My girlfriend just told me that we should just be friends. I know now that she is using annother guy to make me jelous. I dont want to do that to her. I truely belive that she still likes me more than a friend. What are some ways to win her back?
2007-01-18 07:52:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is trying to make you jealous then if you showed her that you are not the jealous type then perhaps if she was still interested in you she would run back to you to find out why you are not chasing her. If she doesn't come back then you don't want her. It's very difficult to be just friends if you have had a more intimate relationship.
Even if you are still interested in her you must let go if she doesn't react to your lack of attention.
What was it that made her try to get you to be jealous, think about how you treated her and she you.
Your age, her age and how long you have been together are all significant factors on how your relationship has formed and how it has broken down.
If you are both young then put this relationship down to experience and move on.
If you feel that there is hope, try to mend the relationship but don't persist if you know deep inside it won't work because you will only be tormenting yourself.
It is good to have a few relationships before you commit to one person. Eventually you will find the person to be with, one that is caring a loving and has the maturity to communicate with you and let you know how she is feeling without making you jealous.
She may be insecure with your relationship and is doing this to see what your reaction will be.
I don't know her like you do so you must work out what her motives are.
2007-01-18 08:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
You really want to get her back?Then move on.
She's trying to play you or rather she IS playing
you.Give her some of her own medicine.If she
says she just wants to be friends, then be friends.
Tell her all about your new singles life.Go out
with your friends and don't include her.Give her some time alone with her little game.Once she See's that she not getting the reaction from you
she wants,she'll be back.However dude,if this girl
is intentionally hurting you, then maybe you should take a little time and reevaluate if this is
person you need in your life.Some one who genuinely cares about you wouldn't be so careless with your heart.
2007-01-18 08:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by VooDoo Kydd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude she told you in a nice way that she was breaking up with you. "I want to win her back" is so pathetic find a new girl that is better looking with a better attitude. Your ex will respect you more if you just let her go. Remember the good times you and her had and all the things she said to you, then put it all behind you and move on. experience
2007-01-18 07:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Roger J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out WHY she said that in the first place.
Maybe she doesnt want as much commitment with you, as you want with her, in which case it is good that you two be separated.
Maybe she is more impressed with the other guy, in which case it is likely best to let her go.
Learn from experiences, and dont make the same mistake twice. But in order to learn, you have to understand how you erred--
Maybe you didnt err at all.... you have to ask her!!
Say: Honey, why can't we be more than friends?
2007-01-18 07:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Yentl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want someone who would stoop to such lengths as to use someone else to make you jealous. You sound like a nice guy and you can get a nice girl. She'll soon see that you can't play games with another's emotions, but you'll be on to better things. Good luck!
2007-01-18 07:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by WhiteChocolate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a test, wait her out a little while. See where it goes. Leave it somewhat open for her to come back to you! Be nice and be her friend and don't show her that it bothers you in the least. If she really wants you, she'll come back>
2007-01-18 07:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best Advice i can give...just leave her alone and act like you dont care one way or the other if she still likes you and cares for you she will see that it doesnt bother you because you just want her to be happy in whatever she's doin..so just chill for awhile and remember theirs always more fish in the sea.
2007-01-18 07:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you actually love this girl? She may not be just "using" this other guy, but actually dating him. Let her alone for awhile. Hang out with other friends, go on dates with other girls. See if she comes back.
2007-01-18 08:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by hotlips_hc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give it just a lit more time before you try anything.
If wanna do something now...you can do something very unique or romantic to show your thinking of her. Maybe...write her a note and fold it into a flower. Something along those lines.
2007-01-18 07:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Elle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be honest with yourself - if she really wanted to be more than just friends she NEVER would have had that talk with you! Just let it go and move on - her feelings about the relationship have changed.
2007-01-18 07:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋