Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

When I was younger my Biological fater molested me until I was about almost 8, I finally told my mom one day and she protected me. My parents had been divorced for a long time before I told her. He never went to Jail and still denies that he ever did this. The thing is I told my last boyfirend about it and when I told him he got really quiet and we didn't talk about it. maybe 2 weeks after I told him he brook up with me, so should I tell my next boyfriend or should I not tell the person I am seeing until I get Married, but then I'm not completley being honest to him, I'm not lying but then I'm not completley telling him everthing about me either. I also don't see or speak to my Biological father, I call him lots of names non of them are my father. So can anyone help.

2007-01-18 08:18:54 · 29 answers · asked by Amber M 1 in Family

she found out (on her own) that I asked/wrote a question and chose the best answer on Yahoo! Answers. The question is about that she tends to get upset about my family whenever she watches a movie with or around them. I chose a person's answer that I should tell her ahead of time of how my family is and is she decides to go then she can't complain. Do you think she was acting "out-of-line" or anything else?

2007-01-18 08:18:52 · 7 answers · asked by bsc_student_08 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 08:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by junebluesnowbord 1 in Singles & Dating

Can a relationship work if there is an almost non-existent sex life, considering we both 17 years old...

2007-01-18 08:18:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know its true

2007-01-18 08:17:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 08:17:54 · 8 answers · asked by karieizzy 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to know how i can gt their attention!

2007-01-18 08:17:35 · 11 answers · asked by bl0w_f1sh_bl0w 2 in Friends

and none of this "everyone is beautiful in their own way" nonsense.

dont forget the why.

2007-01-18 08:17:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a'ight was goodies yo My name is Crystal I'm from Lawrence and I need a man. If your from Lawrence weather its da south or da north side I could go any way. I use to live in north and I'm still getto and grimmy. All u need to b is from da age of 14-16 dats all I'm askin 4. Come on u know u wanna respond if u r???????!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-18 08:16:37 · 1 answers · asked by RED BLOOD 1 in Singles & Dating

He is my best friend. go to school and church together. He is so sweet. the other day he said that if I ever died, he would put a white rose on my grave. a few weeks ago, he showed me a picture of this nebula cloud thing and he said to me "do you think this is pretty?" I said yeah. He said "I think you're prettier. He always talks to me and I eat lunch with him on days that neither of us have meetings. He is very nice to me. I like him he knows i like him. He said he like me a little too, but he likes 3 other girls more than me. He also is just a sweet guy so he is nice to just about everyone he knows. Does he actually like me, or is he just saying he does? And is it ok that I like my best friend? If he does like me, what should I do? (I already asked him out and he said "I will not say yes and I will not say no") P.S. we always pick on each other. I will punch him in the arm and he will take my coat. Or he will put his coat over my head and take my books.

2007-01-18 08:16:25 · 2 answers · asked by Unknown 2 in Friends

I sometimes spy on them while they are in the bathroom.

2007-01-18 08:13:53 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Even though I know I love her, I still feel the need to keep my secrets, I have been throuh 2 divorces and from both of these have been burned badly. I admit I don't tell her everything, and I have not tld her where I live. Is this wrong. I spend as much time as I can with her, but I know I should spend more. I don't want to lose her, but sometimes I feel my fear is causing her to draw away from me.

2007-01-18 08:13:42 · 29 answers · asked by clwilliamsatty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been friends for a year and a half and dating for about 8 months. We both have kids and are at similar places in our lives. What I'm wondering is, because we are 15 years apart, is there any reason why our marriage would or wouldn't work? What are some of the difficulties we might face as we both get older?

2007-01-18 08:12:49 · 24 answers · asked by Mamaof3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i liked this guy and asked him out he said..............wait i said ok.....he came back and said ok since heather and caitlin said no to me i guess your ok! i said nevermind and left but i like him alot and now he is spreading rumors about this and i NEED to get revenge on him.............any ideas

2007-01-18 08:12:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY husband calls me to have a sex but I will feel tired and sleep.

2007-01-18 08:12:39 · 6 answers · asked by sheeb 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd like some examples of custom wedding vows. Anyone write their own wedding vows? If so, what did they say? I just need some ideas, as I am not satisfied with the traditional: "In the name of God, I, __ take you, __ to be my wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do us part. This is my solemn vow." All input welcome, thanks.

2007-01-18 08:12:30 · 13 answers · asked by Desiree 5 in Weddings

my boyfriendf text messages alot with his best friend shes a girl and they know each other since little kids.let say she or he would text messages from 6am till 12pm his in school,and shes in her school.so yeah i kinda get alittle jelouse,they only talk on the phone for 30 minutes or 55 minutes once or twice a week. is this normal?has anyone ever been in this situation.what should i do?i know she doesnt like him.she like some other guy in her school and his very inlove with me.but still it kinda bothers me :( jelouse me...

2007-01-18 08:12:12 · 18 answers · asked by Curiouz 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you a family that could benefit?? Or are you one that enjoys seeing your child rearing/ family communication skills finally explained and understood & executed by those who are in such dire need?

2007-01-18 08:12:07 · 8 answers · asked by celia17 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok. I go to an International School, and there are lots of German boys there. They really annoy me. They call me names in German, when we play 4-square for recess, they get me out on purpose. and, whenever i try to insult them they laugh at me, or when i just say hi they laugh in a mean way.Also, they say i love this kid, which i REALLY dont at all!! They call american girls fat, which im not nor my American friend. some of them even kick me. And the worst part of all--THEYRE 1 GRADE LOWER THAN ME!! it is really bothering me. Ive tried almost everything-ignoring them, trieng to get them back, it just doesnt work. I dont want to pull a huge prank on them or anything, but something so they will LEAVE ME ALONE!!! they r soooo mean i want to...rrr...never mind...PLZ give me some advice here...Nothing stupid plz. THANK YOU SOOO MUCH

2007-01-18 08:11:50 · 8 answers · asked by Tigers Gal! 4 in Friends

I know that I am not the most perfect person in the world, but, I just don't understand life sometimes. My baby daddy and I broke up a month ago. He broke up with me because of some little reasons I don't understand and now he's with some one else.(Got with her three days after we broke up.) Now, he treats me like I'm nothing. Like I'm the scum of the earth. I don't understand it. I really didn't do anything to him, but he's just not all there anymore. I feel like I'm stuck in one place and I can't move on. What did I do. He just hates me. We can't even talk and I feel so depressed because of what he's been doing to me. What can I do to move on? Why is he treating me this way? I am just so hurt and I don't know how I'm supposed to deal with this all anymore. It's too much for me to handle. And, his family is making it even worse for me; they treat me bad too.

2007-01-18 08:11:48 · 44 answers · asked by Stefi13 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she bought them at Walmart and went home.

2007-01-18 08:11:30 · 28 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine uses a handkerchief. He'll blow his nose in it and then put it in his pocket. He will take it out again later, blow his nose in it and put it back in his pocket. And again and again and again. Is it just me or are handkerchiefs just frigging nasty?? We have KLEENEX now. To me, using and reusing a handkerchief is just blowing nasty germs into some fabric, only to get them launched back on you the next time you use it. Not to mention the fact that you are walking around with snot and boogies in your pocket all day.

So then I ask my friend how OFTEN he washes the hanky. Can you believe that he said he will use and reuse the same damned hanky for two days or more??? EWWWWWW!!!!!

Ban hankies now. If you use one, admit it here and please say why you can't just frigging use kleenex like the rest of the civilized world. Also, read the opinions of women here. How many of you girls are totally turned off by some moron honking his nose in his stupid snotrag?

2007-01-18 08:10:58 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Aren't they sometimes just that little bit too hard to deal with???

2007-01-18 08:10:55 · 9 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would u do if u were in my position a couple years ago? the first time we were alone, one of my exs told me that she didnt really like me, but didnt want to be single, even though she really liked my older brother... then i took off running, smashed a calogne bottle over the back of my hand, threw my bike at another one of my best friends, tried to commit suicide by overdose but failed, then realized that she wasnt worth it and gave up on love for a couple of years... so, what would u have done?

2007-01-18 08:10:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told a girl that I like her a "whole lot", but I cannot date her right now. I gave her the reasons, and she said we can "still share a good friendship". After this, we suddenly became very good friends, and she came to know my deepest secrets. Now, I told her I was wrong and we needed to talk. I want to date her, but she is really nervous around me again. Why is she nervous? What may she want?

2007-01-18 08:10:09 · 11 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my bf for 2 yrs..2 months.... and i love him to death...but.. my ex recently started comin to my school..im a junior...we used to go out in 8th grade... and likee..idk i think i have feelings for him...!.. he looks so much better now... and also ..theres this other boy..who i hooked up with ...and i thinki like him 2...but idk ..help me!.. wat do these feelings mean?

2007-01-18 08:09:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 08:08:44 · 15 answers · asked by Richy Rich 66 1 in Singles & Dating

do you tell them that and let them know that you would like to get to know them better but your married, and does anyone have any ideas on what I should do?

2007-01-18 08:08:32 · 7 answers · asked by Maria Laura 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently got rid of my b/f and I am trying to stop thinking about him. I know that we have to go our seperate ways, but I still want to be friends with him. He has a great sense of humor and I enjoyed spending time with him, but there wasn't a future for us. Also, we like to go to the same concerts, what should I do when i see him with someone else? I want to handle this as maturely as possible. HELP!

2007-01-18 08:08:12 · 5 answers · asked by kristinna22 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend has always been my friend but we have so much more in comen than we thought and one day are hands met and we were both speachless. I want to tell him how i feel but what if he gets freaked out. HELP ME!!!

2007-01-18 08:07:49 · 33 answers · asked by Phyched4Christ 1 in Singles & Dating