i am 21 weeks pregnant and have just split up with the father of my child. he kicked me out at 1:00a.m about a week ago. he is a alcoholic and is abussive in more ways than one. he has been arested several times for drunk driving. he has also hit me several times while being intoxicated and sobber. more intoxicated then sobber. he has been known to leave bruises on me and has a very violent temper. i don't want my child going through the same thing and think that it is okay to treat people like that. my ex is also very mentally abussive.
2007-01-18 08:40:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No you have to wait until your baby is born. Make sure you get a DNA test so you can get the dad to pay.
2007-01-18 08:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by jennidixon186 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are able to't get a paternity try purely considering you desire one. you will choose some information in hand that he's the daddy that should justify a courtroom ordering the try. as an occasion, he has been dazzling around you telling each and every person the toddler is his and additionally you get carry of witnesses to that result. or you went to the well being care expert and he went with you and he crammed out a sort approximately his kinfolk historic past so the well being care expert could understand approximately skill genetic subject concerns. Or he gave you a card, despatched you an email or in any different case mentioned how proud he became to be a father... on the turn factor, in case you and he broke up and after the destroy up you found out your have been PG and additionally you advised him and he denied it became his infant then you definately get carry of a concern. If he did actually no longer something to point he's the daddy, such because of the fact the above, and in actuality denied he's the daddy to everyone then you definately get carry of a concern. you are able to't purely bypass get a paternity try ordered without some information in hand. If the courts allowed that they you need to declare notably plenty everyone seems to be the daddy and everyone could be project to getting the try carried out purely considering you wanted it carried out. in case you do have some information in hand including above, then whilst the infant is born, you place his call down on the start certificates because of the fact the daddy. Then utilising that, you be conscious for based advantages for the infant via the provider and on the comparable time you bypass to courtroom and ask for infant help. if so he will could desire to tutor he's not the daddy and the only way he can do it incredibly is with a paternity try. He if so will could desire to pay for try himself and if he's definitely the daddy, you're arranged. in spite of if if he's not the daddy, he ought to come lower back once you for falsifying the start certificates and defaming his call. Plus his criminal expenses. You had greater proper be one hundred% specific he's the daddy. (an selection is that if he denies he's the daddy, you are able to have the infant and placed unknown down because of the fact the daddy after which placed the infant up for adoption. the infant would be observed, you will no longer could desire to project approximately helping the infant and he would be completely out of your life and additionally you would be able to start throughout, this time no longer getting PG until eventually once you're married.)
2016-12-14 04:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not collect child support until your child is born. Here in Michigan there are agencies such as WIC (Woman Infant Children) that will help you and also the Family Independence Agency. Look into some agencies in your state/town you will probably find similiar ones. DON'T EVER GO BACK TO THAT GUY!!!!
2007-01-18 11:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Alapooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alimony maybe, but child support no. After your child is born, the judge will order a DNA test, to fully determine the father. After depending on income, he will be assigned child support. By the way,if your ex cant pay for child support, ask for one dollar a year child support, incase he comes across money you will be able to claim it, but if you except a motion of no child support on the grounds he cant pay, than you will be stuck with that judgement and you cant file another motion.
2007-01-18 10:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by beygrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't. But you do want him to sign the Birth Certificate. If he doesn't then you will need a DNA test after the baby is born.And even if you file for child support, it will be hard to get it if he doesn't show up for court.. It sounds like you have a long road ahead of you..Good Luck!!
2007-01-18 08:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by ksk_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot collect child support until your child is born. Call your state agency and women's protective center if you have anything like that. You need to explain your situation to them, I hope they can help you. It takes a strong person to evaluate the situation and know that both you and your unborn child deserve better. Good luck and may God be with you. You keep your head up and don't go back to him, no matter what!
2007-01-18 08:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by rachel_ksr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't want him anywhere near your child. If he pays child support its more likely after the child is born that he will have some kind of visitation. See about state assistance if you are having trouble making ends meet. Stay as far away from him as you can.
2007-01-18 08:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You cannot get child support until the baby is born. I am assuming you aren't married to the baby's father, therefore, any kind of financial support from him is going to be almost impossible at this point. Please don't take this guy back. He will abuse you and potentially your baby. Perhaps you can move in with family or friends until you get on your feet. Good luck.
2007-01-18 08:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad to hear. The answer is no. You have to have proof that he is the baby's father, before you can collect child support. Plus you need to know his social, where he works, how much he makes. So make sure once you have your baby you have all of your information correct and together..
2007-01-18 08:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever go back with this guy. As bad as it might get, know that you are better off without him.
Contact this group.
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/
The Office for Child Support Enforcement
I am sure they will be able to put you in touch with a counselor.
2007-01-18 08:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Monica T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋