help!!! seriously?

Question

Aj (bf) and I keep fighting and breaking up. And we have been on and off for 5 month. everytime we break up or have a problem I go to his sister(toot) and sometimes she helps fix the problem but lately shes been telling me that Aj likes her friend julia. and she likes him back I have a bad feeling that she dont like me cuz when I was asking Aj about julia he says shes lieing.. and that he was just playing with her and dont like her... but now julia loves aj.. and toot says he likes her.. movin on so ne way i've been breaking up with AJ alot cuz of julia (she'd say things like ooh im gonna get him we're gonna go out and stuff) stuff like that gets to me.. a few days ago AJ told me he was gonna move and go live with his dad... at 1st i didnt care but now i do his friends told me he was crying in school cuz of me cuz i was gonna go out with someone eles and move on.. well thwn he wrote a note and the note kinda go to and made me cry 2 days stright and when i see him i just start crying i dont want him to leave i really like him now and i regret say mean things behind his back and stuff i wanted to write a note and tell him exactly how i feel b4 he leaves so atleast he'll know how i feel should i? and do yall think his sister likes me i dont think so

Answer 1

Its very messed up. Know what, you have to back off and you should force at your school because its important and don't let relationship mess you up. You don't have to listen anyone. YOu have to be single for a while to calm down, so is he too, hes not growing up yet because he might be confused too. If you want him, then you have to talk to him about tell the truth without talk other people behinds you guys back.

Answer 2

Well first of all, his sister may have liked you at first but no sister is gonna keep sitting back and be okay with how you treated her brother. The off and on is too unstable for anyone! I know that because I have two older brothers. I would hook my brother up with someone who was going to do right by him so that is probably where she stands. Next, the games you played are crazy! What you need to do is apologize and tell him that you would rather see him with someone who can make him happy. Dont be selfish! Everyone is not meant to be together no matter how much we love them. So if you write a note let it be a sincere "I wish you the best" note. That is the best thing you can leave him with. Plus if it is meant to be then it will be without being forced. Stay blessed

Answer 3

An effort to part with AJ on good terms would be well spent. But it is obvious that this relationship hasn't been entirely healthy for you. And it seems that you are still rather young, and learning how this game of romance is played.

Tell AJ that it is fortuitous he is leaving, because it would be better for the both of you to cool this relationship. In the future, I would recommend you keep things with other boys strictly casual for a while, before entering into another committed relationship.

As well, it would be best to keep any intimate discussion of your relationships (other than on an anonymous basis, like this) limited only to those you can hold in the strictest confidence. Discussing your boyfriend with his sister is generally not a good idea (due to her conflicted loyalties), unless she is also a very old and dear friend of yours. (And, in that case, you should be cautioned against getting involved with the brother in the first place.)

Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

By all means write him the letter and tell him how you feel. Things may not change, but at least you will know that you apologized and tried to make things right. The main thing is if you do get back together, you cannot keep letting jealousy cause you to break up with him. If you have doubts, you need to talk to him about them. One thing though, if you are breaking up that often and it has only been five months, maybe this really isn't the relationship with you or you really need to learn new ways to deal with problems in your relationships. As far as if his sister likes you, it doesn't sound like she doesn't like you but she would really like him to be with her friend.

Answer 5

You should definitely write him the note. The sister is mean for being that way to you. You should at least let him know how you feel and see what happens. You never know until you try.

Answer 6

Well if its true love it will work out..... But i think you should get your ex and talk to him about everything thats going on you don't need 2 be wasting your time either he likes you or he doesn't and if he really felt it was worth fighting 4 he would show it don't you think... You should move on becuase a relationship in doubts is not one at all... Hope i helped!

Answer 7

It sounds like your relationship han't been steady breaking up every now and then. Tell him how you feel and what you want. If he wants the same thing, it will work if not then don't sweat it. It's his loss, and by the way you don't need his sister to patch things up. You guys need to work on it nor do you need her approval.

Answer 8

Forget him. A relationship that keeps going on and off is too shaky to develop into anything.

Answer 9

i attempted to ask a extreme question the day before as we communicate on right here as i exchange into in misery yet lo and behold, all of us thought i exchange into taking the piss. LOL - you gotta love the people of P&S. it is my very own fault for being such an fool all of the time.

Answer 10

Write him a note so he'll remember you.