Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

okay so me and this guy of 1 year and 1/2 just broke up recently... We had a pretty good relationship, problems at times, but it was our insecurities that caused us to break up...We both loved eachother very much, but he has to move a state a way from me, so he figured it would be the easiest way to leave me...

Anyways, so today a girl in my class comes up to me and tells me that he was talking crap about me at a party he went to over the weekend...See the thing is, all of the stuff he said, he has said the complete opposite to me... He told everyone that I was a stalker, psycho, and completely desperate..

I feel like I need to say something to him because we still have a good relationship even after the break up... We plan on both growing up a lot before we get back together, but this just kills me to find out how two faced he is being. So the question here is, should I confront him about this? Or what should I do?

2007-01-18 08:43:18 · 17 answers · asked by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 in Singles & Dating

The sculpter is Michelangelo.

2007-01-18 08:43:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who says if my other friend isn`t on her side she says she will not be here friend!!! I think this is rude & wrong & my friend has been kind of mean to me lately!!! I still want to be her friend but what should I do? No rude answers!!!

2007-01-18 08:43:09 · 1 answers · asked by Tasha 2 in Friends

Mums, did you find that your Man, the Dad changed when your first was born, and Dads, did you change??

2007-01-18 08:42:50 · 17 answers · asked by sandwichbird 1 in Family

you see these georgous girls and they have on tons of make up...i dont like to wear alot of make up and my boyfriend doesnt like me to wear any at all but when i dont i look like i just rolled out of bed! do guys like girls to wear a lot of make up or less?? if you like girls to wear less...why??

2007-01-18 08:42:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance is from Australia and I have never met his parents. I have only talked to his mother couple of times but for only about 2 mins because we both can never think of what to talk about and then have awkward silences which i soo hate. What can I do? They will be here a week before our wedding but I want to get to know them a lil more before that so it wont be as awkard....Hopefully........

2007-01-18 08:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by Oz Lov 1 in Weddings

My friend Keeps kicking me in the balls all the time and Imm trying to leave them alone so I can have CHILDREN

2007-01-18 08:41:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my girlfriend is looking at another guy. i talk to her and she said she understands but i am worried.please answer or IM.

2007-01-18 08:41:43 · 9 answers · asked by gangsta360 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad and rest of the family all live in this small town not far away from each other. Our family's tradition is to visit grandparents more often, even if it is just a "hello-goodbye" kind of visit. Dad is a 78 years old grandpa and very disciplinarian and longs for more attention from kids and grandkids as well. He doesn't drive and when he needs ride, he calls on anyone and everyone to give him a ride and if they are running late for some few minutes, he gets mad and scorns them. Dad complains that these grandkids do not love him and do not even visit him very often. Most of the grandkids have their boyfriends and girlfriends, and they hang around more with them and their families more than their grandparents. How can I mend the gap?

2007-01-18 08:41:39 · 2 answers · asked by light1 1 in Family

I broke up with him two weeks ago. We had got in a huge fight before my grandma passed away and he decided that he needed space. I had figured after a couple days he would know whether he wanted to be with me or not and he still had not decided. I was so frustrated and upset that i decided to break it off hoping that he would realize how important our relationship of two years is. Instead he is emotionally drained and is done. Though we have still been talking except for the past day or so. I had wanted to stop communicating but decided that i love him so much i cant stand it so we apologized to eachother and we have not talked since yesterday. What do i do? I know he still loves me and misses me he told me and when i saw him for the last time on monday he gave me the longest hug and kiss and just held my hand and said he is sorry...HELP PLEASE!

2007-01-18 08:41:23 · 6 answers · asked by TL 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 21 weeks pregnant and have just split up with the father of my child. he kicked me out at 1:00a.m about a week ago. he is a alcoholic and is abussive in more ways than one. he has been arested several times for drunk driving. he has also hit me several times while being intoxicated and sobber. more intoxicated then sobber. he has been known to leave bruises on me and has a very violent temper. i don't want my child going through the same thing and think that it is okay to treat people like that. my ex is also very mentally abussive.

2007-01-18 08:40:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When girls are dating why do they say " oh _____ looks cute togther with _____" But they the person who's saying it goes out with the person.Very confusing but please answer!!!!!!!

2007-01-18 08:40:24 · 4 answers · asked by lilmommy106 2 in Singles & Dating

If they like a guy, why not just stop all the B.S. and tell him for goodness sake???

Guys are lousy at subtle hints, use a ton of bricks that says "I WANT YOU NOW!!!"

2007-01-18 08:40:04 · 21 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Singles & Dating

i like two girls but dont know who to pick.they both like me. when i am going out with my gf and they hear about it they always yell at her and start fights with her. wat do i do?

2007-01-18 08:39:28 · 12 answers · asked by gangsta360 1 in Singles & Dating

Movie night........?
I am having a movie night and I am inviting 6 people 3 girls and 3 guys. But one of the guys hasa girlfriend and I was wondering if it is wrong to invite him to my movie night and I want to though.... And I was wondering what good movies there are that we can watch. And I want them to be for both guy and girl ? Help I need help with my 2 question. thanks!!!

2007-01-18 08:38:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 08:38:02 · 27 answers · asked by Love-L 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my friends just got engaged. Usually I'm happy when this happens but this time I'm not. This guy has gotten physical with her in the past and she would call me every week wanting to break up with him. Now she is going to marry him and she wants me to be in the wedding. I don't feel like I can do that after the things she has told me. What do you do in a situation like this? I just feel like she is marrying this guy just because she wants to get married and he is there.

2007-01-18 08:37:59 · 4 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Friends

2007-01-18 08:36:49 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How young do you think is too young to get married, or to be thinking about getting married?

Do you think I am deluded, believing that I could happily marry already [I am only 21 this year]!

Any stories of young marriages [the good, the bad, & the ugly]?? Just curius....:)

2007-01-18 08:36:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my EX GF and I went out to dinner earlier this week, she had some news for me. She told me that she has met someone, and while they are not an "official couple" she is only spending time with him. I just sat there, listning and waiting for her to finish.
Now, lastnight we talked again, and just making idle conversation she asked me what I was doing with my weekend. I told her that some friends and I were going to go out. Jokingly she asked me if there was going to be a girl there, to which I answerd "yeah, Amber is goign to go". At this news she flipped out, accused me of cheating on her with this girl all along.

Why is it alright for her to date again, but not for me?

Is she just mad that I have "gotten over her" so quick, when it seems that she has done the same?

The only reason that we are still "being friends" is because we have a daughter together, so we are going to be in eachothers lives forever. No reason to hate eachother, or hold grudges.

2007-01-18 08:36:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my bf for almost 4 years now. Things between me & him have changed alot since over 1 year. Seems like we hang out less & less each time. We broke up back in July and got back together Early October. He said he rather we break up and take time off because we were arguing alot but- seems like we don't spend enough time together anymore. I can't get him to tell me what's wrong- what has changed. We don't even have sex like we used to if anything about 1-2 times/week. We don't live together. He's 29 and i'm gonna be 24 next month. he live with his mom still and i share a house with some roomates. I have a 4 yera old boy who i care for & support. What do you think can be?? seems like he's so used to me he doesn't take me out like he used to before. He ahs a ton of friends and i don't who always invite him to get togethers but they're mosly married. every time i bring up marriage he says that we're not ready because we don't make enough money to be able to

2007-01-18 08:35:15 · 17 answers · asked by mari d 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this girl on myspace for a week now and she has shown sign of great interest in me. :P Just to make a long story short lol.

Anyway, Im suppose to call her up for the first time and Im really nervous about this because Im afraid of rejection lol.

So yea, I just want you guys to wish me luck and I can could some tips! like what to do and not what to do.

Any help would be apperciated

2007-01-18 08:35:14 · 8 answers · asked by DarkAaron 1 in Singles & Dating

In Oct. of 2002, I was in a rollover accident while driving truck, I worked on a custom combining crew and had a rollover. Injured my back pretty bad, but since have recovered and am back working again. But during the time after my accident, I had alot of pain and stiffness in my back, so bad that I couldn't even sit up to get out of bed, and my wife helped pull me up to sitting and even helped me to stand up to get out of bed, also helped me to get up out of chairs sometimes as well. I felt really bad like I was like a baby and couldn't do anything for myself, but it really meant alot to me, because she did it and didn't complain about it. She was very loving and supportive and tried very hard to help me to be as comfortable as possible.

Just curious to see what special things your spouse has done for you that you will remember.

2007-01-18 08:34:55 · 10 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

has your ex ever dumped you then called you to go back out again? if so how long did it take for him to ask you back? did you have a feeling that he would come back? did you take him back?

2007-01-18 08:34:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and why you think so.

2007-01-18 08:33:24 · 24 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

this is our fist valentines day i want it to be special what can i do?

2007-01-18 08:32:51 · 3 answers · asked by dopey1212001 1 in Singles & Dating

is it wrong or strange for me to ask a guy to go to winter formal with me i know girls do it all the time but i feel weird doing it first off ive never spoken to him which makes me the strange one i do like him and all and im willing to talk to him but its just that ive never had anything to say to him before and now i do ok to explain myself more clearly...people at my school are what normal people call bad drug abusers loud mouthed unrespectful teens and hes not one nor am i so that makes us the only normal people at school and a couple of others but anyways i dont know how to ask him and i really need some help and wise womenly advice...i want it to be simple yet understandable and hopefully he'll say YES formals like in two weeks or so and im running out of time oh and im kind of shy so that really makes it harder for me to ask him ok well thanks for any help and advice

2007-01-18 08:32:13 · 4 answers · asked by gigi 3 in Singles & Dating

Should I Swallow my anger after catching my boyfriend cheating on me. He does not know I caught him, but I don't know if I should hide my anger and move on.

2007-01-18 08:32:03 · 26 answers · asked by Bri up 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 08:31:30 · 16 answers · asked by tmobile 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 08:31:30 · 28 answers · asked by Rileyhhh 1 in Family