Im 15 years old, about to turn 16. Alot of people say im cute, but i dont think i am at times. Im tall and ill say im thick. Boys only want to talk to me because they want to have sex with me and im a virgin. I told my mom and friends that im Bisexual, but the more i think about it, the more i wonder if i really am or not. I want a boyfriend, but i dont want to do it. Im so confused. My grades are slipping, me and my mom gets into it. The more i think about it i feel like why am i staying a virgin? I dont know anymore. The things i love to do i dont like them nomore. My friends say im pushing them away.
2007-01-18 08:27:38 · 5 answers · asked by Fallin out of Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Sweetheart you are going through such a trying time. You need to find some adult that you feel you can be totally honest with. At this time it doesn't sound like its your Mom, but that is OK for now. Whether you are bi-sexual or not it is not the right time for you to be in a sexual relationship believe me if you lost your virginity right now and the person doesn't stay with you you will feel even worse and confused. I had a teen night club and have given lots of advice to girls in your shoes.
2007-01-18 08:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by KAREN P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur going through the same things i am, except under different circumstances.
there have been people that liked me, but none that i would ever like back, and i'm starting to feel like there's something wrong with me because of it. It seems as if you are not emotionally ready to have sex, which is why you don't want to do it, which in a sense is a good thing because it should be special, not just random. questioning your beauty is completely natural, and you will come to get over it. You're letting your negative emotions get the best of you. My advice, is to stay away from the romantic side of your social life for a while. Occupy yourself with extra cirricular activities, or hobbies, or even just go to the movies with your friends (this will also give you a chance to mend hurt relationships). Join a school club. Do ANYTHING to get your mind off of emotions and romance. You'll be much happier garunteed. You won't have time to worry about a bf/gf, but you'll be enjoying yourself in other activities.
2007-01-18 08:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Trombone_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god - you're only 16 and you're asking why you are staying a virgin? You're too young to be thinking about sex yet. I don't understand why kids are rushing into sex these days, you guys barely have time to experience the thrill of relationships before jumping into sex. I don't get it.
2007-01-18 08:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point and you have reached it things get difficult. I think the main issue here is that you are depressed. Depression can manifest itself in many ways,one of them is not enjoying previous things you liked.
Talk to a dr if you can't talk to your mom. Things could be better for you!
2007-01-18 08:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by gotchagood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just learning what guys and gals are all about. I suggest you just be yourself and enjoy being a teen. If guys only want sex, then move on. You don't need that. Be sweet and kind but don't compromise your values. You will be proud of who you are.
2007-01-18 08:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋