Should I Swallow my anger after catching my boyfriend cheating on me. He does not know I caught him, but I don't know if I should hide my anger and move on.
2007-01-18 08:32:03 · 26 answers · asked by Bri up 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha... the title shows up without the follow up info... and I was like... YES YOU SHOULD!... hahaha... damn, you got me real excited. But now that I've read the entire question (I'm slightly less excited about this question now)...
No you shouldn't. If a dude cheats and you just break up... he hasn't learned anything. What he has done is basically tell you that your feelings dont matter to him. He values his sex life more than he values you... or the respect he should have for you. He should have been a man and ended the relationship if he was losing interest.
The answer is simple. He disrespected you... he didn't value your feelings. He is an a$_hole! To be honest... I'd teach him a lesson (of course I'm a guy so that would mean something like I kick his A(s)(s). As a woman... feel free to sleep with his friend... brother... or father! lol. I'm kind of kidding. But the bottom line is that... if you dont teach him that this crap is unacceptable, he'll do it again to some other nice gal.
I'm sorry this happened, and I wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-18 08:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that even if you swallow it it won't go away and will come back haunting you at some point in your relationship. Sometimes when we keep something inside for too long the smallest thing might trigger you to completely explode and when you do explode he's gonna be confused why you didn't show your anger from the beginning if you knew. Remember this, he's the one who made a mistake and he should be the one to try to make it better, not you. If i were you i would let him know that you know.
2007-01-18 16:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way chick you don't need to swallow that anger at all. He did you wrong and he deserves to get yelled at over it. Then after you yeall at him for a while go find a different guy. He doesnt deserve you what-so-ever. You can find a guy who will only want to share his love with you.
2007-01-18 16:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swallow nothing!! You have every right in the world to be mad and move on. Let him know! He needs to know what kind of pain he has caused you. Move on! You deserve so much better!~!
2007-01-18 16:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, swallow something else but not anger, just confront him and say good bye to him. Good luck.
2007-01-18 16:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, don't swallow your anger, you let him have it and kick him to the curb. If he did it once, he will do it again, trust me.
2007-01-18 16:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Big T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fist of all, why would you still want him after you caught him. Second, I'd be pissed and confront him with it and tell him it's over. You can do better.
2007-01-18 16:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its up to you, he needs to know that you found out and he needs to know what a complete idoit he is. so dont swallow it... shove it in his face then move on - you deserve so much better. he is such a loser!
2007-01-18 16:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hide ANYTHING. you need to tell him exactly how you feel before u dump his sorry butt. u deserve better and to be treated with respect. NEVER put up with anything like that. good luck!!!
2007-01-18 16:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety i found my boyfriend cheating on me and i broke up with him. i found out he asked my real close friend after we just kissed. he left my party and txt messaged my friend asking her out. i found out by her and i txt messaged him and broke up with him.
if a guy cheats on you it isnt right. go up and break up with hislil self az he's a playa or slug. i hate guys like that. once a playa always a playa (or they might change)
2007-01-18 16:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by Eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋