Why is it so difficult to meet & date professional women without getting bored out of my mind?

Question

They seem uptight & boring... I know this is a generalization, but I have no problem hooking up w/ chicks that have little direction in life.

Add't Info: I myself work in management for a large company, so why are the women I meet and seek tend to be complete opposite?

Answer 1

Women who are truley professional are the ones that have had to give up all the parties and going out. They've given up most of their life to be professionals. You should remember that. Most professional women don't hang out in bars, so you can't have your cake and eat it too.

Answer 2

They're probably up tight and nervous. I'm sure after a few dates they would loosen up. They're probably afraid that you'll think they're immature since you seem to have such a professional job. The bubbleheads don't care, plus you may be more loose around them. Next time to take a professional woman on a date, go someplace that's completely out of professonal arena. Like a rock concert or something. Maybe a dive bar for a burger. If she's fun after a beer or two. You found a good one.

Answer 3

The fact that you don't have a ton of time indicates why you may be having a difficult time finding the right woman. I would suggest you concentrate your efforts on your grad school. After completion and your time is freed up a little, take more time doing the things you really enjoy doing. Any kind of hobbies or skills that really appeal to you. Chances are that you'll find a compatable mate doing the exact same thing that you enjoy. There's nothing more satisfying than being able to share a treasured activity or activities with someone you love. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

you must be picking the wrong professional women. Women with no direction will act fun and exciting because they have no direction and are looking for a rich, successful man to carry them through life so they do not have to work hard to get ahead... Many professional women do not feel they have to put on heirs and lay it on thick because they can support themselves and feel they do not have to rely on a man for a good life.... there is your difference...

Answer 5

First its probably you being judgmental. Secondly, its obvious that you want a woman who is more free or outgoing. You seem to be confused on what you want from a woman. The best way to figure this is out is to put it on paper. Draw a line down the center of a piece of paper. On one side put what you like in a woman and on the other put what you dont and then use that as a reference to what you want in relationship

Answer 6

Alright cluster,
I want you to dig deep in your mind and ask "Why do I find this woman so boring?" and the answer will not be clear at first, until you realize that you are looking down her blouse. You, my friend, are only sexually attracted. You need to keep in mind that if you think the woman is boring, and you are out with her, you are only there for the poon. If you wish to have good conversation, look for it.

Answer 7

mostly because they are career oriented and have thier focus on thier goals? but i'm sure that there is one out there for you somewhere. how about meeting women from different sources than your used to? that might help if they are in a different type of profession.

Answer 8

professional = boring

wanting money and cars and a large house, etc.


its like they are dead already

buying useless crap, having to work 70 hours a week to buy MORE useless crap

look for the one who wants to stay in bed and be held, then give her everything

Answer 9

You need to look for their wild side. They don't know how to release that side of themselves without being afraid to lose their professional look and demeanor. Just be the bad boy and try to talk them into doing something kinky. Trust me, it ill work.

Answer 10

you're obviously looking in the wrong places - there are intelligent business minded career oriented women everywhere you just gotta start looking in the right places.