Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

My girlfriend broke up with me exclaiming that she had wanted me to dominate her. What is that? I took care of ALL of her needs...food rent car payments utilities phone ...everything. She said she didn't care about that stuff...even though she had no job or money and i knew these things had to be adressed. But i don't understand what the hell she is talking about.

2007-01-18 07:58:36 · 11 answers · asked by Vern B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Before we got married, me and my husband had major blow-outs about this particular girl he had been messing around for years. Actually I found out that she was his security blanket for whenever his past relationships didn't work-out. When he met me and we started dating he still was afraid to close the doors with this girl and kept her waiting on the back-burner. So how come now he can cease all contact with her now that's he married. He said she hasn't called him since we been married. He claims he doesn't know if she knows he is married or not. I wonder if there's more to this story?

2007-01-18 07:58:16 · 8 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

We have a new supervisor and some employees have told him some negative things, how would you handle this situation?

I contact the Supervisor and emailed my co-worker I had to leave early for a family emergency and they told the supv. they didn't get the email and went into a negative bash.. but yet the supv. had gotten his, I forward him the email that I sent them show the date and time

2007-01-18 07:58:07 · 21 answers · asked by Fruitful 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do anyone here agree that hoars sell there diginty and self- respect

2007-01-18 07:57:42 · 1 answers · asked by Pistonsfan101 5 in Singles & Dating

hiya.my gorgeous american girlfriend is back in the US as part of her job.she goes there back & forth quite often - something that has always bugged me.ive only got her back a month since she was last away & now shes off for another 3 weeks.you cant connect properly with email or skype -its never gonna be enough.
how do you cope with a broken heart at your love's absence? i love her so much & couldnt bear to lose her.yet i miss her terribly.she left last night & im desperately unhappy at all of this.Im crushed im like a ghost without her.yet i love her & am prepared to put up with it.hell i told her last night id give up everything & move over to the States to be with her forever.i know i want to spend the rest of my life with her.
anyone any advice on how you cope with the absences, the loneliness, the sheer emptiness of not having your other half around you?im tempted to hit the pub tonight just to numb this pain of not having her.Thanks, Jackie.

2007-01-18 07:57:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:57:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any good stories?

2007-01-18 07:57:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

They seem uptight & boring... I know this is a generalization, but I have no problem hooking up w/ chicks that have little direction in life.

Add't Info: I myself work in management for a large company, so why are the women I meet and seek tend to be complete opposite?

2007-01-18 07:56:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My first real boyfriend, who claimed that he loved me, took my virginity and then suddenly left me just two months afterwards. He is one of my cousin's best friends, but I never told my cousin about the break-up details because I don't want to hurt him, since I know he doesn't have that many real friends. This was a few years ago and I still haven't forgiven my ex (I see him about once a year). He has not apologized. What should I do to get past this?

2007-01-18 07:55:54 · 8 answers · asked by Kerosa S 3 in Singles & Dating

and why?

2007-01-18 07:55:46 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Angelita29♥ILY♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

If you are friends with a person, and then for absolutely no reason (or no decent one that they will say) they stop talking to you, is it best to just walk away or pursue it???

I'm tempted to just walk, but I thought I had something special with this person, and it hurts...

2007-01-18 07:55:25 · 13 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am just your average junior in high school and well the main problem with me is im shy and I don't like fighting back, but there is this grl in my gym class and right now we are playing volleyball and the only thing I am good at is taekwondo. Anyway I stink and volleyball and everytime I miss ( which is all the time) she keeps bullying me about it. Calling me things like stupid and idiot to my face, what should I care if some slutty, freshmen, airheaded grl is calling me names right...I do care though. That saying sticks and stones my break my bones but names will never hurt me is just wrong. Name calling does hurt though, I should know being bullied by someone who has it all. I want to talk back but I just don't have the words or time to get myself into the fight mode. I don't know what to do, wait for karma to work its magic...

2007-01-18 07:55:22 · 12 answers · asked by anonydipity_09 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you initiate the conversation or do they? How many of them end up becoming more than acquaintances?

2007-01-18 07:55:20 · 6 answers · asked by radiancia 6 in Friends

2007-01-18 07:54:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:54:48 · 7 answers · asked by wkeanrdiyna 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:54:25 · 21 answers · asked by Teeitup99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you feel bad for rejecting him?
Did you comfort him?
Did he become angry with you?

2007-01-18 07:54:11 · 18 answers · asked by S K 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 13 years old and i have a hot girlfriend.this boy is trying to flirt with her.i always beat him up but he still does it.what do i do?

2007-01-18 07:53:03 · 6 answers · asked by gangsta360 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend just told me that we should just be friends. I know now that she is using annother guy to make me jelous. I dont want to do that to her. I truely belive that she still likes me more than a friend. What are some ways to win her back?

2007-01-18 07:52:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she asks me alot questions about my life, i answered them but if i asked her about hers, she would give some vague answer like 'oh, i will tell you more later' but never does, also she is very evasive about her private affairs, she has never introduced her boyfriend to me. I am sick and tired of this person, she is suppose to be my best friend, i've since stopped giving her much info about my life, but do you think i should break it off?

2007-01-18 07:52:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-18 07:52:12 · 9 answers · asked by bamp_girls_10 1 in Family

i was in this relationship with this guy and we were together for a long time but he was terrible in bed and the only way he would be good is if i threatened to leave him. he was cheating on and off. i couldnt take it anymore so i went to the club and fell in love at first site. kissed this guy for 2 hours straight. we got really close and i left the cheater for this guy. we moved in together but then he coudnt keep a job so i moved out told him he needed to get his act together. so instead of getting a job he found another women older 40ish to pay his bills meantime he kept crying telling me how much e loved me. he bought me a ingagement ring i told him to send it back if he cant keep a job and he keeps finding suger ma mas. i really loved him so much. he had it so hard here in fl i told him to move back to la with his family. he did but then he kept losing jobs and calling me telling me he loved me. i found out he had a gf there too she is also older 39.his gf told me they engaged

2007-01-18 07:52:04 · 13 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Singles & Dating

She said she is having a hard time looking for pictures of vintage hairstyles. Is there a website she can go to that would have some pics??

2007-01-18 07:51:42 · 3 answers · asked by . 6 in Weddings

the guy i like and he likes me told me hes not ready for a relationship yet due to stresses in his life right now but he would like to be with me in the future and just wants to be friends. Is this his way of telling me nicely that he doesn't want to be with me at all but wants me to stay in contact so he has someone to hang out with, or does he really mean it. I would be his first real physical girlfriend if he did go out with me. His only other girlfriend was an internet girl.

2007-01-18 07:51:36 · 12 answers · asked by tiffers 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:51:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a longtime friend that started becoming a better friend and flirting with me. She wanted me to feel free to share everything with her, but she denies liking me. I told her I could not date at that time, but I told her lately that I had a change of heart and needed to speak to her. She was open to hearing "everything and anything" because "good friends want to know what their friends are going through" according to her email. What is she expecting to hear from me??

2007-01-18 07:51:17 · 12 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister in law keeps pestering me for sex. She has threatened to tell my wife we are having an affair if I dont agree.

2007-01-18 07:50:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Will he owe all of this after the kids turn 18 or what?

2007-01-18 07:49:57 · 18 answers · asked by Rica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have a bf and i like him a lot. now one of my best friends likes me. i dont like him that way and hes not rly someone i would go out with and plus as i alredy said I HAVE A BF!!!!! he doesnt kno i kno he likes me so i cant talk to him about it. but he talks to me 24/7, is always hanging around me, and people ask if we are going out. i just need a way to get him to not flirt with me all the time. I HAVE A BF ALREADY!!!!!!

2007-01-18 07:49:00 · 4 answers · asked by all4chanel203 2 in Friends

After breaking uo with my ex-fiance I think I did him wrong although I know I didn't and other people tell me so too.But everytime I talk to him it just break my heart to hear him cry and be sad.I hate to get off the phone with him knowing that he's relly hurt but despite it all I still don't want to get back with him because everytime I think about that relationship I only think about the way we use to argue and how depress I would be after we argue.Sometimes I'd wake up in the morning and not go to school and stay in bed the whole day.I would break up with him for a day or two abd go right back at it or take him back the minute he asks but I finally made my final decision and feel guilty just for the fact that I don't really feel moved by his words and although his crying is not enough to make me go back I still feel guilty at times but I don't even feel the same way.I wonder sometimes how can I get back with him if not sure of my feelings for him anymore.

2007-01-18 07:48:49 · 23 answers · asked by Alina 1 in Singles & Dating