Don't guys want the girl to want to have sex with them? This one guy that I have been talking to off and on for a little 2 years keeps begging me to f*ck him. I have told him several times that I no longer want to have sex with him. It's not just with him. I have no interest in doing that with him. Plus I hate the way that he does it. I have told him that I don't enjoy it that way and yet it never changes. Now he asked me to meet him across town and get drunk. The he said that I need to stop denying him, but I don't want to f*ck and I feel as thought he doesn't care about my feelings. Should I go? Why is he pressuring me so much? I just wish he would find some new booty. UGH!
2007-01-18 08:29:37 · 11 answers · asked by The one who knows 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy is using you. He's looking to get sex and sees you as the easy option - his attitude seems to be "She's slept with me before so hey maybe she'll sleep with me again."
You've already told him no, and if he had any respect for you, he'd accept that. Since he doesn't have respect for you, you should have nothing to do with him.
Tell him "no" once more. At the same time, warn him that you don't want him to contact you any more and that if he does, you'll complain to the police.
And if he does contact you, carry out your threat and report him.
You deserve someone who respects you, and who wants sex to be an enjoyable experience for BOTH of you.
2007-01-18 08:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But why are you even confused?
Of course you shouldn't go. You obviously don't like the guy. You have your reasons don't you?
He is pressuring you, because maybe he only feels comfortable with you.
I suggest you just ignore this guy until he quits. Tell him to leave you alone. Maybe even find a new boyfriend, someone who will protect you from him.
2007-01-18 16:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't - because you don't want to. Just follow your gut feeling. If you don't want to, there's no reason you should be pressured. Don't do it. Respect yourself. Ditch the guy - he's a loser.
Anyways, find yourself a new guy who respects you and knows what makes you feel good, and knows how to treat you right.
2007-01-18 16:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the gym, do some crunches, run a little, eat good, lose some weight and make your body tight. Then you wont have to worry about this chump.
2007-01-18 16:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by elrizoymccizoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he sounds like a jerk and borderline obsessive. I'd suggest removing him from you life ASAP. if it gets worse I'd notify the poilice because that's harrasment.
:S Gluck
2007-01-18 16:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by G M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do! Tell him in no uncertain words how you feel! Then stand your ground girl!
2007-01-18 16:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
cut all communications with this guy. Bad news
2007-01-18 16:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by just1more 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump the immature punk he is not worth the time
2007-01-18 16:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by bone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl please thats easy..we have control of who f*ck or eats our p u s s y...you dont want to f*ck him then there aint s h i t he can do about it....just beg..
2007-01-18 16:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHY YOU GAVE HIM THE *** IN THE FIRST PLACE..... THATS ON YOU GIRL..
2007-01-18 16:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by MADNESS!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋