My first real boyfriend, who claimed that he loved me, took my virginity and then suddenly left me just two months afterwards. He is one of my cousin's best friends, but I never told my cousin about the break-up details because I don't want to hurt him, since I know he doesn't have that many real friends. This was a few years ago and I still haven't forgiven my ex (I see him about once a year). He has not apologized. What should I do to get past this?
2007-01-18 07:55:54 · 8 answers · asked by Kerosa S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your first time is something hard to forget.
Although most of us, I think would LOVE to forget ours!
Because he left you high and dry, you feel resentment towards him,naturally.
You have to take the high road, you know that you will never forget what he did to you, but you should try to forgive.
You we both probably were young, and didn't know what you were getting into.
Avoid that once a year, if you can.If you can't then let him know that although you still think that he is a dog, you forgive his immaturity.
If nothing else it will make you feel better because you called him out, and kept your self-respect in doing so.
2007-01-18 08:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just get past it. Everyone has had someone dump them, it hurts, but I am sure you learned something. Boys will lie and say they love you to get in your pants!! Don't fall for it the next time...unless you want to! Leave your cousin out of it...the less said the better.
2007-01-18 16:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone someday that will love and respect you. This is when you will get passed the past and realize you are way more important than something that happened a long time ago.
2007-01-18 16:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Whatever he has done to you will in turn happen to him so you don't need his apologies. Live life and put the past, past. Stay true to you and live life. He's not worth it.
2007-01-18 16:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best response to people treating you badly is to live on happily without them in your life.
2007-01-18 15:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to forget about him he wasn't worth it in the first place take it from me guys just dont understand anything about keeping a girl happy
2007-01-18 16:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by ruby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just forgive; and start over.
2007-01-18 16:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to forgive him? He is your ex... and a jerk at that!
2007-01-18 16:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by CEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋