If they like a guy, why not just stop all the B.S. and tell him for goodness sake???
Guys are lousy at subtle hints, use a ton of bricks that says "I WANT YOU NOW!!!"
2007-01-18 08:40:04 · 21 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bc we dont like to just say what we want, we want the guys to figure it out. for instance, we dont want to tell a guy to tell us we are pretty, it takes away at the meaning of it.... so we'll hint by saying something like, do i look alright tonight? i dunno, its stupid and moronic, but thats a grand difference between the sexes!
2007-01-18 08:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I think you'll find that in America if a girl doesn't like you she'll just say. There wont be any doubts. It may be a blow to your ego but at least you know where you stand.
Interesting arguement the other way is that I expect us men give out just the same mixed signals.
As for subtle hints. I'd be glad to get them let alone a ton of bricks. Not getting either at the moment :-(
I can also be a flirt though. Do I need to buy myself some bricks perhaps?
2007-01-18 08:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do with bricks what you can do with a feather? The chase is so worth it in the long run. Much is learned by a jaunt thru the woods. I take off running and by the time you catch me (admittedly exactly when I'm ready) we've learned all kinds of things about each other that the direct route would have denied us. Possibly that I don't want you in the first place.
It's an ages old dance you're playing with, Forlorn. Don't rock the floor.
2007-01-19 23:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope this helps you understand.
Flirting is usually considered to be a tantalizing, exciting, stimulating event for both the guy and the girl/woman.
They want tips because they either need help about how to "catch" a guy, or they want the information so they can keep a torch burning within the guy's heart.
2007-01-18 09:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is the difference between how each person feels in their comfort zone. Girls aren't going to just tell him. When you do that, the guy might just stop being interested. Remember he is the hunter. It would be great if we could just tell him. On the otherhand, why is it that men also do their full share of flirting?
2007-01-18 08:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm a girl and I certainly don't ask for flirting tips. If I where to talk to a guy I would talk to him for goodness sake, not fling my hair around hoping he won't look at me like I'm a freak. Flirting is stupid.
2007-01-18 08:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's not that easy just going ohh I love you lets get it on. Life isn't easy, and if you hate it why don't boys just go up to the girl instead because we try hard to flirt but all you guys do is send mixed signals and get OVER you very quickly.
2007-01-18 08:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tips help so much. It gives you an idea of what turns guys on, and gives you an idea of how to dress to attract...if your specific, it might now even be a sexual way to attract!
Tips help girls a lot!
2007-01-18 08:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by CompleteCreation90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tease her and make her laugh thats the best things any guy could do and normally thats what makes a girl like a guy well me at least haha definatly dont play hard to get
2016-05-24 04:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos if the guy dsnt like u and u make i really obvious u then look like an idiot
so we flirt, and if we get a response then we advance
2007-01-18 08:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋