both of us to determine whats in the best intrest of the kids. The judge issued it. I went straight from the court house to the place where we take the test because we were ordered to be there by 5:00pm. I passed mine. That was almost 2 weeks ago. My attorney hasn't recieved any results from the ex's attorney. He either didn't pass and they are hiding it or he didn't go. We have court on Friday the 19th. I am nervous. Not sure if this is enough to get the kids away from him. Also he lives in a 1 bedroom shack with his girlfriend her son and my 2 kids. Possibly more people.

2007-01-18 07:30:22 · 14 answers · asked by alilkntrygal27 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my rents dont know i like hime

2007-01-18 07:30:11 · 10 answers · asked by M L 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend who i broke up with found me with my friends hanging out he beat me and no one could hold him back because hes very big he punched me threw glass bottles at me and stomped my head in i had to tell him that i was leaving with him and not staying here with my friends and pretend to be with him Im soo scared he knows were i live and i don't know what to do please someone help!!!!!

2007-01-18 07:29:58 · 11 answers · asked by olyvia s 1 in Singles & Dating

He's my CRUSH, and he doesn't know I like him but I want him to. What should I give him?

2007-01-18 07:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by anonymous_xx 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:28:38 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:28:25 · 53 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been togehter 6 years and she mentioned a few times she doesn't want a boyfriend any more. She tried to break up with me but we talked about it and stayed together. Now im wondering if she is afraid of hurting me by leaving me and is trying to get me to leave her. What signs should i look for?

2007-01-18 07:28:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u ever regret liking someone?

2007-01-18 07:28:17 · 14 answers · asked by Wanna_b_with_u...<3 ~KALA 2 in Singles & Dating

HI!, My name is Júnior Figueira (28). I'm a Brazilian man looking for foreign friends specially to improve my English and Change information about culture, likes, music and just for fun.
I really never understood why is it so hard to find a nice foreign friend. Eveybody that I found didn't want just friendship.
Is anybody here able to explain me the reason?
Thanks, Mr. Figueira

2007-01-18 07:27:52 · 7 answers · asked by teacherjunior 1 in Friends

Well here it is.


Last night when I was with my boyfrined, I found out his weak point. His ears. So I was nibbling on his ears ad he started breathing really hard like almost panting. His eyes were closed really tight and every so often he would make some kind of noise.



My friend said he was getting horny... but I think he was joking with me im not really sure though. So can some one tell me. Do you think he was?

2007-01-18 07:26:58 · 13 answers · asked by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think the guy could tell? Does it even matter to you at all?

2007-01-18 07:26:46 · 7 answers · asked by elle k 1 in Singles & Dating

My niece wanted to sing "I hope you dance" by lee ann womack at her mom and stepdad's wedding as a tribute to her new family. Well she was told it's a sentimental song to me and my daughter, I don't care if she sings it, that's fine with me. Her mom told her no, pick something else. Does anyone have an suggestions on what she should sing? The genre doesn't matter!

2007-01-18 07:26:29 · 5 answers · asked by blevins2147 5 in Weddings

I want to go live with my Father but i don't know if i should leave my mother? my mom and i live in Twin and my Father lives in Boise. what should i do?

2007-01-18 07:26:28 · 3 answers · asked by jesus_1988_freak 2 in Family

2007-01-18 07:26:18 · 42 answers · asked by dwyertheresa 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been dating 4 months. We're serious. He has something nice planned for me. Are girls supposed to send their boyfriend flowers? My co-worker said so but I think it's cheesy. I need ideas.

2007-01-18 07:26:18 · 11 answers · asked by indie 2 in Singles & Dating