Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

Mine hates me. Ihave asked the hubby to talk to her tonight about. It seems when there is a family gathering we ALL have to be there. I feel like everything about her is so fake.

2007-01-18 08:30:35 · 4 answers · asked by gotchagood 2 in Family

im pregnant and i dont know if its his or not i think so but he said he didnt want nothing to do with me or the kid,and my best friend got shot a couple of days ago what should i do??

2007-01-18 08:30:34 · 4 answers · asked by Flame B 1 in Singles & Dating

well im young i have had sexseveral times and im a teen am i too young i am very mature for my age me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time like 2 years and i have had a misscarrage before too. I am kinda addicted to it and how can i stop because i like it and we know that i could get pregnant but my boyfriend doesnt want to talk about me being pregnant after losing our first baby ... actually we have never talked about losing it will saying something to him and trying to talk it out help clear it from my mind and not think about it anymore what can i say to him to get him to talk about it ?

2007-01-18 08:29:50 · 13 answers · asked by Loving his kiss 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't guys want the girl to want to have sex with them? This one guy that I have been talking to off and on for a little 2 years keeps begging me to f*ck him. I have told him several times that I no longer want to have sex with him. It's not just with him. I have no interest in doing that with him. Plus I hate the way that he does it. I have told him that I don't enjoy it that way and yet it never changes. Now he asked me to meet him across town and get drunk. The he said that I need to stop denying him, but I don't want to f*ck and I feel as thought he doesn't care about my feelings. Should I go? Why is he pressuring me so much? I just wish he would find some new booty. UGH!

2007-01-18 08:29:37 · 11 answers · asked by The one who knows 3 in Singles & Dating

And I don't know if he likes me(because my friends say he does but I'm not so sure) and I don't know if liking him is weird cause we're on the same team.

2007-01-18 08:29:22 · 1 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 08:28:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know the once bitten twice shy is a good concept but come on!!! I am a genuine good girl who would love to fallin love for real not play games or have B.S. dished out to me... But some men only look for the outer appearance not the inner being, Inner is far more superior than the outer. I amn o pageant beauty queen or a super model, but I am a super mom and a great friend with huges amounts of personality. so what is wrong with me I am a bigger women (not a overly bigger women) but bigger none the less.. Where are the great guys looking for love?? Did they die or just trying to be with the super model beauty queens? (who on some levels are superficial) not all but most. I may sound a bit bitter and YES I am.

2007-01-18 08:28:03 · 21 answers · asked by franksangelluvsgod 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 15 years old, about to turn 16. Alot of people say im cute, but i dont think i am at times. Im tall and ill say im thick. Boys only want to talk to me because they want to have sex with me and im a virgin. I told my mom and friends that im Bisexual, but the more i think about it, the more i wonder if i really am or not. I want a boyfriend, but i dont want to do it. Im so confused. My grades are slipping, me and my mom gets into it. The more i think about it i feel like why am i staying a virgin? I dont know anymore. The things i love to do i dont like them nomore. My friends say im pushing them away.

2007-01-18 08:27:38 · 5 answers · asked by Fallin out of Love 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some help dechiphering my boyfriend. we have a very unconventional relationship. we have been friends for 9 years...had a sexual relationship for 2 years and are now officially on the track to getting married within the next year. He said that he is planning something and I'm having a hard time trying to figure out what his big plans are. He hasn't bought me an engagement ring yet, and I know its not a car....his younger brother is also in on it....and he says its taking him awhile to plan.....having said all of that....be my own personal pyschic and take a stab at what you think he might be getting me.....
this is for entertainment people...be lively.

2007-01-18 08:26:37 · 19 answers · asked by lola 4 in Singles & Dating

ok, I really like this guy, and he says he likes me, but when we started to get to the point when he would ask me out, he backs down and gets all shy. We were suppose to go to the movies last weekend, but he said he couldn't come last minute, and tomorrow we were suppose to go to a school basket ball game, but he said he has to go to his mom's. I'm so confused, what do I do? btw..he's said that he love's me more than once and i said it back..
Is he a lying jerk or is he just seriously shy?

singned confused and sad..

2007-01-18 08:26:00 · 10 answers · asked by {♥} 3 in Singles & Dating

Are you a virgin for religous reasons; or you haven't found Mrs. Right? ...or what?

2007-01-18 08:25:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 6 times, and my husbands always divorce me beacuse I cheated each time with another man and they think I am going to give them STD's. But I think I am different now and I want to find another man to get married to because I really want to be love by a man again but when I tell any guy about my 6 marriages they back off and don't want to be involved with me. I didn't cheat on my 5th marriage though, that was only because I didn't like him like I used to and I wanted a new man.

This isn't fare, because I have change, WHY can't any man understand that? I try to tell them I changed but no man will listen to me. I don't have nearly as many friends as I used to and this is really getting me mad because I cannot find a man. How can I find a man that will love me again? PLEASE, please help me out?

2007-01-18 08:25:01 · 20 answers · asked by Susan H 1 in Singles & Dating

I've seen a lot of wedding cds advertised on tv and in amazon.com, what's the best one for a wedding with a celtic fantasy theme?

2007-01-18 08:24:54 · 5 answers · asked by neve_freak2001 5 in Weddings

hey ok how do you ask someone out that says they are too old for you? he's 16 and I'm 13 and i really like him and he likes me, but he says hes too old for me help me plz.

2007-01-18 08:24:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I work, I also do 80% of the housework. I cook most of the meals. I run the children around to their various sports and activities even though they are technically not mine (step kids).

All I really want from my wife is to let me know that she appreciates this stuff. Specifically, why can't she email me while we are both at work? It takes about ten seconds even if it is a hectic day. Or put on some lingerie for me at night once in a while, or I don't know.

Now, I've spent about an hour and a half this afternoon looking maybe for a magazine article, message board, newsgroup, or some literature on how to deal with this. Everthing on the net is about wives who get taken for granted.

Anyone know of a place I can get advice on this and maybe wake her up a little bit?

2007-01-18 08:24:12 · 12 answers · asked by ReformedTroll A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in NY. I am a single mom to a 6-year old. Dad is not involved, never sees her, though he does pay child support. I was wondering if anyone knew what would happen if, God forbid, I died while she was still growing up. I have a life insurance policy for 500K that she would get (my mom's name is in place too, to take care of that money for her). I am concerned that he could take her, and he would only do it for the money. He lives 4 blocks from us, never visits, still waiting for the X-mas presents he promised to drop by.... I am seeing a lawyer shortly to draw up a will. Any advice on what to do here? She would be in dire straits if she had to live with him. He is also gay, which I dont know would be an issue, either. She would definitely NOT want to live with him. I am stressing over this issue. Thanks for your help!

2007-01-18 08:24:08 · 12 answers · asked by Jay Jay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 08:24:05 · 5 answers · asked by Jamie L 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy friend a lot and we've been good friends for sometime. He is a musician. In his last concert, I gave him a card with a rose picture. After that he told me he was not ready for a relationship. But he said he really glad he met me.

Since that we still hanged out as before. I just dont know what kind of feeling he was towards me. I can see his careness for me. Today we accidentally bunched each other in the subway and he asked me to go to his home which he never asked me before.

I dont know what should I do. Shall I go to his place?Shall I show my care for him as well? I really care for him. But I just avoid caring him too much because I am afraid I will be hurt if he didnt care me as I care for him.

What should I do?

2007-01-18 08:23:53 · 2 answers · asked by mermaidice 1 in Singles & Dating

He really hurt me, broke my heart. Now do I keep in contact with him??? What would you guys do?

2007-01-18 08:22:54 · 19 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

I've always wondered this cause I always thought there was a difference between responsible spender who rewards themselves and a cheapskate. What would those difference be?

2007-01-18 08:22:17 · 15 answers · asked by padiwan2 3 in Singles & Dating

Considering that people who foster or adopt, should people be screened the same way before they are allowed to breed??? ;)

2007-01-18 08:22:10 · 21 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Family

Aj (bf) and I keep fighting and breaking up. And we have been on and off for 5 month. everytime we break up or have a problem I go to his sister(toot) and sometimes she helps fix the problem but lately shes been telling me that Aj likes her friend julia. and she likes him back I have a bad feeling that she dont like me cuz when I was asking Aj about julia he says shes lieing.. and that he was just playing with her and dont like her... but now julia loves aj.. and toot says he likes her.. movin on so ne way i've been breaking up with AJ alot cuz of julia (she'd say things like ooh im gonna get him we're gonna go out and stuff) stuff like that gets to me.. a few days ago AJ told me he was gonna move and go live with his dad... at 1st i didnt care but now i do his friends told me he was crying in school cuz of me cuz i was gonna go out with someone eles and move on.. well thwn he wrote a note and the note kinda go to and made me cry 2 days stright and when i see him i just start crying i dont want him to leave i really like him now and i regret say mean things behind his back and stuff i wanted to write a note and tell him exactly how i feel b4 he leaves so atleast he'll know how i feel should i? and do yall think his sister likes me i dont think so

2007-01-18 08:21:53 · 14 answers · asked by Pookie! 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 5'8", and I've never been taken seriously by a taller woman, but always by shorter ones. Where's the equality in that? I love tall women, and short ones. Shouldn't women be the same with men?
(I live in Manhattan, by the by, if a taller lady would like to have a drink sometime...)

2007-01-18 08:21:42 · 16 answers · asked by Year of the Monkey 5 in Singles & Dating

she said that she like chatting to me and stuff and i don't live far from were she is so what should i do?

2007-01-18 08:21:35 · 6 answers · asked by animalhouser07 2 in Singles & Dating

this will be my first kiss...and probably his 100th
what should i do?
(hes 2 years older than me) I'm a sophmore, hes a Junior

2007-01-18 08:21:29 · 7 answers · asked by cherriesrsweet13@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

first off, i'm 16. there's this guy who i've liked forever, i can never get him out of my head, he is amazing....anyway, i never though he liked me, until the other day he kissed me, with his tongue half way down my throat...LOL....but thing is he's asked me to go out with him....but it's really weird, i don't want to...but still i really really really really like him....i don't get it, why don't i? i've never had a bf before. what do i do? what do i say!!!?

by the way, he's 17.

2007-01-18 08:21:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Boyfriend works evening shifts at his job which means he is at work from 4 to midnight, I also have a meeting to go to that night after I get off work. He hinted toward asking it off and then I told him I had a meeting to go to and he was really disappointed. I wish I could get out of the meeting but it's mandatory. I want to do something really special since it's our first one together. I don't care if we go out or if we buy presents, I just want to do something really special for him. But we won't be together until 9 or 10pm. Any suggestions on what I might do. Should I have him ask it off? Should I do something during the day so he can enjoy it while I am at work? HELP!

2007-01-18 08:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by katiej47 3 in Singles & Dating

there is no point in being just happy with one another, How do you make your man Want to Want you the rest of his life? And how do you keep those sparks flying when you know each other so well?

2007-01-18 08:20:48 · 7 answers · asked by Aussie_chick 2 in Singles & Dating

After my first love and i broke up,we fought for a long time before eventually becoming friends many months later.As time went by,we became closer and closer.We both knew we were still in love but knew it couldnt work out.He was my best friend,and he was there for me all the time,he could put a smile on my face whenever i was down.He reassured me about everything,and i know lots of my friends do,but i truly felt safe.As he helped me through a rocky relationship,he admitted he loved me.I ended up leaving the relationship to see him again,but realised i missed the other guy too much and we were just friends.He hasn't talked to me since,and i didnt mean to hurt him.I thought i could, but i cant cope with not having him in my life.I see him every day,and he's always catching my eye but never speaks.I tried talking via email but he ignored it.Why is he doing this after claiming and i know he did care for so long?

2007-01-18 08:20:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

to tell the truth i was never talked to about sex and the first time i did it it was with someone who didn't do much but put it in and out came and that was it. So now i think that if i do nasty things like give he*d guys might think im a hoe and i do it all the time.but i don't i've actually never done that or anything like that as a matter of fact i just feel like i don't even know how but guys truthfully what do you think of a girl who will do stuff like that with you?Do you think any less of them?

2007-01-18 08:19:39 · 7 answers · asked by amordullce 1 in Singles & Dating